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LeoMikey said:
Hey boyOboy, i know exactly how you feel! Although i'm in a relationship, and i've been having sex since i was 15, i would rather be with a guy i care about than having meaningless hookups with random guys who don't know or care anything about me!
Don't despair, you'll find the right guy. He might not be the first guy you date, but you'll find him. I've been single and sexless for long stretches before, and the horniness was intolerable. It seemed like every cute guy i saw would make my dick jump. On the one hand, getting fucked senseless was always on my mind. But on the other hand, hooking up never satisfied me. I need to wake up in his arms too, not have him zip up and split after he shoots.
So stick to your guns, you seem like you have your shit together. If you think you'll regret something, you will. I'm 27, so i've been through all this. You're 19, relax and don't pressure yourself, even though it seems impossible. And enjoy beating off as much as you can, you're going to be doing it for the rest of your life anyhow, even in a relationship. Wanna get fucked badly? Buy some dildoes and vibrators, tons of lube, and go fuck yourself (in a good way!). After all, if you don't love yourself, nobody else will. So practice some self love! Besides, the more you work your backdoor, the easier it will be for you to take a good fucking from your future love.
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Thanks for the kind words.

Is it just me or is "self love" 'like that' hard to do comfortably?!
 
boy0boy said:
Haha I'm not that naive.

I realize that not everyone I'm with in a relationship could be "the one." So the whole caring about the person is more of a way to weed out the one timers, and get to the guys who actually care about more than that.
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Good to hear it! When I first started reading, I thought we were going into another one of those threads involving a guy waiting for Mr. Perfect to fall out of the sky while bitching about how all the other guys out there are disgusting sluts. #-o Fortunately, you seem to have a bit more sense about you. :D

Guys who wait for their knight in shining armor tend to end up disappointed when they find out their Mr. Perfect is anything but. Guys who wait for a quality guy (again doesn't have to even be somebody you date) tend to have more fun the first time.
 
drhladnjak said:
Good to hear it! When I first started reading, I thought we were going into another one of those threads involving a guy waiting for Mr. Perfect to fall out of the sky while bitching about how all the other guys out there are disgusting sluts. #-o Fortunately, you seem to have a bit more sense about you. :D

Guys who wait for their knight in shining armor tend to end up disappointed when they find out their Mr. Perfect is anything but. Guys who wait for a quality guy (again doesn't have to even be somebody you date) tend to have more fun the first time.
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Never! I look forward to a few good(!) now and then. But first time needs to be somewhat special. Not guy I met on JUB... ;)
 
What's to say you can't meet a special guy on JUB? It's happened before, although not to me personally.
 
Ahaha, thanks. But I definately don't want this to turn into one of those threads! haha

So random funny news. I finally got to buy me some Calvin Klein Undies the other day at the shopping outlet. Walked all confidently to the underwear section and picked me out a good amount of fancy new undieroos. I was laughing because it signaled my ready-ment to be de-virginized, what with my naughty calvin klein's haha!
 
Haha so on my "blast to the past" to see if I've missed anything, since I've been away for a while..... I can't help but read this and laugh....

"first time needs to be somewhat special, not some guy I met on JUB"

^that has me on the floor laughing, and since you guys probably don't know why I shall enlighten you


New Years Eve Adventure:
On my search on the internet for a chatroom on New Years Eve, after realizing I would probably usher the new year in alone and depressed, I decided to try and find other lonely souls.

So ended up finding one, and although it was supposed to be purely innocent, it ended up being kinda my first EVER experience with a guy.

Withought giving too many details since I really didn't plan on ever mentioning it anyways... I can still say I've kept intact most of my virginal qualities, haha...... it was innocent, consensual, primal, and I guess that's it


I can still say I look forward to my "better" first, where I really care for the person, and opposite.
 
I tried that i wanted to wait until the right guy comes along. But one of my friends show interest that he wanted to have sex and i said screw it.

Im just scared that i might be single for the rest of my life. Its just nice to add to the history book that i fucked a guy
 
Hey man, regarding the new year's eve adventure:

Good for you. You took care of yourself, and you had consensual sex. How 'bout that!

For some guys, it really does work out that finding "the right guy" does not involve waiting to find mr. perfectly right. Their progression to Mr. Right sometimes seems to involve having sex that's "for fun," first.

Personally, I find sex with Mr. Right to be WAY BETTER than sex with those other guys, for sex... but I have to tell you, some of that stuff was wayyyyyyyy funnnnn (even if Mr. Right is way better!)

I think it's a real shame that getting these kinds of experiences is so Fraught With Peril, in terms of HIV, other STDs (genital warts, herpes -- all stuff that is uncomfortable, long-lasting, hard/expensive to treat). But it's possible to keep taking care of yourself.

I had to laugh when I saw the post about knowing that you were "ready" when you went in and bought some "special underwear." Exactly the same thing happened to me.

Keep us posted. have fun. keep taking care of yourself.
 
Hmm perhaps I should create new posts when I have announcements, seeing that any new person would have to wade through the old post... and my new post was kinda different and somewhat unrelated

thanks tygrbryte for the response, yeah it was fun, not like AMAZING, but still you know.... for it being the first sort of well

I've never had a kiss never been in any sort of relationship, so to have my first intimate moment with another guy... was you know.... special, hot, and a huge turn on! All I can say is I'm glad I didn't waste my time checking to see if I could handle vagina, hahahaha
 
Congratulations on your first intimate moment! :)
I had mine Friday night... It was so fantastic! With hindsight, I really regret the fact that I didn't explore guys earlier, but yeah life goes the way it goes!
 
Blacksheep said:
I don't even want sex, just a nice cuddle and someone to sleep with would do me at the moment (wouldn't say no if he was also up for some sex though).
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It's a rare thing, but I had one of those once. Nothing serious: he was more like a teddy bear that occasionally came over for a night's nap. Amazing how tranquil, calm, and happy I felt the next day! and it was platonic!

I'm reminded of the episode of "Friends" where the two guys went through a period of sleeping on the couch together (*8*).

I sometimes think most guys, straight or gay, would like a teddy bear friend if it were a socially-approved custom. . . .
 
The worst is when you are in your 20's and you got it regularly in your teens but have seemed to have hit a draught now.
 
oh man, this thread is comedy.
hahaha.

alive and free...
totally feel you.

eh. but then again, im just inexperienced all together. psh.
and the boy0boy you seem like a funny guy man, this thread is just keeping me entertained at work.
(thank god...)
 
huntneo said:
haha...congrats! :=D:

I remember talking to you online earlier that evening. ;) I should have known you were running off quickly to get into something. :badgrin:
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I KNOW!!! I felt kinda guilty.. but didn't want to be all "hey gotta go, going to a booty call" hahahaha... not that it was a booty call.. like I said.. it really wasn't even going to be sexual..

wow that makes me laugh so hard!
 
LeoMikey said:
Hey boyOboy, i know exactly how you feel! Although i'm in a relationship, and i've been having sex since i was 15, i would rather be with a guy i care about than having meaningless hookups with random guys who don't know or care anything about me!
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Wow this is exactly how I feel. Even though I think I could do with one night stands, in reality I want someone who likes me and really wants me. ..|
 
Yeah I don't think the people who do have guitless anonymous sex understand how hard it is..

It's not like I don't want some guy to play with, I just want some sort of connection, NOT EVEN like a relationship is A MUST.. but at least the knowledge that they'd want to see me again afterwards even if it doesn't consist of another hookup.
 
It kind of sounds like a lot of the guys just want a regular and steady "Fuck Buddy" /" Friend ".
That sounds all good and fine ;BUT be careful ... once you begin having sex, it seems like these things called "Feelings" and "Emotions slip in and the next thing ya' know ... You are in a Relationship ...
You can't wait to see him again ... If he is out with friends , YOU begin to wonder what he is doing and with who = Jealousy ....
The list goes on .... and this is not to mention that IF this ends up being an open relationship ... what about the STDs or Aids ... unless your life is worth the risk ?
 
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