Masculine guys who prefer fem guys

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My mate and I are both overmasculine. As long we both were married with a woman, everything went well. Then we lived together for a moment and it didn't work. We now live apart and everything is overnice again and we meet only as machos.

 

[altlover85]

Ignore this post.

 

[altlover85]

No its not I've never seen it in my life...online or in person.

I've never seen a gay relationship between two little people. It doesn't mean that they don't exist.

And if you honestly believe that any of us believe that this thread wasn't started to reinforce your own beliefs you are fooling yourself.

I thought you were improving in your posts.

 

[altlover85]

Well actually, I was attracted to and still am attracted to a few of my high school teachers. Or at least what they looked like then.

 

[DigitalFudge]

Nothing is a bigger turn off than hearing, seeing, or reading "Only into masculine guys"


And as someone who would be right dab in the middle (More masculine probably) I find it disturbing and barbaric to hinder yourself in such a way as to choosing a mate.



I am in LOVE with Brad from Rachel Zoe and I have been obsessed with Anderson Cooper since I was in my mother's fetus

Like them both for different reasons neither of them are because one is more masculine than the other.

Perhaps we are attracted to others different than ourselves? You know the whole opposites attract and all that good stuff.

And perhaps we don't care about the behavior of a man you seem concerned about? We can look past that and see a person worth our attention?




Nope.



Nope. Not everything is about domination and feeling manly...

^^^

SilverWolf this post is so right on so many levels I almost exploded

 

[altlover85]

I think Brad's super cute!

 

[Rex]

It's because some guys are uncomfortable with being with a masculine guy. They might be bi and might prefer someone who is similar to a female.

 

[Rex]

Which is yet another reason why I wonder if this is a Sultan sock puppet.

Please... if I made a sock puppet account I'd make the threads way more controversial than this and they'd piss way more people off. This thread is just a typical JUB thread.

 

[Rex]

No its not.

Straight acting means you act like a straight guy. What straight guy goes around picking up men?

Straight acting is basically saying being straight is masculine and the socially correct behavior for men. Which is untrue because gays can be masculine as well even though they do not pick up women.

Yeah it's not the best term but get real. You know what they mean by the term and yes physical strength and things of that nature ARE a measure of masculinity in this society and pretty much always has been and will be.

 

[SilverWolf]

Yeah it's not the best term but get real. You know what they mean by the term and yes physical strength and things of that nature ARE a measure of masculinity in this society and pretty much always has been and will be.

Yeah and straight acting equates masculinity to straight males. Believe it or not, it does.

Masculinity and straight should not be associated like how femininity and gay is.

 

[fetaby]

Yeah it's not the best term but get real.

If it's not the best term than why is it being used? Wouldn't you want to describe yourself with the best words? Would you use second rate words to describe yourself?

 

[Rex]

Yeah and straight acting equates masculinity to straight males. Believe it or not, it does.

Masculinity and straight should not be associated like how femininity and gay is.

Maybe not but it is and probably always will be.

 

[Rex]

If it's not the best term than why is it being used? Wouldn't you want to describe yourself with the best words? Would you use second rate words to describe yourself?

Because most people think gay = fem and straight = masc. Sure it's not always true but all stereotypes have truth to them and many people base their views on stereotypes.

 

[Rex]

I dunno about controversial but it would be alot more coherent than this muck here....


But what makes it really typical is the irony of it all. The OP being one of the queeniest, bitchiest, femmiest members I've ever known in my life and yet he's "disgusted" by fems. Which I guess is understandable, not wanting to date someone just as shrill and obnoxious as you are. When he says fems are gross and undateable what he really means is that he can't handle that much competition. The only way he can make it work in a relationship is if he's the bitch and the other guy's the butch. He needs that balance otherwise there'll be a clash. A power struggle over that pair of skinny jeans. A fight to the death for that new Lady Gaga CD.

Kind of reminds me of that Madonna person that used to post here and also this person:

 

[SilverWolf]

Because most people think gay = fem and straight = masc. Sure it's not always true but all stereotypes have truth to them and many people base their views on stereotypes.

So you are saying that even though straight acting and gay acting conveys a stereotype, its harmless because stereotypes have truth to them?

So the next time someone equates 99% of bisexuals with liar, cheater, and two timing scumbag, those words should not be refuted because its based on a stereotype and have some truth to them?

 

[Rex]

So you are saying that even though straight acting and gay acting conveys a stereotype, its harmless because stereotypes have truth to them?

So the next time someone equates 99% of bisexuals with liar, cheater, and two timing scumbag, those words should not be refuted because its based on a stereotype and have some truth to them?

It just means I don't give a shit anymore and people can believe what they want, and that thing about bisexuals isn't true 99% of the time but it IS true a lot of times so meh, people can over exagurate and bitch and moan about that but I won't get too mad because I know it's true a lot of times. Same with the gay/fem, straight/masc thing.

 

[SilverWolf]

It just means I don't give a shit anymore and people can believe what they want, and that thing about bisexuals isn't true 99% of the time but it IS true a lot of times so meh, people can over exagurate and bitch and moan about that but I won't get too mad because I know it's true a lot of times. Same with the gay/fem, straight/masc thing.

Those stereotypes that might affect relationships and friendships if people knew you were bisexual.

But then, if you don't care that's another thing entirely. I do. I personally do not like it when people judge me when they learn I'm gay based off stereotypes. That's why I personally try not to use words that perpetuate stereotypes and point out the ones that do.

But hey if you don't care, that's your thing.

 

[bankside]

I think some of us are operating under a misapprehension about just how much sex occurs on the debating team.

those.
are.
some.
kinky.
fuckers.

Enough said.

 

[LilBit]

If it's not the best term than why is it being used? Wouldn't you want to describe yourself with the best words? Would you use second rate words to describe yourself?

I don't know about Sultan, but I only use the most cromulent words to describe myself. I find that it embiggens me.

 

[bankside]

I don't know about Sultan, but I only use the most cromulent words to describe myself. I find that it embiggens me.

Now you're just imitooting something you heard somewhere.