Most Bisexuals Prefer Masculine Gays?

[reader]

hot sexy masculine men are best. the sex is better and is much easier to be yourself and have fun.

 

[daydreamer27]

I'm into guys/men who behave like normal beings, no la-di-da, no drawling or simpering, just no flamboyant affectations. I used to know a gay guy who did all this just to show the dumbest breeder that he was gay. How silly...

 

[daydreamer27]

Also the whiney voice with that speach thing where they talk like an embarrising mum "I made you some sandwiches for yer lunchbox, love." *shudder* Why cant they just talk normaly?

I think some of these girly guys just want to provoke people around them like: Look I am gay. Do I make you feel uncomfortable now?

But I think some gay guys are more effeminate than others. Some gay guys are really soft. Some are quite normal. Some are really macho and masculine.
I would say from what I've seen that only 10-20% of all gay guys are behaving like queens, you might think that most gays are like this cause they're the visible ones.

 

[blech]

I'm bi and I can't say I like masculine/butch guys [because I'm not so tough looking myself] but I am more into the punk/artsy type of guy.

 

[spiralgary]

I'm atracted to masculine guys. gay or not I can't stand guys who are feminine

 

[BoyisMen]

Same here. Feminine guys do nothing for me. Give me a manly man any day.

 

[TJBill]

In general, as a bi-guy, I do find myself more attracted to "masculine" guys as opposed to "feminine" guys....However, this is not an "iron-clad" rule for me...I have met feminine guys that I was attracted to, and I've met masculine guys that I couldn't get away from fast enough. For me, though, this is more of an assessment of the person's personality and mannerisms. My attraction to men is very individualized to the individual man...I'm attracted to both hairy and smooth men, both muscular and twink men, etc.

This is my opinion for my own preferences. However, I think it's difficult to say what most bi men find attractive...

I generally agree with BM4F's assessment.

I'm usually attracted to low-key masculine type guys, but if a guy is a little 'feminine' that can be ok too. Depends on the individual.

 

[foolish082]

I will say that that's been my rationale as someone who likes men and women. I do prefer men who are more masculine and women who are more feminine. I look for more than that in a person, but that is generally what I'm attracted to. There are always exceptions though.

 

[dionyssian]

I have a theory, but you need to phrase it yourself. In Arab land, they tend to sexually use guys for sports and girls for breeding. What do you think?

 

[willsp18]

I'm bi and for some reason not only am i attracted to masculine guys but their always straight, i dont know how that happens.

 

[Lifesaver]

Yeah I am attracted to masculine guys as well.

I don't have a problem with feminine guys whatsoever, I'm just not attracted to them. The problem with them is that I find that many of them have obnoxious personalities. I thought this was me just not liking feminine guys in the first place, but I have actually met a few who I thought were great guys and not obnoxious in the least.

Unfortunately I don't think a lot of people in general have realized that yet. I've pointed it out to a few people and they have said "Hmmmm, you know, that IS true"

And this isn't making sexual preference distinctions, this is making general distinctions.

Example: Around here at least, popping your collar if you are actually serious about it and not kidding pretty much makes you a tool. Now, a good amount of gay guys do that, but a fair amount of straight guys do it as well and people will not care whether the guy is straight or gay. They will look at that popped collar and go "wtf?"

 

[Turkish]

Yeah I am attracted to masculine guys as well.

I don't have a problem with feminine guys whatsoever, I'm just not attracted to them. The problem with them is that I find that many of them have obnoxious personalities. I thought this was me just not liking feminine guys in the first place, but I have actually met a few who I thought were great guys and not obnoxious in the least.

Unfortunately I don't think a lot of people in general have realized that yet. I've pointed it out to a few people and they have said "Hmmmm, you know, that IS true"

And this isn't making sexual preference distinctions, this is making general distinctions.

Example: Around here at least, popping your collar if you are actually serious about it and not kidding pretty much makes you a tool. Now, a good amount of gay guys do that, but a fair amount of straight guys do it as well and people will not care whether the guy is straight or gay. They will look at that popped collar and go "wtf?"

I more or less agree with everything. Specifically popped collars = tool, whether gay or straight. I think the thing that attracts me specifically more to masculine guys is the fact that they are on average less self absorbed. PLENTY of masculine straight guys are also horribly self absorbed and I would put them into the same catagory as a selfabsorbed, effete queen. But that's just my oppinion I could be wrong.

 

[TrdMrk]

I used to date a feminine bi guy (beautiful long hair and lips!) and criticized him at every turn for every feminine mannerism. I told him I wanted a husband, and not a wife.

But upon further conversations with him, I realized that this kind of behavior is what drives someone to hate straight and bisexual men. People are people, if a guy is feminine, that's who he is (or at least pretends or thinks he is). I prefer what I prefer, but at the same time, what man hasn't been accused of being the slightest feminine at one point or another?

 

[maxibutt]

Not necessarily masculine - perhaps with a bit less feminine attributes. Then again, I've tended to like girls that are less "girlie" too.

 

[Titanius]

With all stated, yes, I agree with the OP. Feminine men have no place in my mind, but a few feminine characteristics go well if placed right.

 

[Seifer20]

It looks like I'm with the majority too. I like guys that are masculine (or normal, however you want to look at it). I find the effeminant/drama guys to be irritating. That being said, I can only take extremely dramatic women in small doses until they start driving me up the wall as well.

But masculinity/femininity is more of a personality thing than a physical thing. I'd take a sporty girl over a diva; it's more a matter of shared interests. Physically, I prefer men that are athletic or muscular, but I hooked up with a guy that was skinny so... whatever.

 

[MindBlast]

As a gay guy, I prefer guys who act masculine and look it as well. If a guy can't do the outdoorsy stuff or car stuff with me and freaks out about getting his hands dirty, he's not for me.

Physically, I prefer strong thick guys. I have a preference for short, hairy, muscular guys. That's just my preference.

I'm not as masculine looking as the type of guys I like, but it doesn't seem to bother most of them.

 

[dfwjacker]

Damn straight... Masculine guys really get me really horned up and are fun to hangout with. Whereas feminine guys seem like imitation women to me and are a real turn off.

 

[darkroyal]

True in every sense, I prefer masculine guys. However I don't know whether I can return the favour. I'm no girly girl (into sport, camping, but at times I do things that are less than masculine (i think its just some mannerisms like walking, voice which I HATE!).

How the hell am I going to snag a man now? lollll good luck to me in the future

 

[uofaguy7]

I'm bi and I used to be solely attracted to masc men and fem women but recently have gotten moreinto fem guys, don't like butch women at all though lol