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Music for your funeral

I'm not sure I even want a funeral, or memorial.

But I have a long time friend--when he dies, I hope after I do, but if not--I want to sing "You are My Sunshine", because he is/was always that to me....
 
a bit sad??

(i suppose it is a funeral)

don't you take my sunshine away.
 
I never really gave it much thought, but since I fully intend to have a Mass of Christian Burial in the Roman Catholic Church, (I was born Catholic, and I intend to be buried as one), I want something dignified and pretty traditional.....

Processional (as they roll my casket in) -"Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring"

After the Eulogy-"On Eagle's Wings"

Communion-"The Prayer of St. Francis" ("Make Me A Channel of Your Peace")

Recessional (as they roll the casket out)- "Going Home" (I think that's the right name of the song...not sure)

No it is not morbid as the original post to start the thread suggests, it is a matter of caring and tidyness. Like you Ronboy (we must be brothers of the heart). I am an Anglilcan and a priest to boot and I want a traditional service. I like beginnings and endings to be tidy.

If a suitable organist is found, it will start with a rousing playing of Buxtehude's "Tocata in F" and it will end with a bagpiper playing "Amazing Grace" and no singing as I am wheeled out, for I chaplain the Police and Firefighters.

Within the body of the Requiem Mass with my body traditionally at the foot of the altar with a white pall, I will want to have two particular hymns sung: an English hymn, "I Know Not Where the Road May Lead I Follow Day by Day" and "Jerusalem, My Happy Home".

There will be no eulogy, it is not our tradition, instead I have instruction for a brief preaching of the gospel about the Lord. And yes, I leave nothing to have to be guessed about what I would like or not like, there are fourteen pages of details, mostly things not to be done.

I expect to be cremated after the burial service and then at a time of the family's choosing my ashes will be interred in a niche in the frame of the church. I suggest people can do a loving act by leaving written instructions, and also know and allow that strong willed people who survive us will do what they believe is best or want done.
Shep+
 
I want my funeral to be a fucking rave...

lots of DnB

of course, I'd probably have a memorial service for all the boring suckers who wouldn't go to the rave.
 
Without a doubt, my funeral song (although there may be more than this) will be
Rush by Big Audio Dynamite II
 
i was thinking
Who wants to live forever by Queen
as i arrive
burn baby burn as i roll away
all rounded off with
smoke gets in your eyes as everyone leaves
 
One Sweet Day - Mariah Carey & Boyz II Men


Burn In Hell- Twisted Sister
 
This is probably much too morbid but I do like this very much and it is fitting for a funeral:


Chopin Prelude #20


I also love this one but it too is perhaps too dark for a funeral:



Sarah McLaughlin - Full of Grace




Edit:
We've Only Just Begun - The Carpenters

^ Ravenstar, that's another great one that I'd want at my funeral too. ..|..| It would certainly be more uplifting than the Chopin and Sarah McLaughlin that i picked out above.
 
so, i finally made up my mind. i want my funeral to be a celebration that lasts as long as all my music does. Basically i want everyone to dance and sing along with all 8+ days of my music. I think that'd be the most awesome way to go.

So...my music is almost at 22 days worth now. A big step from the 8-ish days I had before. I still like the idea though. I guess people might get tired of partying after a while, however. I suppose i should choose about 10-18 hours of music so that people don't pass out at the celebration. i guess i will eventually.
 
"Smile"Sung by Natalie Cole
"Don't Wanna See You Cry" Sung By Clifford Coulter
"Flying Home" by The Count Basie Orchsetra( I think..oh well "Flying Home").......dammit I'm getting teary-eyed already
 
I'm not sure I'll have a funneral, but if I do- fitting music would be Soul Asylum- "Runaway Train" The one song that describes my life!
 
everyone knows what i like
so when i'm planted it's gotta be Joan Jett and "I Love Rock and Roll"


and "Androgynous"



and the entire Joan Jett catalougue
 
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