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just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

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Fuji,

remember that the bottom line here is that words are just fucking words

You can/do assign how much pain or good advice You receive here. It

is all opportunity to learn. Select what works for you, delete what does

not. In english...if it doesn't seem dope they can piss up a rope.

You got certain people on would never steer you wrong.
 
Oh shit! I'm in trouble. I set the oven to clean tonight (cause my lasagna overflowed) and as per Murphy's Law, the smoke alarms are going off every few minutes. This was my wife just a few minutes ago :grrr:.
 
Some times the alarms are easier on the ears

than the partners are. I usually just smle,

look kind of helpless and say that I'm never going

to try something like that again. That usually gets

an attitude adjustment or 2 nights in the guest room.
 
My uncle worked in Baku, Azerbaijan! :lol:

This was about in 2003/2004 - he was contracted out there like a lot of oil workers were. My auntie tried living in a house over there with him for a while. Their only social company was the other ex-pats. The other workers mostly stayed in a compound.

She said the Azerbaijani women would often give her dirty looks and even spit on the ground as she walked past in the streets. She didn't stay that long.

But my uncle raked in a large salary for going out there.
 
oh god. :( what have i done? here i am looking for help and i have the option to get it. i'm worried about how my parents and everyone else will see me. :( get the chance to speak with a psychiatrist and etc. do i REALLY need to get the help though? can't i just live with it? i literally want to bite my finger for real.
 
refujiunderground said:
oh god. :( what have i done? here i am looking for help and i have the option to get it. i'm worried about how my parents and everyone else will see me. :( get the chance to speak with a psychiatrist and etc. do i REALLY need to get the help though? can't i just live with it? i literally want to bite my finger for real.
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What do you have to lose? You don't listen to sound advice from anyone else... what's one more person's opinion to disregard??? ;)
 
borg69unimatrix said:
What do you have to lose? You don't listen to sound advice from anyone else... what's one more person's opinion to disregard??? ;)
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it's not that. it's that the fact that although this might be what i need. what if this does more harm than good? a part of me feels too tired to go too. i feel like i want to go to sleep. maybe it's the stress. it just scares the shit out of me.
 
Schrodinger's Cat...



... quit stalling and bellyaching and dramatizing everything and just go DO it ! :D
 
Get up off your lazy angst laden ass and go.

Fuck what people think about you...

First, they ain't you

Second, it ain't their fuckin business.

Third, if you don't tell the Doc won't.

Fourth...see all of the above.

@Borg...
You got to be gentle buddy. These fragile souls
need to feel mollycoddled first.
 
I just feel super irritated...internet is slow, keyboard is having problems, twitter is a disappointment, and to top it all an ex wants to open up old wounds.

GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!
 
refujiunderground said:
oh god. :( what have i done? here i am looking for help and i have the option to get it. i'm worried about how my parents and everyone else will see me. :( get the chance to speak with a psychiatrist and etc. do i REALLY need to get the help though? can't i just live with it? i literally want to bite my finger for real.
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Please, RJ...just do it. (Uh-oh, the Nike people are gonna be swarming all over JUB with copyright infringement lawsuits, because I just used their slogan.)

Seriously, if I lived within an hour or so from you, I would have been in contact with an offer to go there with you, and wait in the lobby while you're in the meeting. I support this idea completely and unconditionally. I've been known to do this sort of things a few times in the past when the circumstances came up (such as when somebody had a doctor appointment or dentist appointment or anything else that was scaring the Bejeebers out of them). Sometimes it can be a great thing for a sincere and listening "ear" to be there directly after the fact (the consultation or appointment) is finished.

How people will see you? For one, in my case, I'll see you as a stronger person, somebody who genuinely is seeking relief, a person worthy of respect, a person who remembers what courage means, and a person who is taking the first and biggest step toward fighting personal demons. You've seen this here in JUB before and, no doubt, IRL as well.
 
since there's a lot of people to quote and i'm trying to finish with something else. i'll just keep it short.

thanks for all the support, guys. went over to the psych er to do the whole pre screening evaluation thing. the thing was it was taking a bit too long so after doing all the paperwork and waiting for awhile, i left and went to finish whatever i had to do. i had to meet my brother back home at 6ish to go to the gym. i do have an appointment with a therapist on wednesday morning at 9 though. the nice receptionist was able to hook me up with that. :p have to do all the charity care paperwork tomorrow. might get lucky and get a chance to meet the psychiatrist on wednesday too if someone cancels out but the earliest is by january which is also not far from now.

as for the program, it's two types. the 3 day one and the 5 day one. you have to do the prescreening first and then you get to meet with the psychiatrists and therapists to get evaluated to see what's wrong and you get medication. the only issue is the transportation getting there. the first day is 8:30 to 3 but after that, it's 10 to 3. it's not easily accessible by bus at all. it's basically a good one to two hours by bus.
 
refujiunderground said:
it's not over yet though. :( hope this doesn't turn out to be a regret.
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I'm not sure what you have in your mind as to what horrible thing could suddenly explode on you and mkae this a regret, but stop giving it so much thought. If you're certain something horrible will happen you'll probably find something to interpret that way.
 
it's absolutely IRRITATING how i can't seem to be able to get my hands across a link to a porn that i want to download really badly. :grrr: i hate it whenever i see a gif of a hot guy or a hot scene or a photo of a hot guy and i can't find the video where the gif came from or the name of the guy so i can search for more pics of him.

even right now, i'm searching for this porn that this guy is in. i really want to jerk off to it bad and i've even jerked off to the 1 minute preview of him getting impaled raw. it came out about a year and some change ago. been looking and i can't seem to find anything. it has to be around somewhere. just one link so i can stroke my dick because he sucks as a top. i can't see him hitting it from the back. he has a nice ass. he doesn't bottom enough and the porn i've been looking for since the top of this year, there's a good shot of him from the side. *|* i LOVE downloading because it doesn't make sense to pay for a membership when there's only like 1 good flick out of 20 or the site stops updating and they're basically pac-manning my money. hell no.
 
loki81 said:
love my coworkers.

spend all day working on a project, forget to take 10 seconds before leaving to let the client (or anyone else) know the actual status of it.
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what type of work you do btw?
 
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