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Last night *sigh*

Hello, Here is your UPDATE*** Sorry for the block of text and if the dialog is hard to follow.

I went to her house and we just started talking about him. So i was talking completely from a gay perspective then after 10 minutes she was just like "Wait, i want you to say it" so in my uncomfortableness i decided to make it funny was like "Ok you may want to sit down.. i have something to tell you that may shock you, im not gonna beat around the bush, im jsut gonna come out and say it, no ones gonna break my stride, im just gonna be straightforward... Im......gay!" And she was like "*Gasp* WHAT?, haha ive known since like kindergarten" She was glad i came to her first, and swore secrecy.

Fun fun.. heh we spent a good hour talking about me being gay and then we got to him... She called him right there and we pretended i wasnt with her. I could totally hear his voice too. His "hello" was EXTREMELY depressed sounding. and she was like "whats wrong?" and he was just saying he was depressed. And she said "so ive got major news, you like mick right?" *Depressed voice* "i did." and she said "im going to tell you something but you have to swear not to tell anyone or ill fucking kill you (i <3 her)" and he was like "What" still all depressed .. then! "Mick was just here and he came out to me, hes gay and he really likes you too". and wahbam his voice went into giddy "OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS?" and then they went on chatting about me he mentioned my: Good hygiene, nice butt, attractive, funny, and i heard "perfect". Then i found out they had dinner plans and now im going too and a couple other people! I get to seee himmm tomorrow for dinner! And at the end of the convo he said "Omg im nervous" and it really made me feel better and more secure that he was nervous too. Yes im a sneak but hearing this convo made me soo happy.

SO he messaged me on myspace and said " she called me and said you might like me? i think your a wonderful person and i like you alot" and im tying it for tonight with a response like "Yeah i talked to her and discussed some things, i really do like you and getting to know you this weekend was great. Sorry to have led you on these past couple days but i really needed some support first (hence why i came out to her), see you at dinner tomorrow cant wait!"

Update** : i couldnt be happier with his response: "I understand what you are going through, its only natural to feel the way you did, i understand if you need to take things slowly, its totally fine. I cant wait to see you tomorrow."

Fine

-Mick J :D
 
w00t! :gogirl:

Ahh, memories =]

You must keep us up to date.

screwnutty will be disappointed about not needing the cattle prod, but I'm sure he'll deal.
 
Ok im really happy to hear a story like this,too bad i didn't read it sooner.I've gone through like all of this these past couple years,Back in high school (06) i was finding myself. I always thought i might be gay or bi but wasnt sure,Well i fought with myself for a long time and went looking for people to experiment with outside of my "friend" group.Meanwhile i told my one openly gay friend that i wasnt sure about myself and that i might be into guys as well, BIG MISTAKE he decided to tell all of our mutual "Friends" this and they decided to do kinda like what your girl-friend done they talked about me to eachother about my sexuality but never near me. They asked me once but i told them i was str8, well months past and i finally lost all of them as friends they couldn't accept me or understand what i was going through. They aren't my friends anymore and i finally realize this. So the main reason for this story is DON'T be afraid to people about your feelings and stuff cause if you wait too long to tell them about yourself you may end up losing them.

I met this guy a couple months ago and he is my friends brother but anyways we hit it off good and agreed not to go fast and we'd take it slow. Well we couldnt keep our hands off each other and had sex like every day. Well i asked how he felt things were going if i was going to fast and if we should take it slower and he said he was fine. Well turns out he was afraid to tell me he wanted me to go slower with him and now i lost him to a girl..... This was very devastating to me. So just some advice make sure you tell him that you are uncomfortable with things if you feel things are going to fast or anything. If you don't tell him how your truely feeling, you may screw things up...make sure you get everything out before you decide to go farther......
Sorry for the length of this but i just felt like your in the same boat.
 
Mick! AWESOME!! :hurray:(!w!)

Full Speed Ahead, and don't look back!! (group) ..| :=D:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Finally, a happy ending to it all. Keep us clued about what is happening.
 
w00t! :gogirl:

Ahh, memories =]

You must keep us up to date.

screwnutty will be disappointed about not needing the cattle prod, but I'm sure he'll deal.

I won't put that cattle prod away just yet. Ever thought about a having a winter vacation in Canada? ;) Bring the prod!

Mick, that's my boy. See and you doubted old screwnutty here! :) Now your going to spend the next 5 days on a natural high!

Congrats and yes you have to still keep me updated!! :)
 
I won't put that cattle prod away just yet. Ever thought about a having a winter vacation in Canada? ;) Bring the prod!

Mick, that's my boy. See and you doubted old screwnutty here! :) Now your going to spend the next 5 days on a natural high!

Congrats and yes you have to still keep me updated!! :)

"Screw", Nutty! Keep us ALL updated!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Oh wow... I'm so happy for you!!! Cheers man! I want to throw a fucking dinner party for you! With champagne and good food and all! Awesome... :)

Good luck and keep us updated
 
Thanks guys i couldnt have done it without you all thank you thank you!And its only just the beginning. Im going to dinner in an hour. Im extremely nervous! I couldnt even concentrate during school today and i had testing. haha. Another friend is going who i dont want to know yet because she blows things out of proportion sort of, and he knows shes going so we wont be too touchy or anything which is kinda good because im nervousss. WHAT SHOULD I WEAR? haha..
 
Obviously you made an impression the first time so I doubt you will disappoint no matter what you wear tonight!

Congratulations and good luck!

I got tears in my eyes just reading your post....I'm a sucker for happy endings!
 
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR? haha..

Something comfortable, something that would go nice with were you eating and something that will let the skin breath. :) Can't go wrong with a T-shirt and a pair of cargo pants, or shorts if it's hot. Just don't dress like your going to Church...unless it's a fancy place that your eating in!
 
Wear whatever you feel comfortable wearing. You are going with other people its not just the two of you so don't over do it. Yeah like a nice pair of jeans that shows off your ass would be cool,and a nice shirt.... And maybe no underwear lol jk ....Well hope it goes good maybe you'll get in a good night kiss.
 
Hello again! Sorry if these daily update things are long and boring i just like to get out whats going on..

So - im tired of the "him" stuff so he is Derek now. OK haha what a fun night. So we went to dinner with my girl i came out to and the one who was talking about me on myspace and stuff with him. Derek then came and brought his sister who he came out just a month ago, he said she might be not quite used to it.

So introductions: "Hi i'm Mick" and his sister said "Nice to meet you, wow thats my boyfriends name too! and my brothers boyfriends name!" haha made me so happy. So we all talked, we laughed, we had fun, got to know eachother more. He is so beautiful. At the end since my friend was there that i dont want to know we just hugged goodbye. Instantly when we went our seperate ways we began texting about how it sucks we live so far away (45 mins) and we cant see eachother more, and more adorable mushy stuff :) MAIN POINT: On saturday hes coming to town to spend the day with us and he's probably gonna spend the night here since he lives far away. But my dad just got home and my older bro is coming home from college this weekend so my house is a no-go, so im gonna try to sleep at my girlies house again..i love her she said we could even sleep in the guest bedroom. Hah my brother would get a kick outta that, sleepin at a girls house. Her mom is also really cool, i even came out to my friend while she was walking around the house hah. Very trustworthy laid-back mom and according to my friend, just always assumed i was gay.

Anyways we just texting now and we hugged.. no kiss yet. I went to my friends house for Americas next top model and we compared tastes using her "Men of hawaii" calendar. I love being out to someone :)

Last big update : The friend that was telling him i was straight and he should move on and such (also my homecoming date and other girl from dinner) likes me. Like really likes me AND thinks i like her. (she told this all to the girl im out to). One of her reasons was because "we slept in the same bed on homecoming" when i TOTALLY wanted to sleep with DEREK not HER! ugh lol. Drama~Drama~Drama~ should i set her straight? without coming out of course...

Goodnight, I love you all

-Mick J
 
Aww how sweet Mick, keep us updated on what happens Saturday. :D
 
Yeah, baby, yeah. Teehee (!)

I'd tell the girl you aren't interested - in so many words.
 
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