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My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

Sorry, I don't think following any impulse you have is the same as "being fearful." An impulse to punch someone in the nose is an impulse, but not doing it is the sensible thing to do.
The roommate is "onto" you, but he's also testing you to see what he can make you do. You could say "yes," and then he could say, "no way, man, I was only kidding."

This particular scenario is a long way from being a fearful person all your life, which is an entirely different thing. That kind of thing starts in your youth and pervades all your thinking and actions.
This calls for wisdom and knowing which action is a good move, and which one is not.
 
I imagine he looks like a Cody Cummings lookalike... he sounds perfect, tbh. Judge me. ):
 
I genuinely think that in order to move on, you have to be clear within yourself of how comfortable you'll be coming out as bisexual. If you're willing for them both (and therefore others) to know, then you can make your move. If you're not happy with coming out, then you simply need to use an attack line like "Dude, if you wanna get it on with a guy you're gonna have to look somewhere else because you've got the wrong person". You'll probably find him backtrack and make excuses for his behaviour.

If, however, you want to test him in the other direction, I've often found the best way to play them at their game is to call their bluff. As others have said, next time he starts making suggestions, take him up on it and see what his reaction is. I've certainly had some surprisingly positive experiences by doing that.

One of the things about straight curious guys is that they're often backward at coming forward, and it could be that this little game he's playing is the best he can do at making a move without making too much of a fool of himself by getting it wrong.

Of course, like others have said, he could just be your typical sporty uphimself fratboy...

Normally I'd ask if, in 50yrs time, you want to say "I'm glad I did" instead of "I wish I had", but equally, it could end up being a case of "I'm glad I didn't" instead of "I wish I hadn't" ;)
 
so has anything new happened?? dont leaving us hanging!
 
so has anything new happened?? dont leaving us hanging!

Nothing new. I know he's fucked his girlfriend several times but I've been trying to ignore it by listening to music, or getting out of the house.

The other day though, I was walking back to my room after having just showered and only had a towel around me. Casey was walking from around the corner (neither of us realized we were there) and we sorta bumped into each other. He went to give me a playful jab in the arm but to his surprise I caught his hand and said "gotcha this time." I think he was taken aback and he said something like, "nice reflexes" and we went our different ways. I've seen him in just a towel or underwear and I'm always turned on by it. It dawned on me that a way I can find out if he's "into" me or just curious, I could turn the tables and start "flaunting" it around him now. See what happens.
 
gibbons; It dawned on me that a way I can find out if he's "into" me or just curious said:
that's a good ideal! But do'nt overdo it." As they say do unto others as they do unto you." use this as an excape clause
 
Sweet, Gibbons! "Nice reflexes", indeed! I think you might be onto the 'right' approach here! ..|

Best to You! And, yeah, please keep us posted. (group)

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
I knew Casey before he was my room mate. We have mutual friends. I'd see him out at bars and always thought he was a hot and sexy guy. He's tall, lean, muscularly toned but not too much, he has dark green eyes and wavy dirty blonde hair. He oozes of confidence and sexiness. He's the type of guy who knows he's got it and loves it. Among our friends, he was known as the "pussy magnet" because he always got laid whenever he'd go out. I used to be intimidated just talking to him. But having said all that, he really is nice and always treated me friendly.

So fast forward 2 years later, and I'm living with a friend I've known for a long time. We needed a third room mate to help with expenses and Casey needed a place to move. So it was an obvious choice.

Casey and my other room mate are as straight as they come. I'm bi, but they don't know that and I am very 'straight acting.' I have had one night stands with a few girls in the past so they would have no reason to suspect anything about me.

But lately, I've been more on the gay side of being bi and I haven't had a girl over in quite some time. So here's what my room mate Casey has done lately.

For the last year he's been dating the same girl and she stays here at least 3-4 nights a week. Every night they have sex and he could care less about being loud about it. We live in a townhouse but my room is beneath his so I always hear when he's fucking. He sounds so aggressive.

We had some friends over to watch the Super Bowl and right after it was over, in front of everyone, he told his girl friend he wanted to fuck and they went upstairs and started to go at it. I could her a few slaps in the midst of the bed thumping. I went into my room and couldn't do anything else but jack off. After 45 minutes of this, he came down to get a drink and was only wearing mesh sport shorts without any underwear. I could see his huge bulge and he was a bit sweaty. He looked at me without saying a word and just smiled like he knew he was the shit.

One time he came home really drunk and had a fight with his girl friend. She wasn't coming over. We were in the kitchen drinking a few beers and in front of our other room mate and a friend he kept getting really close to me and staring me down. He looked at me and said, 'you know I hear a mouth is just a mouth, buddy, and I really just want to fuck something. You want me whip my cock out for you?' I was suddenly speechless but I felt belittled in front of our friends who were laughing. Casey grabbed his bulge right in front of me and said 'c'mon I know you do. I just need to shoot my load.' I tried to play it off and just laughed along and then went into my room to jack off again.

A few days after that, we were just sitting around watching TV and out of no where he starts to tell me how he 'skull fucked' his girl friend this morning. He described the whole thing like I had asked him or something. He said how he kept pulsating his dick and hitting her in the face. Then he said how much he liked making her gag. He asked me if I've ever been able to make a girl gag on my dick. Before I could say anything, he said, 'my guess is your just average in size aren't you? well let me tell you buddy, I'm what they call hung and it feels great to watch a bitch struggle to take it.' Then he said how he shot his cum on her face and in her mouth and he took some pics with his phone if I wanted to see. He says all this with a huge smile on his face. I did see one picture of his girl friend with his cum on her face but his dick wasn't in the pic.

Just about 2 weeks ago, I had come home from work and Casey was in his room with this door open and talking to our other room mate. I have to walk past his room to use the bathroom and he said, 'hey buddy how ya doing?' I popped my head in his room to see what they were talking about. Of course, it was sex. He was standing at the foot of his bed and was explaining to us how he likes to fuck his girl friend from behind while he stands with her bent over the bed. He tried to grab me and use me as an example but I fought him off. He said in such a sexy voice, 'I like it when bitches try to resist, but they all give in.' Again, my other room mate starts laughing and I just said nothing. He then said how he likes that position cause he can pull her hair and slap her ass at the same time. Our other room mate asked if Casey's girlfriend lets him fuck her in the ass. He frowned and said, 'I've tried a lot, but she won't let me anymore because she says it hurts too much.' Then he laughed, grabbed his cock and balls and said, 'That's cause I got a big cock.' As I walked away, he said how he'd love to fuck a real tight ass though and commented that he thought I'd have a tighter ass than most pussy he's fucked.

The other day I had just gotten home from work, and Casey came in a few minutes after me. He does construction and painting and stuff like that, so his work clothes are always dirty, torn, and too tight on him. He looks amazingly hot with an I don't give a fuck attitude and swagger. He comes in and starts complaining about how he hates wearing underwear. He took his shirt off and went into his room. He left his door open and took his pants off. I saw him in his boxer briefs and from a profile side, I could see his huge bulge. Right as he turned to look at me, I turned and walked away. When he came back out, he was wearing only those mesh sport shorts and no shirt or underwear. He asked if I got a good enough look, to which I played dumb about.

A few nights ago, he came into the kitchen while I was in there. He was only wearing those cotton Polo pajama pants. I know he wasn't wearing any underwear cause the pajama pants were riding so low. He had a HUGE bulge in his pants that I just couldn't resist looking at. I know he saw me checking him out and then he came up real close to me again and constantly grabbed his bulge to 'adjust' it in his pants. He had this sly smile on his face knowing that I wanted to keep looking. He started talking to me about stupid bullshit that I didn't care about. He just wanted to have a reason to keep me there staring at him and his defined chest with a nice happy trail that led to his bulge where he made sure to keep grabbing in front of me. As I walked away to go down into my room, he said, 'hey, I'm gonna go fuck my girl friend now. I'll try to keep it down, but I can't promise anything. I'm sure you really enjoy the performance though, don't you?' I replied as if I didn't notice or care. He said, 'damn buddy, you haven't had a girl over in a while so I know you're not getting laid which means you gotta be beating off down there, right?' I said what's it matter to you? He said, 'It doesn't matter to me, but I'm sure I'm giving you plenty to work with.' Then he smiled, laughed, grabbed his bulge again and went into his room.

I had been thinking about starting this thread for a little while now, but I finally decided to because just earlier today, I walked into another conversation Casey was having with our room mate about if they've ever taken a Viagra or Cialis or something. Casey said, 'fuck no, I've always got an erection all the time as it is.' I walked in right as he said that and he again, grabbed his bulge, looked at me and said, 'you know I do, don't you?' I said nothing but just laughed it off again. Casey said, 'don't lie, I've seen you try to compare yourself with me.' I said he was crazy, but he laughed and said it's cool and he doesn't care, but if I keep it up he's gonna start 'charging me for looking.' I walked away and came here to get it all out.

I really don't know how this will end up. He's very straight and I feel like he's on to me about being bi or curious about him. There's no way I'd ever believe he'd be willing to let me suck him off or anything. I just think he loves the fact that I want to and that I can't. He clearly knows I've jerked off to him having sex. Does anyone else have similar experiences? It's driving me crazy how he does this.

dude he wants to experiment om my gosh..if mine were that bhlunt i would have gone for it.(!)


suck and fuck him yes
 
why do these things always read like a fetish story? So detailed and the long responses cover every aspect to what posters have suggested.

If its true clearly he is abusing the situation, and you may dig that sort of turn on.
The best answer for me would be to aggressively turn the tables being loud, suggestive, & flirty with him in front of others. Make it known that you to can play that game big boy, bring it on but you aren't making me whimper head down in the corner blushing thinking you are the big dominate sexy alpha dog. Fuck that.
 
why do these things always read like a fetish story? So detailed and the long responses cover every aspect to what posters have suggested.

If its true clearly he is abusing the situation, and you may dig that sort of turn on.
The best answer for me would be to aggressively turn the tables being loud, suggestive, & flirty with him in front of others. Make it known that you to can play that game big boy, bring it on but you aren't making me whimper head down in the corner blushing thinking you are the big dominate sexy alpha dog. Fuck that.

I like your point of view - it would be interesting to see it play out ..|
 
Exactly, this "tale from the frat house" is TOTAL BS! All of you are just stroking the OP's overgrown porn-scripting imagination. That is all.

^^Agree. Notice the "interaction" almost disappeared after skinIsIn called him. Been had.
 
^^Agree. Notice the "interaction" almost disappeared after skinIsIn called him. Been had.

Notice the interaction has almost disappeared because I have been avoiding my room mate while I seek some real advice on my situation?

This scenario is unlike any I've seen/heard/read about so naturally I wanted other gay/bi/curious guys' opinions on how to handle it. If you ask me, there's nothing "porn worthy" in what I wrote.

The little interaction that has occurred since the original post is almost identical to what I've already described. Do I need to comment everyday that I see my hot room mate doing something that turns me on? -- No. I thought that was implied. I've only updated on 2 different encounters where I thought I handled it differently and appropriately.

In my fantasy world, this true story would've ended with my room mate bursting into my room and pinning me down on my bed to make me suck his cock til he forces me to swallow his cum. That's a "porn worthy" story.

To those who have offered advice/opinions/feedback, I appreciate it and if or when something escalates to something worth posting, I'll update.
 
In my fantasy world, this true story would've ended with my room mate bursting into my room and pinning me down on my bed to make me suck his cock til he forces me to swallow his cum. That's a "porn worthy" story.

At least you got your predictable authoritarian tale of humiliation finished w/o 'fessing up! (Technically)
Oh to be a moderator for a day, I'd move this to the "Gay Short Stories" thread in a New York minute.


To those who have offered advice/opinions/feedback, I appreciate it and if or when something escalates to something worth posting, I'll update.

Quit joshing, Gibby..."the truth shall set you free!..|"
 
At least you got your predictable authoritarian tale of humiliation finished w/o 'fessing up! (Technically)
Oh to be a moderator for a day, I'd move this to the "Gay Short Stories" thread in a New York minute.




Quit joshing, Gibby..."the truth shall set you free!..|"

Good thing you aren't one then

Let us know if something happens Gibbons, were here for ya ;)
 
Casey sounds like a bully. He belittles you in front of your other roommates, makes fun of you, insinuates that you want him or to be like him etc etc etc. I guarantee that if you come out to him as bi he's going to make your life hell. He's an asshole. He does those things in front of others just to make himself look cool. Just like saying he wanted sex after the super bowl. he chose to say it loud and in front of the entire room. He's a juvenile show off and just plain mean.

He doesn't sound like a friend at all. Why you want to be around him is beyond me. I'd be looking for a new place to live by now. No way in hell I'd tell him anything personal. He's going to tell all of your friends and use it to make fun of you. Get away from this jackass. He's trouble.

Steven.

^ I think that's really good advice.

It seems like many here are saying the same thing -- that this Casey guy is an asshole. From what it sounds like, he is.

Now physically, he does sound hot, I'm not gunna lie. Reading your stories kind of got me turned on. But really, he's just trouble.

Don't let the pretty facade fool you. Quite often, the things most beautiful on the outside tend to be the ugliest on the inside. Don't let his spell overcome you. I would move out now if I were you, or as at least asap.

goodluck
 
I have to say, this is one of my very favorite threads. I can not wait until the day you get the chance to suck his cock. (Oh, please let that day eventually come!) I, for one, am Team Gibbons! (!)
 
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