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Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017 / 2018 / 2019

Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

medic1 said:
Well, that is my first major "conflict" with G. He is staying the night at a friends. The reason? I believe that as a bisexual man his basic" primal" need to procrate is stronger. While i think that in general "most" gay man are happy being an uncle.

This was the main reason why we spoke not just for hours, to days, but days to weeks.
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Jeez guys.

Is it like a full moon or something?

Hopefully you can resolve the difference. I'm not sure that I totally agree with the hypothesis, having known some straight guys with no biological imperative to pro-create.

And I've known a few gay guys who were desperate to create a mini-me.

Perhaps this is a manifestation of other unresolved issues?
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I just know that if this is really over for me, I think I'll be done with relationships.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

"We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us."

-Joseph Campbell

Once I accepted the power of these words, and let go, I've never been happier. My life is still not perfect, not by a long shot, but it is perfect for me. And now, with experience, I can look back and see every dark cloud really did have a silver lining. My faith in a greater power has never been stronger. "A loving God knows best."
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

rareboy said:
Jeez guys.

Is it like a full moon or something?

Hopefully you can resolve the difference. I'm not sure that I totally agree with the hypothesis, having known some straight guys with no biological imperative to pro-create.

And I've known a few gay guys who were desperate to create a mini-me.

Perhaps this is a manifestation of other unresolved issues?
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Oh, i can see where you are coming from, and i am in total support of that. Which is why i made a point of stating "most"

Nope, honestly no unresolved issues at all. We do truly love each other. Even so, there are times where i wonder if he will ever regret not being a father.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I have to say that I am super grateful that I have the cat that I do, I have been laying in bed a lot on my laptop the last day or so and she's been with me almost the whole time. Her little comfort is amazing and right now she is watching me post this.

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Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

^ I'm so sorry to read about this, MDL. I assume that it was a "wonderful try" and I'm hoping that both of you, whether as some kind of future friends or entirely apart from each other, can think back on the relationship that you had, and be thankful for the best aspects of it, such that you can remain thankful even a decade from now, and longer.

Relationships do take a lot of thought, and I'm working on one myself, right now.

I don't think I've ever addressed you directly before, but my hopes for you, as a result of what you guys did have, and with hopes you can always retain the best parts of that experience, are very real.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I feel like I might be annoying people with all the writing I have been doing, with posts and my blog now. I just need to write things down whether people want to read it or reply to it or not. It's like everything I say now to almost anyone is a fucking land mine that I don't realize I am laying, even though I have good intentions with these things.

Seriously thank god for music right now or I would already be off the deep end.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

mikey3000 said:
"We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us."

-Joseph Campbell

Once I accepted the power of these words, and let go, I've never been happier. My life is still not perfect, not by a long shot, but it is perfect for me. And now, with experience, I can look back and see every dark cloud really did have a silver lining. My faith in a greater power has never been stronger. "A loving God knows best."
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Whatever gets you thru the night...

 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I really want the universe to do its job.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Well, we're officially over. I think from now on, I'll refrain from using the phrase "forever" in a relationship, because you don't ever really know what is going to happen. And that's if I am even ever ready for another relationship. Some times you don't really know how fast things happen.

Time to start a new chapter I guess.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

This pic was taken in London earlier this evening (about 8:45) outside the Festival Hall looking over the river towards Charing Cross.


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Since when did the sun set in the north! Why can't they just leave everything like it was?
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

MakeDigitalLove said:
I feel like I might be annoying people with all the writing I have been doing, with posts and my blog now. I just need to write things down whether people want to read it or reply to it or not. It's like everything I say now to almost anyone is a fucking land mine that I don't realize I am laying, even though I have good intentions with these things.

Seriously thank god for music right now or I would already be off the deep end.
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Go ahead, that's what the thread is for
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

I honestly don't know why people feel comfort in doing so, but I unfortunately get this a lot. I was working with a girl at work yesterday and out of the blue she just up and decided mid conversation about nothing related how she feels about black people. Why have I been cursed to deal with people who apparently find comfort in expressing their racism to me?

She proceeded to tell me she is mixed race as maybe an attempt to make it seem "okay." Over the years this has went from an awkward situation to just almost expectant of most people that I talk to at this point.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

^ I feel entirely comfortable about discussing the complexities of race, even with somebody who might be a "black militant." I think I'm coming "from the good place" and, if in some ways I'm not, being corrected is a good thing.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Thank the Fucking Universe and whatever God exists for letting Kamala Harris represent California.....

I am appalled by the man in the Oval Office and all his fucking minions....but at least I get to hear my voice reflected in my Senator...so I thank her...and she has my deepest respect....
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

frankfrank said:
^ I feel entirely comfortable about discussing the complexities of race, even with somebody who might be a "black militant." I think I'm coming "from the good place" and, if in some ways I'm not, being corrected is a good thing.
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I should have clarified, she talked about how she didn't like black people. I don't mind talking about race when it's not someone being racist, but for some reason people feel comfortable with me when it comes to exposing their own racism.

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As for today I understand why I am seeing pictures of my Grandfather posted, but it's becoming a bit much. My Grandparents on my Mothers side meant so much, they are people I will never forget even though my Grandfather particularly wasn't perfect. They post pictures of him regularly and I have never gotten over his or my Grandmothers death. I just don't understand this constant need to post their picture on a weekly basis at the least.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

Think I am going to transition to vegan soon.

Was chatting up a vegan on Growlr this morning and we were talking about it. Told me a lot of the health issues he had and how his transition from meat-vegetarian-vegan significantly helped a lot of his health issues. He also showed me pictures of before and after, the change was pretty incredible.

I've always dabbled with this transition but talking and seeing this guys change, has pretty much convinced me.
 
Re: Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2017

MakeDigitalLove said:
Think I am going to transition to vegan soon.

Was chatting up a vegan on Growlr this morning and we were talking about it. Told me a lot of the health issues he had and how his transition from meat-vegetarian-vegan significantly helped a lot of his health issues. He also showed me pictures of before and after, the change was pretty incredible.

I've always dabbled with this transition but talking and seeing this guys change, has pretty much convinced me.
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Hopefully it works out for you! Changing diet is often strange and physically uncomfortable when taking health issues into account. My body doesn't work on vegan, been tried once before through no fault of my own, I do decently with the mostly vegetarian but not-quite-there option.
 
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