Looks vs. Personality

[HoodedRat]

I prefer an average-looking guy with zero personality ... they're so much more easily moulded.

 

[G-Lexington]

lol! lol! Sorry - 200lbs?! That is like 90 kg......?! You consider that a heavy weight?

Definitely. I know some guys who would kick a 6 foot guy out of bed for hitting 170. But I've been to bed with guys up to 300, actually, and enjoyed them all.

Lex

 

[ravenstar]

I really doubt any of you have ever gone home and jerked off over someone's personality. Ultimately it starts at looks. If the person doesn't attract attention no matter how kick ass their personality they stay on the vine.

 

[ravenstar]

You don't know me as well as I thought.

Oh I always knew you were a fetish queen

 

[hermanding]

Character, which probably has a personality component. Even if it is a one time 25 minute sex thing, I would not waste my time on a hunk that had an arrogant, condescending personality. That supposes that I would get to the point of having to make that decision, of course.

 

[Treborf]

Looks for me. I find I get along well with all types of personality types, but I have a very narrow range of guys that I'm attracted to.

 

[kev]

Well, I may be ugly, but at least I have a boring personality.

Anyone want to watch MASH reruns?

 

[kev]

Okay, but seriously, why are so many people attracted to partners (straight and gay) who treat them like shit?

 

[floridaboy]

I pay attention to looks first(hooray for being shallow ) then get to know their personality

if i like their personality, or can atleast deal with it, then i'll stay with them and just use sex as a distracter for things i dont like about him. If the things i dont like are too great, then i wont stay with him long

 

[Anders123]

I really doubt any of you have ever gone home and jerked off over someone's personality. Ultimately it starts at looks. If the person doesn't attract attention no matter how kick ass their personality they stay on the vine.

Wait, what? I thought everybody did.

When I have a crush on a guy, it's because he is kind, loving, intelligent; all of that good stuff. The thought of laying with him, or being close to him (not his body, but him) is more arousing to me than any hard-bodied muscle bear could ever be.

If a guy personifies all of the qualities I find attractive, you best believe I'll be thinkin' about him when I'm slappin' the ham at night.

 

[GamerBear]

Well, I may be ugly, but at least I have a boring personality.

Anyone want to watch MASH reruns?

Oh +1 one for M*A*S*H reruns!

 

[DigitalFudge]

All this personality shit

 

[Red Storm]

a bit of both and also ATTITUDE. I can't date someone that is always spitting out negativity.

 

[Shattereddreams]

Looks when I'm horny. Personality when I'm not horny which is never so looks

 

[TheLyingGame]

Can't i just have both?

 

[Ryuukie]

Good looks are very important for the first few minutes but after that it's all about personality and the size of their heart.

 

[hanzosword]

There's plenty of men with good looks and personality that you shouldn't have to choose one. I gotta have some kind of physical attraction to get romantic with a guy. I can't get sexually excited about a man who looks like a gorilla with a heart of gold. Fuck that shit lol!

 

[Boredd]

I think when I first meet someone its 80% looks and 20% personality. But then as I get to know them it'll become 80% personality and 20% looks. I have no problems walking away from a douche who looks like a model.

I also think intelligence is really important.

 

[frankfrank]

As I have very little sex drive (and I can actually imagine a loving relationship not even based on that), personality dominates completely.

I personally know a number of people who are getting themselves into jams, deep trouble, and horrific angst, entirely because of their sex drives intruding to an extreme degree. I do NOT really miss it at all.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

da answer is

thankyou

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