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just venting, airing out, talking shit, personal beefs, problems, anger management, and etc thread

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GiancarloC said:
Refuj... take action and do something. I live on my own. Sure there are some bills, but I did get a good deal on an apartment. I'm sure there is something you can afford in a good place. And i'm sure with a college degree, you could get a better job than making minimum wage. Maybe put the idea of a relationship on hold until you get settled in a job.

And $600/month is expensive? I must have been in LA too long. I'm paying $695/month for a 600 square foot studio... it's nice, and that's considered a bargain here.
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i have a bachelors degree in criminal justice with no experience in my field in an area which has a high unemployment rate and everybody is basically competing over any job opening because there is little to none in my field. i fucked up some job opportunities that i had such as us customs, my township's police exam and the nj state troopers application. i pretty much am fucked for the most part with the law enforcement thing which is why i'm planning on going to law school. my degree isn't going to cut it if i'm looking for a serious job. either that or i join the military. i actually tried to get a job in the department of corrections, did the test and everything but being that there's a waiting list that stretches for some years in order to get to the academy if i make it that far. same thing with all the nj police exam where there's a waiting list, it's NOT going to work. i can't wait another year to get things going or rely on things in this state to pick up. i need to make something happen now.

i pretty much have to get cracking now with it. finding any job wouldn't be a headache but finding a career job with the degree i have isn't something that i can rely on at all at this point.
 
Hey fellow Whovians, are you guys watching Orphan Black as well ? Im very excited about that too.
 
today in stupid fags: a guy wrote me on a dating site and attached a picture - supposedly of him. a very handsome ginger dude... with a big fat "deposit photos" watermark on it. i guess this is more funny than infuriating.
 
hylas said:
today in stupid fags: a guy wrote me on a dating site and attached a picture - supposedly of him. a very handsome ginger dude... with a big fat "deposit photos" watermark on it. i guess this is more funny than infuriating.
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Oh yes. The people that plagiarize by claiming other's images as their own are the ones that get immediately sent to recycle bin. I get a chuckle out of it now it but on the inside, I just have to think how shallow they have to be to pretend to be something they are not when especially, if we plan on meeting up, I will find you that pic is clearly not you.
 
^ its a source for stock photos.

^^ yeah, fakers are stupid... but faking it with a picture that basically has "this is fake!" literally written all over it is a whole new level.
 
If I ever need validation again that paparazzi are literal vultures, there is this video...

 
hylas said:
today in stupid fags: a guy wrote me on a dating site and attached a picture - supposedly of him. a very handsome ginger dude... with a big fat "deposit photos" watermark on it. i guess this is more funny than infuriating.
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You should totally string him along for a bit, mostly to teach him a lesson, and partly for the LULZ.

For example: Tell him you want to video chat with him on Skype. Watch as he tries to come up with some elaborate BS so he can watch you without revealing himself on cam. I've have so many guys pull that stupid shit on me, and I still never get tired of hearing all the ridiculous excuses they come up with. (!)
 
"hey, thanks for the compliments! im sorry, im not interested in you... but if you happen to have the digits of the guy on the picture you sent me, can you pass them on? love, hylas"
 
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bet kurt wouldn't be saying that if he was a virgin.

dude was HOT btw and he was a fucking closet case. he most definitely wasn't straight. he probably came out to michael stripe who spent some time with kurt before he died.
 
each day you get another chance to live life, a piece of you dies until the grand finale. honestly, as long as you get a chance to enjoy life where you get a chance to have fun and live a little bit, it doesn't matter if you live fast and die young. at least, you lived it. if i had a chance to see my future and saw that what lied ahead was nothing but misery and depression where i had NO fun at all where i could feel all wonderful, i would spare my family and myself the time and just commit suicide. i don't like that word though for some reason. it takes a lot of balls to do that though. would much rather be murdered though. would rather pay for someone to kill me off or something since i wouldn't have the courage to do it myself.

sometimes, i think of when or how i will die. will i be gunned down, will i kill myself by jumping in front of a train or a bus, will i die in a car accident, will i die in my sleep from a heart attack, will i die from natural causes, and at what age? sometimes, i actually try to picture and act out getting my head shot off or getting my wig split and what my brain matter would be like scattered all over the wall with blood. what would the gunshot sound like? would anybody inside the house hear it or people outside even?
 
Huntneo(PT) said:
I've been telling myself for the past year or so that if I die tomorrow, I had a 'good' life. The only thing I'd be remotely upset about is leaving loved ones and not sticking around long enough to see how much of a clusterfuck this world can become.
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exactly. having 100 good moments in 2 years at age 20 and dropping dead suddenly is way more better than having 1 good moment at 20 and living 80 more years all miserable and depressed where nothing could top that 1 good moment. it would be better to end it all on a good note and die happy then to go out depressed like "damn, this is it and i didn't get a chance to enjoy myself or to at least go out knowing that even though i won't be around tomorrow, i got to feel like i got something where i can die without being regretful. when obama got elected in 2008, that was one of those moments where it was a good time to die like fuck tomorrow. obama talked about change and all that. he could do whatever he wanted the month or year after but at that moment where he won, everybody else felt like they won even the people that hated his guts because people didn't expect him to succeed.

when the news first broke, it felt like new years. the world could have ended that moment because everybody was happy and at peace. at least, everything would have ended on a good note. fuck the next year because it was like being on top of the world at the moment even if you weren't obama.

if it were 2009 on the other hand, then it would be completely different story.
 
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Life is what you make it... if you're not having fun, it's your own damn fault. Get your head out of the sand, and get out there and LIVE. Sure... it's not all going to be Disney Land excitement, but it WILL be an adventure. Who knows what you might find out there???

Get off your ass, and Boldly Go... meet new life, and new civilizations.

Fight Klingons, and screw Green Skinned Orion Slave Girls.

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borg69unimatrix said:
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Life is what you make it... if you're not having fun, it's your own damn fault. Get your head out of the sand, and get out there and LIVE. Sure... it's not all going to be Disney Land excitement, but it WILL be an adventure. Who knows what you might find out there???
Get off your ass, and Boldly Go... meet new life, and new civilizations.

Fight Klingons, and screw Green Skinned Orion Slave Girls.

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agreed. i need to shut up, stop typing and start doing even if it makes me anxious as hell where i want to run and lay in my bed hiding in the blankets. trying really hard not to do that right now. have to email someone that i've been procrastinating on, study for the lsat, fill in applications, jerk off, go outside later and etc. i'll admit one thing, i'm scared of dealing with other people and afraid to actually succeed and have good things happen to me even though i want it. it just sparks my anxiety up where i just try to avoid doing something and being responsible where i'm determined to sabotage myself and fail.

i don't know why i can't get myself to get up and just do it. even right now, i'm listening to music and typing away. i just can't get myself to do what i know i have to do and my mind and my body is determined to not do it. it's an internal civil war going on even with medication that's supposed to help.
 
refujiunderground said:
bet kurt wouldn't be saying that if he was a virgin.

dude was HOT btw and he was a fucking closet case. he most definitely wasn't straight. he probably came out to michael stripe who spent some time with kurt before he died.
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He wasn't in the closet. He stated a few times that he was bisexual. He did spend a lot of time with Stipe before his death, but Stipe claims it was to collaborate on an album, nothing sexual.
 
FuryOfFirestorm said:
He wasn't in the closet. He stated a few times that he was bisexual. He did spend a lot of time with Stipe before his death, but Stipe claims it was to collaborate on an album, nothing sexual.
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I wasn't old enough to remember him that much but I will say, if he was an "above-the-waist" bisexual, he might as well be straight then.
 
My roomie brought me some "overproof" [151] stuff tonight and decided to give a whirl. I had a sip and OMG this shit gave me a headache instantly. How do people fucking drink this crap?
 
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