I am married to my wonderful wife, she is the greatest. At work I have a gay coworker that I want His cock inside of me. How do I tell my coworker that I want him in my bed while my wife is away for a few days. I want to come out to him and have the time of my life. I think he knows that I have the potential to be gay, but he doesn't know I already hooked up with a stranger out of town. My dream right now is to have my wife catch me with another mans cock in my mouth and ass at the same time. Is there something wrong with that. I just want lots of fun with cock. When my home sex got to almost none, I have decided to go back to my teenage dreams. Which I always wanted to be gang banged. But that would have been frowned upon, I have been living a big lie and don't know how to move forward.
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Married guy... crush on gay coworker...
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I moved your post into a separate thread since it is a complicated situation and deserves its own responses.
The first thing to know about this situation: someone is going to get hurt. The question is, "How many?" and "How bad?".
The question for you is, "Are you going to figure your way out of this situation with as little damage as possible? Or are you going to blow it all up and cause a lot of damage?".
What you've laid out in your post is the nuclear option- it has the potential to blow up your marriage, blow up your friendships and possibly blow up your employment. And if you do go forward with what you've said about, it gives your wife grounds to take you to the cleaners in the court system. That's about as bad as it can get.
If you haven't had a physical lately, get one. Make sure there's not something going on with you- like thyroid issues, low testosterone- things that can make a person not think rationally.
Fnd a therapist to talk to. If you don't know a therapist, many employers offer an employee assistance program that can refer you to a therapist that you can talk to and who will help you sort this all out. Normally, I would suggest marriage counseling but it sounds like you're beyond that point. The solution is to figure out how to get out of your marriage without losing it all.
The one thing that you don't mention is whether there are children- either still at home or grown-up/on their own. If for other reason, come up with an exit plan so that your children don't end up hating you.
As for your coworker, a) don't assume that just because he's gay that he's going to want to be part of this and b) don't shit where you eat. You probably need a paycheck and you want to keep your job because you've got some legal bills ahead.
The first thing to know about this situation: someone is going to get hurt. The question is, "How many?" and "How bad?".
The question for you is, "Are you going to figure your way out of this situation with as little damage as possible? Or are you going to blow it all up and cause a lot of damage?".
What you've laid out in your post is the nuclear option- it has the potential to blow up your marriage, blow up your friendships and possibly blow up your employment. And if you do go forward with what you've said about, it gives your wife grounds to take you to the cleaners in the court system. That's about as bad as it can get.
How do you go forward? One step at a time. With a plan.marredsuckbuddy said:
If you haven't had a physical lately, get one. Make sure there's not something going on with you- like thyroid issues, low testosterone- things that can make a person not think rationally.
Fnd a therapist to talk to. If you don't know a therapist, many employers offer an employee assistance program that can refer you to a therapist that you can talk to and who will help you sort this all out. Normally, I would suggest marriage counseling but it sounds like you're beyond that point. The solution is to figure out how to get out of your marriage without losing it all.
The one thing that you don't mention is whether there are children- either still at home or grown-up/on their own. If for other reason, come up with an exit plan so that your children don't end up hating you.
As for your coworker, a) don't assume that just because he's gay that he's going to want to be part of this and b) don't shit where you eat. You probably need a paycheck and you want to keep your job because you've got some legal bills ahead.
The hardest part is the 25 years of marriage with my best friend, no kids. But I think I am going to approach my coworker about having a discreet affair tomorrow, he is the type of guy that should my advances private. If not a lot of eyes will be opened soon. I won't be able to sleep tonight because I will be weighing options on the what if's. I do chicken out at times also. We will see tomorrow. I love to have him in my bed this weekend. I need to find the courage.
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Uh this coworker of yours.... he wouldn’t happen to be a bank teller with glasses would he? 
Are you that hot bank teller with glasses.
well it's D Day, I will know in the next few hours, if I have what it takes and just ask him over. I know I can get him my bed, but can I come out to him. I want too, and I think he already knows. I have 4 free days to have amazing sex with him. Can I trust him to be discreet, If not than I have the freedom for cock than I can handle
From the look of what your saying most married men are just like you are of being bi and liking men without anyone knowing. How did it go when you saw that coworker?
to many hurdles in the way today, couldn't get any one on one time. I still have 6 days to make it happen. It took me years for my first and I hope to have him in my bed in the next few days. It is all I think about all day every day
Nearly ten days have passed.
Things not work out?
Things not work out?
Nothing will come of it after some soul searching, I just can't risk it. Especially when I also work with family.
In view of your situation you made the right choice....... 
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Well knowing that you work with family and thinking about trying this there was/is beyond stupid! DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT!