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My hot roommate flaunts it around me...
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skinIsIn
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Correction: His roommate sounds like the beginning of a typical, cliched, gay fratboy phantasy of being "used, abused and bruised" by the in-house cretin of a sex fiend!
At least the OP has a promising future posting like-minded delusions in the authoritarian category over on nifty.
Gag me with a spoon.
Exactly, this "tale from the frat house" is TOTAL BS! All of you are just stroking the OP's overgrown porn-scripting imagination.
That is all.
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Here's the flip side of that coin ...
Guys like Casey, as "hawt" as they may be, that act out like that, can be quite insecure individuals, seeking self 'validation' from others, through picking a 'victim' to publicly humiliate, in order to attempt to make themselves look 'bigger'/'better' than they, themselves, 'secretly' think they are. It's not only a shame, but also quite pitiful.
However, in order to 'reach' them, you first have to 'prove' that you can stand up to their deplorable (public) treatment of you.
That can be quite "tricky" though. Depending on the weakness of their own self esteem, turning the tables, humiliating Them in public, could possibly turn them into a real enemy that will only heighten their attempts to socially 'harm' you.
Then, again, standing up to them might earn their 'respect', and get them to back off, and, perhaps, even become a "real" Friend.
In that light, it may be best to walk away when others are around, but, when the two of you are alone, ask him if he really meant everything he said, and, maybe, even intuit that you might be willing to 'accommodate' his "guy on guy" curiosity, but only if he'd promise to keep it on the 'quiet' side.
Of course, if he agrees, and goes along, that still won't guarantee that he'll keep that promise, and not bring it up publicly in the future.
However, if that should happen, and he does "let the cat out of the bag", all you need to do, to drop him down a peg, or two, is to fess up to it, and ask why he seemed to enjoy it so much. It's THEN that you don't back down, or back off!
He'll LEARN! And, YOU will emerge as the Stronger of you two.
Either way, it's a difficult situation. Give him a 'private' chance, but also prepare yourself for a 'public' stand! (Should that become necessary.)
Since I don't actually know you guys, I can't predict what might happen in either scenario. And, the approach you may choose to take is entirely up to You!
However, in either case, do please let us know how things are going. And, I'm wishing You all the Very Best in this matter!
And, Yeah! ... As I've said before ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
(It'll keep Everyone wondering what the Hell you're up to!
)
Guys like Casey, as "hawt" as they may be, that act out like that, can be quite insecure individuals, seeking self 'validation' from others, through picking a 'victim' to publicly humiliate, in order to attempt to make themselves look 'bigger'/'better' than they, themselves, 'secretly' think they are. It's not only a shame, but also quite pitiful.
However, in order to 'reach' them, you first have to 'prove' that you can stand up to their deplorable (public) treatment of you.
That can be quite "tricky" though. Depending on the weakness of their own self esteem, turning the tables, humiliating Them in public, could possibly turn them into a real enemy that will only heighten their attempts to socially 'harm' you.
Then, again, standing up to them might earn their 'respect', and get them to back off, and, perhaps, even become a "real" Friend.
In that light, it may be best to walk away when others are around, but, when the two of you are alone, ask him if he really meant everything he said, and, maybe, even intuit that you might be willing to 'accommodate' his "guy on guy" curiosity, but only if he'd promise to keep it on the 'quiet' side.
Of course, if he agrees, and goes along, that still won't guarantee that he'll keep that promise, and not bring it up publicly in the future.
However, if that should happen, and he does "let the cat out of the bag", all you need to do, to drop him down a peg, or two, is to fess up to it, and ask why he seemed to enjoy it so much. It's THEN that you don't back down, or back off!
He'll LEARN! And, YOU will emerge as the Stronger of you two.
Either way, it's a difficult situation. Give him a 'private' chance, but also prepare yourself for a 'public' stand! (Should that become necessary.)
Since I don't actually know you guys, I can't predict what might happen in either scenario. And, the approach you may choose to take is entirely up to You!
However, in either case, do please let us know how things are going. And, I'm wishing You all the Very Best in this matter!
And, Yeah! ... As I've said before ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
(It'll keep Everyone wondering what the Hell you're up to!
)Thanks for the input everyone.
I think I've realized that maybe I like his behavior a bit too much, but not in a good way. We were friendly before living together but I also was more sexually active with girls then. At this point I guess my sexuality is questionable to some people - especially those I live with.
As Chaz asked, my other room mate is really cool. He doesn't take sides or provoke anything at all. He's straight, nice, and a great friend.. thankfully I'm not attracted to him.
As for Casey, I've only encountered him twice since I posted this and the interactions were not combative or sexual... though he still walks around like he's hot shit and knows it. But part of that IS because I allow him to have that over me, which as I just admitted is mostly my fault for having that guilty pleasure about him. Either way, I'm not going to confront him til something arises again and whatever my reaction is, it will probably be a "game time decision" so to speak because I don't what the predicament would be.
Secretly, I would obviously love for him to just dom me, use me for sex, and then go back to normal without anyone knowing. But this is reality and there's a lot more at stake. So I'll just settle for the occasional jerk off imagination and move on.
Also, to whoever asked about me posting a photo, that is ridiculous. I would never do anything like that because I would not want that done to me. Weather I knew about it or not. Just cause I think he's hot, doesn't mean everyone else would. It's just the fact that I do think he's hot and that's a problem for the situation.
Anyway, if anything else noteworthy happens, I'll update.
I think I've realized that maybe I like his behavior a bit too much, but not in a good way. We were friendly before living together but I also was more sexually active with girls then. At this point I guess my sexuality is questionable to some people - especially those I live with.
As Chaz asked, my other room mate is really cool. He doesn't take sides or provoke anything at all. He's straight, nice, and a great friend.. thankfully I'm not attracted to him.
As for Casey, I've only encountered him twice since I posted this and the interactions were not combative or sexual... though he still walks around like he's hot shit and knows it. But part of that IS because I allow him to have that over me, which as I just admitted is mostly my fault for having that guilty pleasure about him. Either way, I'm not going to confront him til something arises again and whatever my reaction is, it will probably be a "game time decision" so to speak because I don't what the predicament would be.
Secretly, I would obviously love for him to just dom me, use me for sex, and then go back to normal without anyone knowing. But this is reality and there's a lot more at stake. So I'll just settle for the occasional jerk off imagination and move on.
Also, to whoever asked about me posting a photo, that is ridiculous. I would never do anything like that because I would not want that done to me. Weather I knew about it or not. Just cause I think he's hot, doesn't mean everyone else would. It's just the fact that I do think he's hot and that's a problem for the situation.
Anyway, if anything else noteworthy happens, I'll update.
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Very well stated, Young Man! 
You've obviously got your head (the BIG one, I mean) in the right place!
Whatever might happen, or not, between you and Casey, seems to be in your considerate control. And, THAT, is a "Good Thing"!
Best Wishes for wherever you might want to take this!
And, at the risk of sounding too repetitive ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
You've obviously got your head (the BIG one, I mean) in the right place!
Whatever might happen, or not, between you and Casey, seems to be in your considerate control. And, THAT, is a "Good Thing"!
Best Wishes for wherever you might want to take this!
And, at the risk of sounding too repetitive ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
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Very well stated, Young Man!
You've obviously got your head (the BIG one, I mean) in the right place!
Whatever might happen, or not, between you and Casey, seems to be in your considerate control. And, THAT, is a "Good Thing"!
Best Wishes for wherever you might want to take this!
And, at the risk of sounding too repetitive ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
What he said
How important is it for you to stay in the closet? If you admit anything to him, he will broadcast it around. Even now your other friends are starting to wonder, I suspect. Consider bringing a girl home to prove him wrong. And consider moving.
Unlike most of the people responding, I'm seriously turned on by this guy.
This is what I'd probably do (not telling you to do it, just what i'd do), since he already knows I checked him out before I'd let him catch me checking him out all the time.
There's nothing to lose in that department. He already saw and knows, so might as well have fun and keep doing it.
Then as long as he knows I'm checking him out, I'd be game to see how it would develop.
I'd get with him for sure.
I'm at an age now where I'm always looking back on the missed chances. I've had so many and passed on them because I was afraid of being found out.
When you don't care about being found out, you'll take chances. Because there's nothing to lose. The guy already knows you're into his cock. He knows it. So what would be so shocking if you dropped to your knees in front of him.
Next time you're alone with him and he says shit, I'd probably drop right in front of him. Nothing to lose and one hot time to win.
All my regrets are what I did NOT do. I'm not sure I have any regrets of things I DID do. Even the painful ones, time has healed. I only regret NOT taking opportunities.
Suck his cock dude. If you don't, I will.
This is what I'd probably do (not telling you to do it, just what i'd do), since he already knows I checked him out before I'd let him catch me checking him out all the time.
There's nothing to lose in that department. He already saw and knows, so might as well have fun and keep doing it.
Then as long as he knows I'm checking him out, I'd be game to see how it would develop.
I'd get with him for sure.
I'm at an age now where I'm always looking back on the missed chances. I've had so many and passed on them because I was afraid of being found out.
When you don't care about being found out, you'll take chances. Because there's nothing to lose. The guy already knows you're into his cock. He knows it. So what would be so shocking if you dropped to your knees in front of him.
Next time you're alone with him and he says shit, I'd probably drop right in front of him. Nothing to lose and one hot time to win.
All my regrets are what I did NOT do. I'm not sure I have any regrets of things I DID do. Even the painful ones, time has healed. I only regret NOT taking opportunities.
Suck his cock dude. If you don't, I will.
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while yielding to him fulfills your short term fantasy, it will shift the balance of power to his side - and by the way you describe him, i think he will be looming this infront of your friends eevery chance he get. and while fantasies and desires fades, what you're left with is disappointment and humiliation.
also, he might just want to get you to admit you'll suck him off. he migght rebuff your offer just to show that he's got the upper hand. that is worse.
also, he might just want to get you to admit you'll suck him off. he migght rebuff your offer just to show that he's got the upper hand. that is worse.
I don't agree with this "giving him power" nonsense. What power? The hot roommate ALREADY knows his roommate is into guys. He's ALREADY seen him checking him out.
The hot roommate ALSO is into guys or he'd never be doing what he's doing. There's no "power" over anyone here.
Take it from me. I let fear keep me from so many times over the years where really good looking studs made passes at me. And the result is me jacking off to what could have been, years and years after the fact.
The original poster has nothing to lose. The "secret" is not a secret at all. Hot roommate already knows. Original poster should take advantage of the situation and have a great time. Now that would be HIS power.
Original poster: Fear nothing, except years from now saying I was too afraid. I didn't do this because I was afraid. I didn't do that because I was afraid. Seize the day, my friend.
Also, i learned in life that when you're comfortable being you, really being you, then this irrational fear of others "finding out" goes away! It really does. Happiness is yours if you allow it.
The hot roommate ALSO is into guys or he'd never be doing what he's doing. There's no "power" over anyone here.
Take it from me. I let fear keep me from so many times over the years where really good looking studs made passes at me. And the result is me jacking off to what could have been, years and years after the fact.
The original poster has nothing to lose. The "secret" is not a secret at all. Hot roommate already knows. Original poster should take advantage of the situation and have a great time. Now that would be HIS power.
Original poster: Fear nothing, except years from now saying I was too afraid. I didn't do this because I was afraid. I didn't do that because I was afraid. Seize the day, my friend.
Also, i learned in life that when you're comfortable being you, really being you, then this irrational fear of others "finding out" goes away! It really does. Happiness is yours if you allow it.
It depends on how important it is for him to stay in the closet. Some are in jobs or professions which would suffer. And I would not assume the other guy is interested. When some homophobic guys guess someone is gay, they flaunt it to test and prove.
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This guy is a douchebag!!!
I appreciate what everyone has said and I realize it's not a 'Yes/No' type of situation for many -- especially me. I haven't seen Casey in about 3-4 days because of our schedules and when I know he's home when I am, I've avoided him a bit just because I need to be ready to react and I want to be firm in my actions -- whatever they are. I did hear him fucking 2 nights ago and instead of immediately finding porn and jerking it, I realized I've almost become used to it. So instead, I put my headphones on and listened to music while surfin' the web. I used to think Casey did it as a performance and for my benefit, but maybe that's in my head and he's just a real horny guy with a girlfriend and could care less who hears/knows about him fucking. I've always been attracted to that kind of 'I don't give a fuck if you know I'm fucking' attitude. Anyway...
I really appreciate reading this. It has given me something to think on.
This got me thinking too. I've somewhat suspected that some guys who are just cocky and like to be dominant want to flaunt, test, and prove their suspicion about another guy. I fear this may be the case -- but I'm not certain.
I really appreciate reading this. It has given me something to think on.
This got me thinking too. I've somewhat suspected that some guys who are just cocky and like to be dominant want to flaunt, test, and prove their suspicion about another guy. I fear this may be the case -- but I'm not certain.
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Follow your Heart, "G"! Follow your Heart! It will rarely steer you wrong!
Whatever YOU might Feel like doing, or not, at any given time, then that's what you Should do! Don't "over think" it, just DO it! And, if it's putting in ear buds, and surfing a bit, then that's what you should do.
Of course ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
(Just as others have said, my main regrets come from what I DIDN'T Do!
)
Whatever YOU might Feel like doing, or not, at any given time, then that's what you Should do! Don't "over think" it, just DO it! And, if it's putting in ear buds, and surfing a bit, then that's what you should do.
Of course ... no matter what ...
Keep smilin'!!
Chaz
(Just as others have said, my main regrets come from what I DIDN'T Do!
)
If I were you, I would start by talking more openly about being bisexual around this guy. And I don't mean in a joking, innuendo sort of way so that it isn't seen as serious. At least get it out in the open. I've never been one to hookup with straight guys, but many gays I've known have. And they get to because their straight friends know they're gay and take advantage of it to satiate a curiosity.
Either this guy is just a douchebag or he's masking a true curiosity through this alpha male posturing.
Try picking up a guy or having a fuck buddy and performing as loudly as your roommate does. Then proudly tell him how you just know he's jacking off to it, and take it from there.
In my opinion, this guy needs to be knocked down a few pegs. I think you can put him to the test and get him to prove to you that he's as hot, sexy and hung as he thinks he is, and the great performer he believes he is (probably isn't). Otherwise this little bi-curious ego-tripping banter between the two of you will forever remain just that.
Either this guy is just a douchebag or he's masking a true curiosity through this alpha male posturing.
Try picking up a guy or having a fuck buddy and performing as loudly as your roommate does. Then proudly tell him how you just know he's jacking off to it, and take it from there.
In my opinion, this guy needs to be knocked down a few pegs. I think you can put him to the test and get him to prove to you that he's as hot, sexy and hung as he thinks he is, and the great performer he believes he is (probably isn't). Otherwise this little bi-curious ego-tripping banter between the two of you will forever remain just that.
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I know right. I swear I have read many gay short stories like this one. lol
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Ive got to say I think this a great bit of advice and I think I need to take heed of it myself.
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Come on Dreamer...you to Skininy
He ain't hurtin nothin either way..
fuck all dudes, the thread is a good
serial with your cereal if nothing else.
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closure maybe?
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He ain't hurtin nothin either way..
fuck all dudes, the thread is a good
serial with your cereal if nothing else.
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closure maybe?
