Kinky Straight Guy Doing Gay Sex

[RRRalph]

We all pretty much agree that guys who are into gay sex repeatedly isn't straight. I was wondering if there is a exception. I was wondering if there are straight guys who see and do gay sex as something kinky? Two persons think i am such person, which i am not by the way One said this:

RRRalph, you're probably just straight, but very open-minded. You're not attached to any moral entanglements. You find it a challenge to sleep with a guy and so you do it. you've been doing it for quite a long time that you've already forgotten why you'd done it in the first place. You're just a horny straight guy. Ten or five years from now, you'll lose interest in casual sex and will settle down with a girl. I know some guys who are like that. They are all married now.

Kinky straight guys doing gay sex: Do they excist?

 

[Piquechampion]

We all pretty much agree that guys who are into gay sex repeatedly isn't straight. I was wondering if there is a exception. I was wondering if there are straight guys who see and do gay sex as something kinky? Two persons think i am such person, which i am not by the way One said this:



Kinky straight guys doing gay sex: Do they excist?

First and foremost: EXIST, its the correct spelling

And yes, maybe there are... After all there are some gay guys who enjoy having sex with women.

Hell, I may be one of those

 

[HungLawboy27]

I mean I have never really understood the point in placing labels on sexuality. We all are humans and most of the world seems to think that certain sexual preferences are better than others. I feel that if you find someone attractive no matter the sex of the individual who cares. Life is about living and experiences so do what you wish. Sex is an incredible experience to share with someone and how can any of us really make judgments on something we ourselves have never tried. I personally have had sex with both men and women. Both sexes are amazing creatures I do tend to find the male physique to be incredible though. Sorry to be a bit all over the place. I have a few friends that think Im just going through a faze. LOL I have been sleeping with men most of my life I mean exactly what kind of delusional friends do I have! In the end who cares who you sleep with or come home too as long as your happy.

 

[cellular]

I agree with the last poster. As long as you are happy, its ok. I think life is to short to figure out which sexual category you really belong to.

 

[texan_slant]

Hi RRRalph - I don't think you remember, but I gave you a compliment once

"Kinky straight guys doing gay sex: Do they excist?"

Here is my humble opinion - there are too many labels in the same sentence! Perhaps one might be too caught up in labels, instead of continuing to do "what feels right" - which could mean that for now, you enjoy it, and perhaps in the future, you will lose interest - and maybe not. As long as you are are respectable, respect others, do what you love, and love live - that is all that the Higher Being asks for...

Bottom lline - I'm sure that "Kinky straight guys doing gay sex" exist along with "Kinky gay guys doing straight sex" - in the long run, it's all the same.

 

[kayman23]

We all pretty much agree that guys who are into gay sex repeatedly isn't straight. I was wondering if there is a exception. I was wondering if there are straight guys who see and do gay sex as something kinky? Two persons think i am such person, which i am not by the way One said this:



Kinky straight guys doing gay sex: Do they excist?

It's possible. Although I think they would at least have some bicuriousity to at least want to act upon such urges.

 

[RRRalph]

I believe quite a few straight guys experiment with gay (kinky) sex in college.

I think they would at least have some bicuriousity to at least want to act upon such urges.

I agree that there must be some bicurious tendency in it.

 

[RRRalph]

Hi RRRalph - I don't think you remember, but I gave you a compliment once.

Yes, i do remember. You voted for me as hottest bisexual. Right?!

There are too many labels in the same sentence! Perhaps one might be too caught up in labels, instead of continuing to do "what feels right" - which could mean that for now, you enjoy it, and perhaps in the future, you will lose interest - and maybe not. As long as you are are respectable.

You are right, everybody should do what feels good, but being able to id yourself helps in reducing possible confussion, which in mu opinion leads to really enjoy what feels good.

 

[Erickivan]

Look is RRRalph Havent see u in a wild

I had one friend back in school who say that 2 guys havign sex whats the kinkeist thign ever, eventhough he said he was straight and was a player he had like 4 girls at the same time, but also told me he masturbate to gay porno as a kiny thing

Still into this day he is straight

 

[RRRalph]

Look is RRRalph. Havent see u in a wild

Hello Eric

He masturbate to gay porno as a kinky thing. Still into this day he is straight.

How is mastrubating to gay porn considered kinky? How can he be straight doing that?

 

[fbrand12345]

If there's no attraction at all how could he get it up? Why would he even want to have sex with men at all if he's not attracted to them at all? See how everything doesn't add up?

I can see where this argument is coming from, but I'm not sure I would have defended it this way. For instance, some victims of rape, any combo of male or female attacker or victim, become aroused during it -- even though they're most likely not enjoying it.

Taken another way, I have never met a guy that I was emotionally attracted to. I might think a guy is good looking but I'm not in love with them. So, to me, it is possible to see how a guy could have sex with another guy and still act/be/call himself/whatever straight.

This argument gets started up everytime someone posts something and it makes me laugh . . . everyone has a different view of it. It's not for the rest of the world to decide another person's sexuality; if the guy says he's straight then he's straight.

 

[kayman23]

Look is RRRalph Havent see u in a wild

I had one friend back in school who say that 2 guys havign sex whats the kinkeist thign ever, eventhough he said he was straight and was a player he had like 4 girls at the same time, but also told me he masturbate to gay porno as a kiny thing

Still into this day he is straight

Hey Erickivan! I'm sorry, but your friend is deluding himself in believing he is straight. He admitted to you that he likes to masturbate to gay porn. Just because he doesn't have sex with another go doesn't make him straight.

 

[Erickivan]

I let him be whatever he calls himself to be

 

[bluedragon4]

If you have gay sex you are not a straight guy into kinky sex. What a question!

 

[Raven03]

A straight guy having gay sex is either curious or if doing repeatedly lying to himself about his sexuality.

 

[doc7645]

I think some guys here are just too adamant about their beliefs being immutable truths. I've had a lot of fun in the past with a few straight guys, honest. My own experiences with these guys tell me this: they really think of it as a "taboo" kind of masturbation, more than give-and-take sex. They don't kiss. They don't suck cock. They don't want to even think about anal sex of any kind. But they grin, they put their arms around you, they let you snuggle, they let your hands go wherever you put them, and they really love being blown. I would guess in personal experience that knowing I was bi, may have made it a bit more comfortable to them, but generally the younger guys today are far less uptight about such things than my generation was, and definitely some of them do indeed enjoy the closeness of another male body and the physical pleasure another guy can give them now and then. And to push it bit further, though not from my own experience, I know some younger guys this very year who have in fact gone pretty far in what they consider "mutural masturbation" with other completely straight guys. No point in struggling to convince those who simply can't believe such things are possible, but I know they are.

 

[bluedragon4]

I think some guys here are just too adamant about their beliefs being immutable truths. I've had a lot of fun in the past with a few straight guys, honest. My own experiences with these guys tell me this: they really think of it as a "taboo" kind of masturbation, more than give-and-take sex. They don't kiss. They don't suck cock. They don't want to even think about anal sex of any kind. But they grin, they put their arms around you, they let you snuggle, they let your hands go wherever you put them, and they really love being blown. I would guess in personal experience that knowing I was bi, may have made it a bit more comfortable to them, but generally the younger guys today are far less uptight about such things than my generation was, and definitely some of them do indeed enjoy the closeness of another male body and the physical pleasure another guy can give them now and then. And to push it bit further, though not from my own experience, I know some younger guys this very year who have in fact gone pretty far in what they consider "mutural masturbation" with other completely straight guys. No point in struggling to convince those who simply can't believe such things are possible, but I know they are.

and what world are you living in?????????? and your 39 so what young guys are you talking about? Young guys let you touch them all over?

 

[slnattak]

Yeah I agree stop labeling things and just enjoy it dear god I am tired of all these complexes you like what you like, very very very few people are completely gay or completely straight.

If the 'gay community' keeps idolizing straight man having sex we send out a message that we think being straight is better than being gay. This already exists. Look at xtube.com The most popular category is 'straight guys' in obviously gay positions. I find the entire thing stupid especially since the only good gay porn I can jack off to ends up being all gay men. Now I can jack off to straight porn just fine because nobody has any complex issues with their identities, I just do not find the whole 'straight guy in gay sex' thing erotic at all. It is sick and disgusting if you ask me. I had sex with a straight man once, an actual straight man, and it was the worst experience of my life. They do not care about your needs or pleasures only their own (and if you get off in that you have a pscyhological disorder) - after awhile it might be cute but I couldn't stand it.

If you spend so much time thinking about straight guys what you're doing is giving up your own masculinity. Just stop it. Learn to find other gay men erotic, you've been culturally conditioned not to find them very sexy and it's something we all have to get over.

 

[mabby7]

Hmmm ... interesting. Gay sex as kinky.

Well about labels. Sorry I'm just confused. I haven't really come to a conclusion on that yet. I'll get back to that.

 

[LarsVenice]

I think if they are really "straight", the only time it would happen would be when they are in confinement, such as in jail or on a ship with only other men. In cases like that, "any port in a storm" might be the rule of the day, especially if it is a very dark storm. I also think that the straight male would have to be fantasizing about a woman during the sex, if he is truly straight. If he's not thinking about a woman or women, then he's not completely straight. If he enjoys gay sex for what it is, then he is bi. Bisexuality was pretty common in Roman times (read Petronius) and also in pre-Columbian America (see The Pre-Columbian Mind by Francisco Guerra - pretty kinky reading).