Hello, Here is your UPDATE*** Sorry for the block of text and if the dialog is hard to follow.
I went to her house and we just started talking about him. So i was talking completely from a gay perspective then after 10 minutes she was just like "Wait, i want you to say it" so in my uncomfortableness i decided to make it funny was like "Ok you may want to sit down.. i have something to tell you that may shock you, im not gonna beat around the bush, im jsut gonna come out and say it, no ones gonna break my stride, im just gonna be straightforward... Im......gay!" And she was like "*Gasp* WHAT?, haha ive known since like kindergarten" She was glad i came to her first, and swore secrecy.
Fun fun.. heh we spent a good hour talking about me being gay and then we got to him... She called him right there and we pretended i wasnt with her. I could totally hear his voice too. His "hello" was EXTREMELY depressed sounding. and she was like "whats wrong?" and he was just saying he was depressed. And she said "so ive got major news, you like mick right?" *Depressed voice* "i did." and she said "im going to tell you something but you have to swear not to tell anyone or ill fucking kill you (i <3 her)" and he was like "What" still all depressed .. then! "Mick was just here and he came out to me, hes gay and he really likes you too". and wahbam his voice went into giddy "OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS?" and then they went on chatting about me he mentioned my: Good hygiene, nice butt, attractive, funny, and i heard "perfect". Then i found out they had dinner plans and now im going too and a couple other people! I get to seee himmm tomorrow for dinner! And at the end of the convo he said "Omg im nervous" and it really made me feel better and more secure that he was nervous too. Yes im a sneak but hearing this convo made me soo happy.
SO he messaged me on myspace and said " she called me and said you might like me? i think your a wonderful person and i like you alot" and im tying it for tonight with a response like "Yeah i talked to her and discussed some things, i really do like you and getting to know you this weekend was great. Sorry to have led you on these past couple days but i really needed some support first (hence why i came out to her), see you at dinner tomorrow cant wait!"
Update** : i couldnt be happier with his response: "I understand what you are going through, its only natural to feel the way you did, i understand if you need to take things slowly, its totally fine. I cant wait to see you tomorrow."
Fine
-Mick J
