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Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bills

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Having been a caregiver for my mom during the last two years of her life,
I can fully understand how circumstances might cause this man to snap...

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Police: Man threw wife off balcony because of medical bills

KANSAS CITY, Missouri - A man threw his seriously ill wife four stories to her death because he could no longer afford to pay for her medical care, prosecutors said in charging him with second-degree murder.

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Stanley Reimer, 51, is charged with second-degree murder for throwing his ill wife off of their fourth-floor apartment balcony on August 14, 2007.

According to court documents filed Wednesday in Jackson County Circuit Court, Stanley Reimer walked his wife to the balcony of their apartment and kissed her before throwing her over.

Video = KISS OF DEATH:
http://www.myfoxboston.com/myfox/My....jsp?contentId=4079527&version=1&locale=EN-US

The body of Criste Reimer, 47, was found Tuesday night outside the apartment building, near the upscale Country Club Plaza shopping district.

Stanley Reimer, 51, was charged Wednesday. He remained jailed on $250,000 bond and was scheduled to be arraigned Thursday.

In the probable cause statement filed with the charges, police said Reimer was desperate because he could not pay the bills for his wife's treatment for neurological problems and uterine cancer.

Investigators said that Reimer was in the apartment when they arrived. He told them, "She didn't jump," but did not elaborate, they said.

Criste Reimer's caregiver told police she could barely walk and would not have been able to climb over the railing of the balcony, according to the probable cause statement.

Reimer's alleged motive emerged after several more hours of questioning, police said.

According to Jackson County Probate Court records, Criste Reimer had been in ill health for several years. Her weight had fallen to 75 pounds and she was partly blind.

According to the court records, she had no health insurance to pay for medical bills that ranged from $700 to $800 per week.

The Probate Court documents were filed in April, when Stanley Reimer petitioned to be allowed to sell personal property his wife owned in Wheeler County, Texas, for $20,000.

The documents listed her assets at approximately $6,700, with monthly income of $725 from oil royalties and a government payment for the disabled.

It was not immediately known if Stanley Reimer had an attorney.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

In this case I think it would be murder.

Sad situation :(
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

This is not a mercy killing. It's murder.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

mercy killing usually involves:

a) putting the person out of his/her misery, not putting you out of your misery

b) killing someone in a way that won't cause great pain, unlike throwing off a balcony

verdict:

murder most foul!
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

I used to live right by where this happened...

he kinda looks like Phillip Seymour Hoffman...in 20 years

still, who the hell could do something like this?
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

I understand, but don't condone
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

Here's a chapter Michael Moore left out of Sicko.

Really. Imagine being driven to this point. I get it. I'd never do it, but I get it. Sadly, it is murder.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

Well...she could have asked to be thrown off. It's hard to say i guess, sounds like murder, but we're not at the trial...well i mean when it goes to trial. so who knows.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

Well...she could have asked to be thrown off. It's hard to say i guess, sounds like murder, but we're not at the trial...well i mean when it goes to trial. so who knows.

It doesn't say so in the video I attached to this, but I've seen this incident discussed on other television news, and on at least one, they say that he says it was agreed between him and his wife that he would do this to put her out of her misery...

But did she sign something to that effect, that he can show authorities...? Also, there are more "merciful" ways he could have gone about doing this - pills or suffocation, for example, instead of throwing her four stories down onto a concrete pavement...?
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

And this in the richest, most powerful nation of the World :eek:

Something is very, very wrong with its system, I tell ya ](*,)

You are so right about that. I got sick in Mexico once, and the Mexican government provided me with free health care.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

It's murder.

If it were euthanasia, he would have done it painlessly, like suffocating her

](*,)

The last time I knew, suffocation isn't exactly painless...
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

Even though I think there's a much better way of Euthanisizing his wife instead of dropping her off the balcony, I do NOT think I could convict this person of murder....

I do think he must be given a fair trial; but I think a jury of his peers would have a difficult problem in convicting this man of murder!

I think BOTH of them agreed to this event and the husband loved his wife enough to endure this legal system in the U.S. that does NOT allow for "mercy-killing"!

If his wife had been an animal, the Vet would do it and she would NOT feel any pain; but NO, this man had to do whatever was available to him and that was dropping her 40 feet to the ground!

I'm sure I will get BOOED by the rest of you guys; but it's my opinion and I hope you can at least see some of the reasoning I am using to say that he was only doing it for her own good!

Thanks!(*8*)(*8*):kiss::kiss:
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

I understand how his situation may have been painful, but not enough to do what he did. Its murder.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

This woman had uterine cancer. She also had neurological problems of some nature...possibly secondary cancer involving the brain, possibly epilepsy, . Did the cancer cause any pain, I wonder? Pain that might cost money to alleviate?
There is reference to a "Carer" who stated she was unable to walk....... she probably wasn't able to do much for herself.
It wouldn't surprise me if she was depressed.
It wouldn't surprise me if he was depressed.
When you really love someone, it's surprising what you'll do for them when, "in your own mind", you can see no other way of helping them. Unfortunately depression and helplessness can manifest in this way.

I hope the legal system, after considering all the facts, is fair and just in dealing with this man and this couple's tragic situation.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

When you love someone, you dont throw that person off the balcony...
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

I believe it was murder. The victim's family didn't want him anywhere near her. I guess now I can see why
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

All things considered - There is no excuse for throwing someone off the balcony.
It's cruel.
It's gruesome.
It's heartless.
It's murder.
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

When you love someone, you dont throw that person off the balcony...


No...you're quite correct. When you're in your right mind you don't!
 
Re: Murder or mercy killing? Man throws ailing wife off balcony - couldn't pay her bi

The only thing im gonna say is that if i were that sick, i would have someone throw me off a balcony too!
 
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