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My Roommates Secret!

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This weekend my roommate went home, but left his laptop open and it was on the internet. So I decided I would look through his history a little, to see what he was looking at, and to my surprise, I found out that he was looking at gay porn. This confuses me, because he acts straight, and so do I, but I didn't expect it, because he does say some degrading things about homosexuality. And now that I found out that he is looking at gay porn, I wouldn't mind trying stuff with him. So I just wanted to ask all of you, how to go about starting stuff with him??(!)
 
Well first of all, you do not invade his privacy by looking at the history on his computer. How would you feel if he got into your computer and found lots of personal things that you did not want others to know. How would you feel if you privacy was invaded?

Frankly, I think you should back off, and next time show him some respect. If it were me and I found out that you had been going through my computer, you would have a very sore jaw, and be looking for a new room mate.
 
ask him can i use your laptop

then look up some different gay sites and leave it open for him to see [say you have to go to the bathroom or outside for a couple of minutes]

then look for any signs of opportunity and reel in that sucker.
 
Well first of all, you do not invade his privacy by looking at the history on his computer. How would you feel if he got into your computer and found lots of personal things that you did not want others to know. How would you feel if you privacy was invaded?

Frankly, I think you should back off, and next time show him some respect. If it were me and I found out that you had been going through my computer, you would have a very sore jaw, and be looking for a new room mate.
blahblahblah, WHATEVER..take ryan's advice!
 
Does he usually leave his laptop open and signed on like that? If not, he did it on purpose or was very distracted and didn't mean to. If you don't have one and use his sometimes, then it's a setup. He might be going through a denial phase and is looking for answers. If you two are close, there should be some indicators he's curious. I'd just go on and not say anything and see if it happens again. If it was intentional and not his normal habit, it'll happen again. Keep us posted.
 
Well he usually turns of his computer, except this time he didn't!

AAnd as for the sites, he searched Sean Cody, evanriviers, military classified, 2scm, Blake Mason, amatuerstraightmen....those are all pretty gay...so i have a feeling he is!!
 
Leaving it on could have just been a total oversight this time. If he'd left one of those sites up so you'd see it if you looked at the screen, then that might be a red flag. But you did go into the history which makes it an invasive situation and he could have done something more obvious if he wanted to tip you off. Since you both act straight and he makes homo comments, he's either confused or doing that to see what kind of reaction you have. As I said before, wait for more clues. If this is all intentional, he'll do something else to feel you out. And then you may get to feel him up.
 
I would say do the same thing to him, leave your computer on, on one of the sites he was looking at and leave the room and come back later. See if he says anything or acts different.
 
Oh no not another i looked at someone elses computer and now you are going to get bitched at. it is human nature it happens get over it people.
 
ask him can i use your laptop

then look up some different gay sites and leave it open for him to see [say you have to go to the bathroom or outside for a couple of minutes]

then look for any signs of opportunity and reel in that sucker.
this sounds like the best idea. this lets him know, but in a way that he can pretend he didnt see it. if that is the case, then you know to back off, but if he says anything to you about it, then you "just reel in that sucker." (LOL what a pun)

be sure to never let him know you went through his computer, because distrust is the worst thing to have between two roomies. and try to stay out of his stuff next time....

hey, maybe he has a justusboys account, and is reading this thread right now.....LOL
 
Agree with Wanderer, never let me know you invaded his privacy ('cos he'll never trust you again) but drop a few hints and see if he picks up on them; if he begins to trust you with his deepest secret who knows what will happen...
 
I think it is bullshit and I would never live with a gay guy, I would just move in with my woman it like the same thing. I'm bi and I look at gay porn sometimes but thats my secert , if I knew someone like my roomate looked at my computer I would kick his ass and move out .Whats the next thing I will blackmail you if you dont fuck me or I will tell your woman.

Thats some crazy shit
 
cracks me up on how many ppl go into people's forums and judge everything they share! get off your fucking high horses! do you have an idea how many people look in others' medicine cabinets when they are a guest at their home? yeah, there's a lot of curious dudes out there that check out porn...step one for them right? I would never attempt ruining a friendship by trying to play around though...but if you end up talking about stuff and you are BOTH cool with it, then hey, show him the ropes :)
 
i would say, come out to him, you can't have much to loose if he's in the same predicament as you are...just something as simple as 'i'm curious, have you ever felt the same way' might get him to open up to you
 
My roomate went into my closed room and used my computer without asking, and it upset me. I don't know if he looked at the history or not, but he doesn't know I'm gay, and I prefer he didn't. Just remember that.

[-X I AGREE!
 
I say he's not straight. He might say things around you that are anti gay to see how you react. It seems to me he left it on intentionally. I think you he might be telling you he wants you in his pants.

When he makes additional remarks about gays, you could respond don't knock it until you tried it or you seems to know a lot about the subject. Try catching off guard with you statements.

Hope you have fun when you get him.
 
you invaded his privacy by being a noisy queen. You have no shame. [-X

How could you break the trust you have a friends. If I had a roommate like you either you'd be gone or I would be gone.

No one should ever look into someone personals things.

My b/f and I have been together for 24 years and we dont go into each others wallet's, computor's or drawers. We have 1000% trust in each other and we dont have to play your childish games.


you need to get a life. you got the balls to sneak in and look , now have the balls and tell him what you did. I bet he wont like it very much
 
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