My 16 year old son wants a prince albert piercing

[Angel101]

I dont know if I should let him have the piercings or not, if I do let him then he will be happy but I haven't ever liked the other prince albert's that I have seen. I don't know if he's mature enough for one yet but two other friends has one.

If you forbid him, he'll probably do it anyway for the fun of disobeying. (I would)! And then what could you do about it force him to pull down his pants.

Talk to him, make him understand your points.

And remember," The forbidden fruit is the most desired"

 

[thisisinteresting]

This is so weird and funny to me. My friends all have holes in their dicks so I want one too! Pleaaaaase!

Of course, I understand the OMG DAD PLZ EVERYONE WHO IS COOL HAS IT but this feeling will fade and like everyone else said, he needs to make this decision for the right reason. I kept bugging my mom about getting an eyebrow piercing when I was 16/17 and she was like when you're 18 you can do what you want. I was annoyed and didn't see the point and lo and behold before I even turned 18 I decided eyebrow piercings are stupid and almost always look bad. Ended up with a lip piercing (at 17 - screw you mom! lol) which is even trendier but it looks way better on my face than an eyebrow piercing would and it also serves as a distraction for my oral fixation.

Anyway long story short - from someone not too far out of teenager-hood, I'm glad my mom made me wait so I could make a decision like that for the right reasons.

 

[Lefty]

Basically................"You do what you want, you will anyway and I'm not

going to waste my time checking in your shorts. Just remember 2 things yyoung man...

1. I am against it so paying for it is your problem.

2. If it gets infected and your dick rots off..thats your problem, don't come
crying to me about it"

 

[evanrick]

did you tell him hes an idiot

 

[Deandbn]

I also think he should wait for it until he is of age. Hopefully by that time the desire would have worn off. He would probably make a more informed decision about sitting to pee for the rest of his life. Maybe he will have a better group of friends who think a good education is a much better option than a PA.

and on and on and on for all the right reasons......

 

[shirtandtieguy]

Youth is definitely wasted on the young. I can't tell you how many things I wanted to do as a kid in order to "uniquely" do what every other kid at school was doing. Thankfully my parents had the good sense to stress other more valuable endeavors. Like my Dad telling me to try reading a book since hardly any kids were doing that! He thought he was being funny. I thought he was being annyoying. And now, years later, I see he was completely right. I guess the lesson is, be a parent first & his buddy second (or third or fourth...)

 

[Shepherd 2]

Sir,
The young man is sixteen only once. Let him get it done. I am amazed he even asked you permission. I wouldn't have fifty-five years ago. It is no big deal. Relax. He will lose interest probably and remove it later.
Shep+

 

[MindBlast]

If he decides he doesn't like it, it will likely leave a scar and change the look of his dick for good.

Make him wait at least 1 year.

 

[frenum_uk]

I know things can be very impulsive at a younger age but I really don't see the difference between getting a PA at the age of 16 vs 18.

If your son has really researched properly and understands there are downsides to having a PA (urination is the only one I can really think of). He will surely also understand the upsides of having one.

My first piercing was a frenum at the age of 14, I knew even before this time that this piece of skin needed piercing and a ring hanging from it. I did this myself as I dare not talk to anyone, it's great that your son has expressed his wish to you. I didn't even know anyone else had piercings where I had mine for years after that.

When I first saw a picure of a PA I really wanted one, it took years to get the courage up and I too worried about any problems. Once I eventually had the piercing I wondered what all the fuss was about and I just wished I had done it earlier.

If I had my time again, I would have got my PA at the age of 16.

All my personal opinion but accurately refelcts my thoughts.

Good luck!

 

[Críostóir]

Make him wait. He's not full grown yet, even physically. Consider the distortion that could occur.

 

[Críostóir]

I know things can be very impulsive at a younger age but I really don't see the difference between getting a PA at the age of 16 vs 18.

The difference is that their parents can stop them when they're 16. Personally I think the minimum age for stuff like this should be 25 or so, but current law isn't on my side on that.

 

[DonQuixote]

encorrous,
I hope you show your son these replies, so he knows this advice is coming from a wide group of mature men.

(You can turn pics off to avoid possible provocative avatars and such)

 

[Fritos]

hmm was actually thinking about getting one of these to make it more exotic. maybe not see now seeing how all you guys are against it :c

 

[frenum_uk]

The difference is that their parents can stop them when they're 16. Personally I think the minimum age for stuff like this should be 25 or so, but current law isn't on my side on that.

I think the minimum age in Australia is 16 without parental consent.

I really think if this a well though out desire then he should be given support. A frenum piercing would really be a better place to start as this can be removed at any time without affecting the physical functioning of his penis.

 

[piercedguys]

I'm only 19 and I don't have a son, but I would not freak out if my boyfriend got it. So yes if I had a son, most definitely

 

[palbert]

I have 9 genital piercings; PA was the first. Make him wait for all of the excellent reflections above.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

I can't believe this thread has been raised from the dead after a yr where the OP never replied to any one, and his only other posting is in the fetish forum on piercings as well.
I'm sure it has to occur to many on reading the OP thread that this was more than likely a hoax in the first place, ..right?

 

[mgtzny82]

I don't have a son, but if I did, I would say "Absolutely not!" If my hypothetical son wanted a PA, tattoo or anything more drastic than a pierced earlobe, he would have to wait until he was no longer living under my roof.

 

[DonQuixote]

Not knowing that the OP has gone on to post elsewhere about piercings, I was going to say that whatever the outcome was, THIS ship has sailed a long time ago.

 

[Críostóir]

Not knowing that the OP has gone on to post elsewhere about piercings, I was going to say that whatever the outcome was, THIS ship has sailed a long time ago.

Or as Oma Desala would put it, if you know immediately that the candle is fire, the meal was cooked a long time ago.