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My husband's boyfriend

Should I let my husband's boyfriend move in?

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Should I let some hot, slutty, 20 year old casually racist (think hipster ironic racism that's supposed to be funny) intern from my husband's workplace move in with us?

Now, the official story is that other than the two times we fucked him nothing even mildly sexual has happened between Logan and this person; but I do not believe this. I personally think they are trading blowjobs like eight times a day. For some people this would be an issue, but I honestly do not feel that this child is any way a threat to my marriage. he's just fucking vapid and annoying.

I am an adult I don't want to have a fucking roommate. We live in a nice house that my grandparents own and I earn us a nice living. I honestly do not care that some douchey manchild who I'm not gonna lie is very fun to play fuck and suck with has finally irritated his parents to the point that they are refusing to pay his rent anymore.

I am a vaguely brown person I do not want to be around some white guy who thinks talking ghetto and making fried chicken/watermelon references is edgy, ironic, counter-cultural 21st century humor.

I also do not want to be subjected to any more EDM than my husband already subjects me to.

Nor do I consider my absolute opposition to this person being any larger a part of our lives than they already are as an example of my supposed internalized homophobia and basic mistrust of gay men (random hurtful accusation from husband). Plus I'm vaguely afraid that he will tell Logan that he and I sext all day like every day.

The single argument in favor of letting this manchild move in is that Logan has no gay friends here and is bothered by that fact. (I also have no gay friends here or anywhere else, but I'm not even almost bothered by that.)
 
How hot is he ? Has he got a huge wang ? Does he fuck like a truck ?

If he passes all of the above then my answer would still be a huge NO.

You don't bring a cuckoo into the nest.
 
Are you nuts?

Your hubby is basically moving a mistress into the home.

Sometimes this works. The other 99.9% of the time it doesn't.

But you've helped make this bed, so you may have to sleep in the dirty sheets.
 
rareboy said:
Are you nuts?

Your hubby is basically moving a mistress into the home.

Sometimes this works. The other 99.9% of the time it doesn't.

But you've helped make this bed, so you may have to sleep in the dirty sheets.
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How? Oh you're being judgmental about us fucking random thirds TOGETHER at times? I think opening things up was the right decision for us. We are pretty tame by gay male standards in maybe ten months or so we have invited exactly 3 dudes into our bed for about 7 sex acts--I feel as pure as Calvin and Grace Coolidge.
 
Don't fucking let him move in - he sounds like a right shit. Be friends with him if you want, fuck him if you like - but you don't need to take this stray in because your husband (how long have you been married? You mentioned being in your mid 20s before) doesn't have any gay friends when it sounds like he will just mess things up for you both.
 
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If the guy really is an intern, your husband may have issues that go above and beyond your relationship.
 
JohnnyAnger said:
Don't fucking let him move in - he sounds like a right shit. Be friends with him if you want, fuck him if you like - but you don't need to take this stray in because your husband (how long have you been married? You mentioned being in your mid 20s before) doesn't have any gay friends when it sounds like he will just mess things up for you both.
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We will have been together for five years in June.
 
IamNoah said:
How? Oh you're being judgmental about us fucking random thirds TOGETHER at times? I think opening things up was the right decision for us. We are pretty tame by gay male standards in maybe ten months or so we have invited exactly 3 dudes into our bed for about 7 sex acts--I feel as pure as Calvin and Grace Coolidge.
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Sorry. I'm not being judgemental. You are swathing yourself in that shroud.

I really could care less if people have an open marriage and fuck anyone they want.

But eventually, when one partner becomes emotionally attached to the third person....and there is a very high risk of this if your trick moves into the house.....y'all have to accept all the consequences of this....and from watching this play out in other relationships over more years then you've been alive....it can get very messy as two play one another against the third. Particularly when lack of maturity appears to be a huge factor here.
 
Your "marriage" is over. Accept it.
 
I would also seriously advise against it. I don't need to justify this with reasons as you have listed them perfectly for us.
 
Seems like you've lost outside perspective on the issue.

Living with an asshat is not an equitable sacrifice you should make to give your husband a gay "friend."

Maybe you should just hop a train and enjoy the road for awhile....
 
Sure...let him move in. Things will unfold as they will anyway so might as well have a front seat view.

Grab some popcorn...and expect drama.
 
zoltanspawn said:
Seems like you've lost outside perspective on the issue.

Living with an asshat is not an equitable sacrifice you should make to give your husband a gay "friend."

Maybe you should just hop a train and enjoy the road for awhile....
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I was born too late for the hobo life, but man...
 
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