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bad borgand I wouldn't use exagerated expression anymore
^^lol
Im 27 but it seems ...in gay world- guys in early 20s are like half of my age- because of our fascination with youth
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^ in what year that made?
borg haha ^^

shout out to lefty for the idea. anyways, free feel to air yourself out, voice your emotions, people you may have a problem with on here, and etc. just feel free to write whatever you want. it's basically a free zone.
anyways, i really didn't know what to first say to kick this thread off first but even though this really wasn't what i wanted to talk about. i became came out to this web forum where i've known the posters over there for years. they basically knew me as the "emotionally unstable 20 something year old virgin living at home with no job and no friends that couldn't get a woman or pussy to save his life." it was basically a wild overexaggeration where people let their imaginations go off with. they might tell you about the whole long drawn out episode than i could.
the funny part was some of them were cool with it. half of them were ready towith me over it and most of them or at least almost everybody thought i was lying, was trolling or was just surprised as in i couldn't be that. "oh shit, you're gay?", and all of these reactions that i wasn't suspecting.
very few of them actually suspected that i was gay or thought that it made since. about 2 people were actually upset with me because they had high hopes for me getting pussy and finally dating a woman. to them, they thought like it was a good tv show that jumped the shark.
anyways, pretty soon, the homophobia of the forums came towards my way where people started dissing and making fun of me for being gay. it's been annoying but at the same time, it's not like they've been able to run me off of the forums. they can say whatever but i'm still going to be there, doing whatever i do regardless.
I was/am crushing really hard on someone at work. Then I remembered all the threads about "Not shitting where you eat" and Im slowly coming to my senses. Very SLOWLY.
That's very wise imho. My sister was pushed out of her last job due to complications of a relationship she had with a coworker. Just isn't worth it imho.
Yeah. That's what I keep thinking about. How are ya ?![]()
Very well, and how are you?
In my sister's case, the relationship itself wasn't the cause of problems at work, but a jealous coworker who didn't "like" that they were going out to lunch together and such began making accusations in HR that my sister was taking long lunches and falsifying her time card. It wasn't true, but since my sister works for a company that does government contract work, any such accusation requires a massive investigation since it's possible fraud with taxpayer money. Six months later with the investigation running all that time (fruitlessly) the workplace had basically ostracized her and so she just voluntarily left.
The way my friend put it was "which is easier to replace - the boyfriend or the job?" In some cases, perhaps the job is a fairly low-level one, and it's not that difficult to get another. In which case, hey, go for it.
Lex
Very well, and how are you?
In my sister's case, the relationship itself wasn't the cause of problems at work, but a jealous coworker who didn't "like" that they were going out to lunch together and such began making accusations in HR that my sister was taking long lunches and falsifying her time card. It wasn't true, but since my sister works for a company that does government contract work, any such accusation requires a massive investigation since it's possible fraud with taxpayer money. Six months later with the investigation running all that time (fruitlessly) the workplace had basically ostracized her and so she just voluntarily left.
Well, the girl I like has a girlfriend. I should have known. She's kind of awesome. Im kind of bummed but it sure makes going to work a lot easier now.

OH MY GOD!!!! SHE'S BACK!!! where you been?![]()
