Kissing?

[firsttimeagain]

Nicely put, babe. Now act on it. I once had no desire at all to kiss men, though I'd done everything else. Then I finally gave into a lover who begged me to try kissing him. Now I need the kiss. Kissing is, in a way, the most intimate of physical connection. Btw, cum kissing is fantastic!!!

P.S. Try breaking up your thoughts into paragraph. Easier to read.

Thanks for your response. Yes I know it is easier to break it up into thoughts or paragraphs. I guess I just did not think about it at the time.

I agree, kissing is or would be the most intimate part of a physical connection and cum kissing is absolutely a must every time. Of course it’s only been a fantasy for me but once I finally admitted to myself, that is not just a fantasy that I am indeed gay, the kissing, and everything else for that matter is going to be a must. I can’t imagine it any other way. All or none.

As I said, I want to please and be pleased, and I want it long lasting, and I guess somehow the relationship has no other way, but to be deep, loving and caring.

In some ways that seems difficult to fathom from where I started. However, it’s the most natural thing I can imagine. I want to kiss first and let it lead to where it leads. I guess it can be a tease for things to come as well. The most intimate of physical connections you said. I agree 100% if I cock and cum is going to be in my mouth and his mouth, our mouths have to share that. Nothing turns me on more than that thought.

Thank you for your thoughts and your input. It means a lot at this point of my journey. There was a time I wasn’t sure this part of the journey was going to happen. After accepting and admitting to myself that I am gay, that changed everything, nothing is going to stop it now. No turning back for sure.

Trust me, I am working on acting on it. More open than I’ve ever been I guess that’s why they call it coming out huh? It really feels good too. I can’t wait. Any suggestions on how to find that relationship?

 

[magicdick]

Thanks for your response. Yes I know it is easier to break it up into thoughts or paragraphs. I guess I just did not think about it at the time.

I agree, kissing is or would be the most intimate part of a physical connection and cum kissing is absolutely a must every time. Of course it’s only been a fantasy for me but once I finally admitted to myself, that is not just a fantasy that I am indeed gay, the kissing, and everything else for that matter is going to be a must. I can’t imagine it any other way. All or none.

As I said, I want to please and be pleased, and I want it long lasting, and I guess somehow the relationship has no other way, but to be deep, loving and caring.

In some ways that seems difficult to fathom from where I started. However, it’s the most natural thing I can imagine. I want to kiss first and let it lead to where it leads. I guess it can be a tease for things to come as well. The most intimate of physical connections you said. I agree 100% if I cock and cum is going to be in my mouth and his mouth, our mouths have to share that. Nothing turns me on more than that thought.

Thank you for your thoughts and your input. It means a lot at this point of my journey. There was a time I wasn’t sure this part of the journey was going to happen. After accepting and admitting to myself that I am gay, that changed everything, nothing is going to stop it now. No turning back for sure.

Trust me, I am working on acting on it. More open than I’ve ever been I guess that’s why they call it coming out huh? It really feels good too. I can’t wait. Any suggestions on how to find that relationship?

Sadly, I have no suggestions on how to find the type of relationship you seek.

I am bi and have a gf (frigid though she is) and I am not seeking any personal connections or love. I am after the purely physical. The only personal quality I demand is: Don't be a pushy asshole or you'll be shown the door. If they conform to that, then I want to hop in the sack or on the couch or on the floor and get physical. I'm selfish: I have to suck his cock first. He has to fuck me first. He has to satisfy me with his cum in my mouth and in my pussy. Then when I am satisfied, he can blow me, rim me, kiss me, and let me fuck him.

You, I see, are not as shallow as I am. I'm afraid you'll have to go through a few shallow jerks like me to find true love. But find it you will. How to find it? Get out there and meet people. There are more people like you and like me than meets the eye.

Good luck.

P.S. Dating sites? I never had any luck there. Try them, but be wary of swindlers and scams.

 

[firsttimeagain]

Sadly, I have no suggestions on how to find the type of relationship you seek.

I am bi and have a gf (frigid though she is) and I am not seeking any personal connections or love. I am after the purely physical. The only personal quality I demand is: Don't be a pushy asshole or you'll be shown the door. If they conform to that, then I want to hop in the sack or on the couch or on the floor and get physical. I'm selfish: I have to suck his cock first. He has to fuck me first. He has to satisfy me with his cum in my mouth and in my pussy. Then when I am satisfied, he can blow me, rim me, kiss me, and let me fuck him.

You, I see, are not as shallow as I am. I'm afraid you'll have to go through a few shallow jerks like me to find true love. But find it you will. How to find it? Get out there and meet people. There are more people like you and like me than meets the eye.

Good luck.

P.S. Dating sites? I never had any luck there. Try them, but be wary of swindlers and scams.

Yep. Tried a relationship site. Waist of time and money for me. Too many older guys than I’m interested in. My age or a little younger than me is cool. But, not interested in older. I tried one relationship app too. Met one guy I had coffee with but he was not interested in me. He wants experienced and I am not. Oh well. All the rest was a waste of time.

But, it will not take me long to be good at it because I know what I want. It is really natural for me, so given a chance, I don’t think I will come across as inexperienced, from a sex stand point anyway. I’ve always wanted it and I know what I want. I have also spent some time watching others. I know it will be different than just watching. But, everything I love watching is everything I’ve always wanted and dreamed of anyway. Even before I knew other guys thought or did that stuff with each other, I wanted it naturally.

I know there are a lot more guys out there that think like me now. It’s a matter of time. I’m looking and I am coming out more everyday.

thanks again

 

[magicdick]

Yep. Tried a relationship site. Waist of time and money for me. Too many older guys than I’m interested in. My age or a little younger than me is cool. But, not interested in older. I tried one relationship app too. Met one guy I had coffee with but he was not interested in me. He wants experienced and I am not. Oh well. All the rest was a waste of time.

But, it will not take me long to be good at it because I know what I want. It is really natural for me, so given a chance, I don’t think I will come across as inexperienced, from a sex stand point anyway. I’ve always wanted it and I know what I want. I have also spent some time watching others. I know it will be different than just watching. But, everything I love watching is everything I’ve always wanted and dreamed of anyway. Even before I knew other guys thought or did that stuff with each other, I wanted it naturally.

I know there are a lot more guys out there that think like me now. It’s a matter of time. I’m looking and I am coming out more everyday.

thanks again

No man in his right mind would turn away another man due to inexperience. I love inexperienced guys, but they are hard to distinguish because their desire hides the lack of experience. Here are the words of the first guy I blew: "Damn! You give great head! And I thought I was your first one. How many guys have you been with?" He didn't believe me when I told him he was my first. I was a natural because I loved men. I loved holding and stroking cock. I loved sucking cock. I loved cum in my mouth and all over my face. And with me it all happened in the space of ten seconds: straight to bisexual. I saw his cock and I knew immediately I wanted him. A lot more to the transition, but I'll spare you.

Keep looking. You'll find someone. But don't settle. Come out but don't make yourself uncomfortable. Your sexuality is, after all, a very personal matter. I am bi, but only the guys I make love to regularly know about it.

 

[firsttimeagain]

No man in his right mind would turn away another man due to inexperience. I love inexperienced guys, but they are hard to distinguish because their desire hides the lack of experience. Here are the words of the first guy I blew: "Damn! You give great head! And I thought I was your first one. How many guys have you been with?" He didn't believe me when I told him he was my first. I was a natural because I loved men. I loved holding and stroking cock. I loved sucking cock. I loved cum in my mouth and all over my face. And with me it all happened in the space of ten seconds: straight to bisexual. I saw his cock and I knew immediately I wanted him. A lot more to the transition, but I'll spare you.

Keep looking. You'll find someone. But don't settle. Come out but don't make yourself uncomfortable. Your sexuality is, after all, a very personal matter. I am bi, but only the guys I make love to regularly know about it.

The inexperienced played some in it, but I’m guessing he was just not into me personally. Regardless, it was a positive experience for me just to hang out and chat with a guy that knew I was looking and interested in men. That was a first for me. I have been lifelong in the closet, so it was a huge step and I feel like it was progress. Though there was no connection per se, I will not be as nervous next time. Maybe my nervousness turned him off?

I am definitely going to keep looking. Trust me, I’m not going to just settle. It’s been a long time coming and I know what I want. I am coming out a little at a time I guess. I know it is very personal. I don’t think everyone needs to know my business, especially in the business world. Finding that balance to come out to…as far as getting to know other gay guys and being open and out enough to find those potential guys… but, no one really knows I am gay in my life circle.

I guess some here consider me bi because I have had relationships with women in the past. But, it is because of those relationships that I realized I’m gay without a doubt. It was not just a fantasy. I was gay first and foremost, it’s all I’ve ever wanted. I just didn’t act on it. I conformed out of convenience for a while. But, Not now though.

It’s a hard place to be for now. But, once I find what I’m looking for I probably will not worry much about hiding it. I think it will be pretty obvious to others around me. I can’t wait to cross that bridge. I want make myself uncomfortable either way. Thanks again for your input…

 

[magicdick]

The inexperienced played some in it, but I’m guessing he was just not into me personally. Regardless, it was a positive experience for me just to hang out and chat with a guy that knew I was looking and interested in men. That was a first for me. I have been lifelong in the closet, so it was a huge step and I feel like it was progress. Though there was no connection per se, I will not be as nervous next time. Maybe my nervousness turned him off?

I am definitely going to keep looking. Trust me, I’m not going to just settle. It’s been a long time coming and I know what I want. I am coming out a little at a time I guess. I know it is very personal. I don’t think everyone needs to know my business, especially in the business world. Finding that balance to come out to…as far as getting to know other gay guys and being open and out enough to find those potential guys… but, no one really knows I am gay in my life circle.

I guess some here consider me bi because I have had relationships with women in the past. But, it is because of those relationships that I realized I’m gay without a doubt. It was not just a fantasy. I was gay first and foremost, it’s all I’ve ever wanted. I just didn’t act on it. I conformed out of convenience for a while. But, Not now though.

It’s a hard place to be for now. But, once I find what I’m looking for I probably will not worry much about hiding it. I think it will be pretty obvious to others around me. I can’t wait to cross that bridge. I want make myself uncomfortable either way. Thanks again for your input…

After reading your reply, I realize you know what you are doing. Go for it.

 

[firsttimeagain]

After reading your reply, I realize you know what you are doing. Go for it.

I do know what I’m doing, or I feel like I do. lol But I have a lot to learn in the process because I’ve never actually had that relationship with a man yet. I guess it’s just been a timing thing. Oh I wanted it and I knew I wanted it even though I didn’t know why or I didn’t have anyone to talk to about it. I just thought it was wrong for me to feel that way. So, I hid my feelings. Though I’ve never stopped thinking about it or fantasizing about it. It was really evident when I had sex with a woman and I was wishing it was a man every time. Fantasizing the whole time that I was fucking a man or sucking a cock and eating cum. It never made sense for awhile, but I knew what my desires were and always have known.

So it was more enjoyable to masturbate and fantasize and eat my own cum. I know that sounds crazy, but it’s true. And watching gay porn was the icing on the cake. That’s made me realize that physically I was only turned on by the male body.

There are a lot of males that I’m not attracted to, but I know the type I am attracted to and it is understandable. The falling in love part scares me because I don’t know what that looks like. But, where I used to think that was impossible, I even think in the right situation, I’m more open minded and think everything is possible. I know that is surely putting the cart before the horse, but it’s just all come to light in my heart and mind.

I’m super excited and I can’t tell you how good I feel with who I am. I might make a few mistakes along the way, but that too is reality. Relationships can be complicated in life, but the thoughts that I’m finally ready makes me happy.

As far as the sex goes, I’ll be a natural. lol. So, if I truly know what I’m doing 100% or not, I’m going for it…

 

[magicdick]

I do know what I’m doing, or I feel like I do. lol But I have a lot to learn in the process because I’ve never actually had that relationship with a man yet. I guess it’s just been a timing thing. Oh I wanted it and I knew I wanted it even though I didn’t know why or I didn’t have anyone to talk to about it. I just thought it was wrong for me to feel that way. So, I hid my feelings. Though I’ve never stopped thinking about it or fantasizing about it. It was really evident when I had sex with a woman and I was wishing it was a man every time. Fantasizing the whole time that I was fucking a man or sucking a cock and eating cum. It never made sense for awhile, but I knew what my desires were and always have known.

So it was more enjoyable to masturbate and fantasize and eat my own cum. I know that sounds crazy, but it’s true. And watching gay porn was the icing on the cake. That’s made me realize that physically I was only turned on by the male body.

There are a lot of males that I’m not attracted to, but I know the type I am attracted to and it is understandable. The falling in love part scares me because I don’t know what that looks like. But, where I used to think that was impossible, I even think in the right situation, I’m more open minded and think everything is possible. I know that is surely putting the cart before the horse, but it’s just all come to light in my heart and mind.

I’m super excited and I can’t tell you how good I feel with who I am. I might make a few mistakes along the way, but that too is reality. Relationships can be complicated in life, but the thoughts that I’m finally ready makes me happy.

As far as the sex goes, I’ll be a natural. lol. So, if I truly know what I’m doing 100% or not, I’m going for it…

Baby, you’re overthinking it. Start at square one. Don’t go for a home run first time at bat. Find a cock, any cock, to suck, get yourself a mouthful of luscious cum, get fucked… You’ll gain experience that is necessary for falling in love. Meantime, just enjoy the ride, so to speak. Riding a cock is so much fun. My favorite way to get fucked.

 

[firsttimeagain]

Baby, you’re overthinking it. Start at square one. Don’t go for a home run first time at bat. Find a cock, any cock, to suck, get yourself a mouthful of luscious cum, get fucked… You’ll gain experience that is necessary for falling in love. Meantime, just enjoy the ride, so to speak. Riding a cock is so much fun. My favorite way to get fucked.

I realize I have surly been overthinking it all. But, it’s part of my journey I guess. I am ready now more than ever. You are correct, I need to break the ice sexually. It’s all I’ve ever wanted and all I ever dreamed and fantasized about. I need to make that step and I’m sure I will find the relationship and love along the way. Cock and cum in my mouth and a good ass fucking is the least I can reward myself with. Lol. I’m so ready…

 

[magicdick]

I realize I have surly been overthinking it all. But, it’s part of my journey I guess. I am ready now more than ever. You are correct, I need to break the ice sexually. It’s all I’ve ever wanted and all I ever dreamed and fantasized about. I need to make that step and I’m sure I will find the relationship and love along the way. Cock and cum in my mouth and a good ass fucking is the least I can reward myself with. Lol. I’m so ready…

Good luck. Be kind to yourself. Believe me, when you get fucked for the first time, you'll be over the moon. I'm bi. And getting fucked by a guy is now my priority. There is no act of sensual pleasure, emotional pleasure that surpasses it.

 

[magicdick]

I realize I have surly been overthinking it all. But, it’s part of my journey I guess. I am ready now more than ever. You are correct, I need to break the ice sexually. It’s all I’ve ever wanted and all I ever dreamed and fantasized about. I need to make that step and I’m sure I will find the relationship and love along the way. Cock and cum in my mouth and a good ass fucking is the least I can reward myself with. Lol. I’m so ready…

Back to the post's subject... Deeply kissing my man as he is on top, my legs up in the air, fucking me deep, slow. and long... Describing the sensual heights I reach is beyond my power.

 

[Ben_Dover]

Where do you stand on kissing during sex?
I love it. It’s part and parcel of the whole thing for me. Men or women, doesn’t matter. Kissing as part of foreplay really turns me on.
Some guys won’t do it. It’s ok to have my cock up their arse, but kissing is ‘too gay.’

I want to kiss as much as the other guy does. If he's into it, I adore it. If he isn't, I don't need it.

 

[smokeshadow]

 

[mnpervert]

I love kissing overall whether it's just making out or during sex or yes even after a BJ with cum in mouth

 

[magicdick]

I love kissing overall whether it's just making out or during sex or yes even after a BJ with cum in mouth

Cum kisses are the best. With a guy or with a woman.