Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017 / 2018 / 2019

[borg69unimatrix]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

FUCK...I don't know how long my rope is but I am afraid I might have nothing left of maybe just an inch or so before I blow...

My husband finally blew his fuse a couple years ago and I spent alot of time and energy reeling him back in..the problem is I am alot scarier than he is when I blow....and he can't reel me in with any guarantee of success...

The problem...we have three friends with SEVERE OCD. One lost his job due to it..as a college professor and has no effect on us...another I just hold my breathe and hope I can work my way out of whatever "situation" happens and I have to repeat the same assurances 100 times...but the third one...UGH....I am getting really pissed off now. He keeps pushing it...like telling me how to write now because I need to make the circle in my cursive "e"s wider....and I am fucking furious that he pushes his bullshit on me without any clue. He nitpicks and cusses about everything...he has gotten me in trouble with his need to challenge everything and everyone on everything over the years and I had to try to explain the nature of OCD. Funny thing..as much as he criticizes EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE...he cannot handle ANY real or perceived criticism himself which is odd as fuck to me...as much as he dishes out that he can't take it???????????

So..for years and years I have excused him and reminded myself he can't help it..he has severe OCD...but it keeps getting worse...and my patience is running out finally. Everyone else complains about him and I wont' join in..which is why I am doing it here. Hopefully my steam has lost a bit of pressure now...

You have a huge amount of empathy and take on others' problems as if they were your own. You're a good friend whom likes to help and likes to fix things. You take on too much, at the detriment to yourself. I remember having a similar conversation with you before about your empathy and getting overly involved (probably at GS). *wink*

 

[eastofeden]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

You have a huge amount of empathy and take on others' problems as if they were your own. You're a good friend whom likes to help and likes to fix things. You take on too much, at the detriment to yourself. I remember having a similar conversation with you before about your empathy and getting overly involved (probably at GS). *wink*

Thanks for the reminder Borg!..fixing things is so automatic for me..and it never even occurred to me to just back off a bit and detach....nothing I can do to change the OCD but I really don't want to make him feel like shit because I know he can't help himself.

Sometimes when he has gone off on a tangent he comes to me with a sincere apology and I just tell him...."get it out baby..I know you need to do it so just let it rip and we will move along..eh?" ...but the cursive "e" thing and making the hole in the "e" bigger...UGH..fuck...

 

[frankfrank]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

You have a huge amount of empathy and take on others' problems as if they were your own. You're a good friend whom likes to help and likes to fix things. You take on too much, at the detriment to yourself.

Yes, it's a double-edged sword, and I can confirm that with my own experience because I have a sizable amount of that same trait myself.

I don't even need to talk to eastofeden, though, to be convinced of knowing AS FACT that he wouldn't trade that trait away for the world. Especially with what is going on politically now, it can be very difficult when I know that there are many people I care about who are being threatened with harm in very real ways. That is still not enough for me to wish I didn't think that way, and I don't see that changing.

 

[Alistair]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

There's a bunch of people that are really starting to piss me off

 

[Charon]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I wish my brother and his girlfriend were more discreet while they're banging. Hearing a woman's moans in pleasure while I'm trying to masturbate is a bit of a turn off. Fuck I need a boyfriend.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Love working at incompetent work places.

Finished what was left of truck from yesterday and did a few other things today, things I was told to do by one of the managers. There was still overstock from the truck left over from yesterday. The store Manager wasn't pleased about this.

He complained because there would be no stocker in tomorrow and that we would have to do it before the truck Sunday. I'm not even in Sunday either.

Usually there are 3 stockers for truck but he hasn't been scheduling me on Trucks lately, maybe 1 a week. So is it my fault that I wasn't there on truck yesterday and no one is scheduled tomorrow to finish up over stock? Nope. Either schedule somebody, get someone from a different store or get someone that is in tomorrow to do it. Not my fucking problem.

 

[opinterph]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

There was still overstock from the truck left over from yesterday. The store Manager wasn't pleased about this.

Does that mean the truck delivered more stuff than you ordered?

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Does that mean the truck delivered more stuff than you ordered?

It's a combination of what we ordered, a lot of things getting sent because of a sale and we got a bulk of stuff that we needed a while ago that just got sent to us now all at once. Plus we have a specific way corporate wants us to do the stock room, so we can't put the over stock away right away because it would take too much time away on the delivery day.

 

[opinterph]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

It's a combination of what we ordered, a lot of things getting sent because of a sale and we got a bulk of stuff that we needed a while ago that just got sent to us now all at once. Plus we have a specific way corporate wants us to do the stock room, so we can't put the over stock away right away because it would take too much time away on the delivery day.

Ouch!

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Ouch!

Yep.

I think the way they want us to do the back stock room makes everything take longer, but not much I can do when working a high volume store that gets a lot of visits from DMs and corporate.

 

[opinterph]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Is the attention to detail in the stockroom related to security -- or more a need to tie everything together in a computer database?

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

why do good people get sick and die while these assholes walk around healthy as a fucking.. something that has a great constitution.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Is the attention to detail in the stockroom related to security -- or more a need to tie everything together in a computer database?

Neither actually. The way they want to stock room done is for both efficiency when having to work it and to make it easier for non-stock employees to be able to find products for a customer when a shelf is empty. Food for instance, brands have to stay together and then if there is multiple of one specific flavor, based on how many there are, it gets stacked from bottom up.

In theory this sounds great, in practice, not so much.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I really want to get my cat Ivy another friend but Tony is worried about my allergies and says even if we did get another pet he wants a dog.

But I've gotten attached to Lilly, Mason and Midnight at my store. He asked me how I would choose just one, I said I wouldn't I would take all 3 .

I told him I made my bed with becoming a crazy cat person.

 

[Cormac135]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

why do good people get sick and die while these assholes walk around healthy as a fucking.. something that has a great constitution.

Ox.

.............

 

[gsdx]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I told him I made my bed with becoming a crazy cat person.

My cats are pretty-much independent of each other and Samwise knows her place in the household. Boots more-or-less determines where Samwise can and cannot be. They leave each other alone for the part, but, occasionally the motherly instinct kick in and Boots will groom Samwise. Other times, Samwise just gets a swat from a motherly paw and quickly finds somewhere else to be.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

My cats are pretty-much independent of each other and Samwise knows her place in the household. Boots more-or-less determines where Samwise can and cannot be. They leave each other alone for the part, but, occasionally the motherly instinct kick in and Boots will groom Samwise. Other times, Samwise just gets a swat from a motherly paw and quickly finds somewhere else to be.

That's cute.

We were told at the shelter she wouldn't get along with other cats, but I don't know how they could determine that when a lot of the times it just takes time with pets getting along.

Some times I think she gets bored and that's one of the reasons why I want to get her a friend. Plus I feel for black cats, which we have 2 at work and want to adopt one.

 

[gsdx]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

^ They're really quite independent, and your own cat may find the new cat an 'intruder'. Just be aware and don't be too disappointed if they don't become buddy-buddy.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Oh boy did I fuck up.

Met people for the first time last night to make friends, we went to a gay club and one of the guys I went with bought me drinks. I got really drunk and just left without saying a word. No thanks no nothing, I'm a huge asshole for it but there's nothing I can do but apologize.

Ugh, fuck alcohol.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

So after watching Okja Tony decided to not have meat for a day and also plans to try an eat less of it as well. He doesn't plan to become a vegetarian or anything, but I still think it's awesome.

If only more people followed suit.