My Sexuality.

[phoneguy2]

everyone in this thread needs to calm down a little. serious discussion is one thing but this is getting out of hand.

I will make this one attempt to cool this off. Everyone take a deep breath, relax and walk away until you cool down.

Thanks

Wally

 

[Piquechampion]

Too bad Soilwork isn´t into bi guys. He´s a total hottie...

 

[lyconthrope]

hehe Lugus sweetie thats not cooling off, thats hotting up!

 

[Piquechampion]

hehe Lugus sweetie thats not cooling off, thats hotting up!

Well he is!!!

 

[lyconthrope]

Well he is!!!

I totally agree

 

[XLeatherX]

Why is everyone so fucking overly sensitive!!!

Judgemental?? Re-read your post and ask yourself who is being judgemental here buddy.

Jeeezus people why can't anyone have a normal conversation anymore. I had a simple and honest question and once again I get jumped all over.

Why am I here indeed!

And who the fuck are you to question why I am here and ask me questions like "am I a queer man trapped in a woman's body?" Why should I have to explain myself to you after you just called me judgemental?

CM.

Chill out.
Girlfag isn't seen as a derougatory term.
I've met bi/straight women who used the word to describe themselves.

1.girlfag
A woman who is very attracted to gay/bi/trans men. She may (or may not) also feel she is (fully or partly) a "gay man in a woman's body". Girlfags identify primarily as queer, and are often attracted to more types of people than just gay/bi/trans men.

I've also met women who were heterosexual who used this term and often said how a girlfag projects her sexual self into a male headspace and persona, and increasingly gets her erotic satisfaction through non-genital means.

Now I don't really understand this and neither do my trans friends but apparently it's only something that happens during BDSM/Sex, and these aren't trans men.

 

[moto]

Bi guy: I think you're hot.

Gay Guy: Would you like to go out to dinner with me?

Bi Guy: No, let's just fuck.

Gay Guy: You wanna go to a movie?

Bi Guy: No. I think you're hot and I want to have sex with you. But I'll never love you and I'd prefer if you didn't tell all my straight friends that I'd be seen with you.

Gay Guy: Sorry, I want more out of a relationship than sex. I dont' think I can go out with you.

Bi Guy: You're a bigot and have issues. You're a misogynist, you're self absorbed, you're neurotic, full of self loathing, vapid, self absorbed, emotionally damaged and hate all people who aren't like you.

wahahahahahhaah your soooo right !!!

that sounds just like me

well im bisexual and imnot at all offendd wth all the things you saying about us, i onl;y hope you dont generalize bimen as to not being wlling tocommit
id say were alldiffrent and even gay guys got someissues going on, just like you! so you guys shouldnt take things seriously

and forthe guy seeking some help

well your defntly not alone! the only thing diffrent with us two is that

i see girlsfor sex and guys for love,

ironically idont wanna be in serious relationship with guys coz i think nothings gonna happen, i mean were not gonna have kids so i dont see myself marrying the the same sex, so illjust go for friendship. but i dunno iguess were both too young to decide on what we gonna be like in the future,so id say lets just fuck who we wanna fuck and love who we really love , but ofcourse with respect to other parties <- like i just quote someones advice!

 

[dr_beat]

I'd choose a gay man over a Bi man any day, dont think I could ever date a bi guy, there just twice as likely to cheat on you.

Shame on you! You used the "C" word which is not supposed to be used when discussing this subject. It's not the fact that bi men cheat that bothers people hear. Haven't you been reading the rest of the posts?

 

[blueto21]

Blueto-don't put words in my mouth. I said my friends have casual sex like that, I never said I personally do. I personally don't have/enjoy anon. sex like that, but I don't hold anything against anyone that does.

I don't think that you really even have any pearls to offer. Heck even I wouldn't want to date you and I'd be eligable since I'm gay.

Some of the people here are really judgemental to say the least. Even the hetero women.

Also, what's a hetero woman doing here in a fourm about gay/bi MEN? I don't care that a het woman is here but I just want to know why. Do you have gay/bi kids/relatives? Are you a fag hag? Or one of those bi women who calls herself a girl fag AKA "A queer man trapped in a woman's body"?

XLeatherX,

Don’t try to change what you originally said. You can’t twist this buddy. You said and I quote, “I didn't fall in love or want a relationship with every man I've had sex with or dated and I don't know anyone who has". Now if that doesn’t mean casual sex then what is it suppose to mean? You also make a contradiction with this statement. Why would you date someone while knowing you don’t want a relationship? That’s a very senseless position to have. You were clearly indicating that you have had causal sex in the past. It may not have been anonymous but that has nothing to do with the issue.

If you would actually read my post YOU WOULD KNOW, I never said anything about anonymous sex. Go back and read my post carefully. Anonymous sex was never mentioned in my post. I was addressing YOUR and by your own admission your friends causal sex encounters. Be they were anonymous or not is beside the point! If you’re not in a relationship with someone but you’re just hooking up with them for sex then that IS causal sex. Got it?

Also, I don’t know how you got this strange idea that I would ever consider you as a companion let alone an acquaintance? What makes you think I would ever give you such an honor? Some gay men just like ALL bi men are unworthy of pearls. I already have someone special in my life who IS GAY and who is worthy of my pearls. Thanks, but no thank you! I think I’ll pass!

 

[Piquechampion]

Some gay men just like ALL bi men are unworthy of pearls. I already have someone special in my life who IS GAY and who is worthy of my pearls. Thanks, but no thank you! I think I’ll pass!

By pearls I hope you mean the ¨pearl necklace¨

 

[lyconthrope]

what was this thread about again?

 

[lyconthrope]

I'll take anything you have.

^^^hehe gotta be careful who you say THAT too

 

[lyconthrope]

hehe yeah had a feeling it might be, seems to have degenerated to just sex

hey.....did the OP ever come back in?!

 

[lyconthrope]

Gay site...you're not REALLY surprised are you?



Perhaps to read. I don't recall a follow-up post as such.

^^hehe I guess not, just an observation

probably scared the poor boy half to death! he wont wanna be either now lol

 

[lyconthrope]

OK, I have a question...

Who is MY and why are we discussing his sexuality?

heheheh now thats a good question

 

[spooger]

*deleted* by me

 

[RRRalph]

A trip to the bi forum (which to be fair, I haven't done since it turned into a repository for threads started by RRRalph about how much better bi men are).

Omg
Everyone is equal and my threads are not about how much bisexuals are better. You all should see for yourself.

 

[lyconthrope]

^^^^

 

[XLeatherX]

XLeatherX,

Don’t try to change what you originally said. You can’t twist this buddy. You said and I quote, “I didn't fall in love or want a relationship with every man I've had sex with or dated and I don't know anyone who has". Now if that doesn’t mean casual sex then what is it suppose to mean? You also make a contradiction with this statement. Why would you date someone while knowing you don’t want a relationship? That’s a very senseless position to have. You were clearly indicating that you have had causal sex in the past. It may not have been anonymous but that has nothing to do with the issue.

If you would actually read my post YOU WOULD KNOW, I never said anything about anonymous sex. Go back and read my post carefully. Anonymous sex was never mentioned in my post. I was addressing YOUR and by your own admission your friends causal sex encounters. Be they were anonymous or not is beside the point! If you’re not in a relationship with someone but you’re just hooking up with them for sex then that IS causal sex. Got it?

Also, I don’t know how you got this strange idea that I would ever consider you as a companion let alone an acquaintance? What makes you think I would ever give you such an honor? Some gay men just like ALL bi men are unworthy of pearls. I already have someone special in my life who IS GAY and who is worthy of my pearls. Thanks, but no thank you! I think I’ll pass!

You've never dated a guy for awhile, had sex with him and then later both figured out how you're not suited for a relationship with each other, or sexually compatible? Or you've never wanted sex but not wanted a serious relationship?

You're 21, so I'm sure that this will happen someday down the road to you. Don't tell me that you've finally found "The One" and that you want to be with him and nobody else for the rest of your life at 21.

At your age it's wishful thinking and I can almost gaurentee you that it's not going to stay that way, people change. You're still young and I honestly don't know of ANYONE who hasn't had "casual sex" by your definition of it.

Second of all, what's so bad about casual sex? Why are you flipping out at me and my friends, who are total strangers to you? It makes me think that you're jealous of people who can have casual sex or who have had hot casual sex in the past. Or do you see yourself as "better than" people who have had casual sex in the past or who have it on a regular basis?

I can see how casual sex can be bad if you're trying to fill an emotional/psychological void with it, use it to cheat on people who think you're monogamous, or go on a spree with 100's of people or so in a year but again most people don't have casual sex this way. But it can be nice on ocassion as long as you're safe, sane, consensual, and a rational adult about it.