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Need help before I explode!!

I realize your right Lex and I'm sorry, but this is the place I come to for comfort. Sorry if I went overboard with all the things going on, but I am just so confused right now. The suggestions and the positive things everyone here is saying is what's helping me. Once again, I'll ask, does him doing all the things he does "moves" when we are by ourselves mean he really likes me?? Like when me and him are around other people, he treats me like he treats his other guy friends, but when we are by ourselves, he turns into this sweet, caring, loving guy. I almost know for a fact he doesn't act like this type of guy sweet guy to his other guy friends.
 
From what you have told us, it sure sounds like he is into you. You need to make some moves to let him know that you are into him.
 
Hi everyone. I think my friend is starting to come out. He has been saying he is gay yesterday and today. Our prom is in two days and he said hes getting his eye browns down and he wants to get dressed at my house so we could go together to meet up with our friends. He was jokingly poking my dick today with a pencil and hes like, "ohh you got a boner!" and he just laughed and I did too. He also said he wants to come over my house and wrestle because he knows I'm a big wrestling fan. Ahhh the confusion
 
Ok, sweetie, it's shit-or-get-off-the-pot time!!

Here's the scene:

You two are getting dressed at your place. You're both waiting for your dates. You come up to him close to adjust his tie/bow tie. You draw him in closer and look into his eyes and say "You look amazing." Then slowly draw nearer for a kiss. Watch his eyes, you'll know if you can complete your task.


et voila!
 
I don't need to add anything but emphasis: MOVE IT OR LOSE IT. To be honest, I want to help you, I want to hear your success stories, I want to hear how happy you are because you're actually *with* him, rather than just thinking about it.
 
we actually are going to hang out after prom... he told me we should hang out after since we willbe hearing our tuxes and all. i feel like we are getting closer as the days gone on. he even wants to get our eye brows done together lol we have also been going out to eat alot more too
 
Dude,
Prom night.........The perfect time for that first kiss! Be brave and do it!
 
Awwww I will try my best to get that kiss lol. Like today we were texting each other and he replied to one of the texts saying, " love ya boo haha jp" he just confuses me so much like this. Also today, he winked at me and pretended to give me a kiss, but he wasn't close to my face. He mentioned again today he wants to get dressed at my house before prom and today he was giving me suggestions for my haircut and he started rubbing my head, like fixing my hair. Today him and I went out for coffee again and we went to pick up our tuxes. I also got a haircut and he got his eyebrows waxed. He starting talking about a gay guy that we know and jokingly asked me if I wanted him to hold my hand. Wish me luck everyone for prom!
 
*jumping up and down*

Doooo eeeet doooo eeeeet!!!!
 
awww thank you after prom im going to ask him if he wants to go to an isolated hill in which you can see boston... hopefully there we can go further =)
 
ugh and obcouse knowing my luck i had a horrible time at prom. we were going to hang out after prom but obcourse he had to give some people a ride and by the time he was done it was already my curfew. we were spending time together before prom getting our things done and he couldnt get dressed at my house. i was about to go to his house yesterday but my mom didnt let me. there is a girl that is always flirting with him too. i feel so depressed right now because i love him and im like crying right now
 
im depressed because i feel ill never get with him. i love him so much and i was almost crying at prom. i wasnt even dancing because i was just thinking of him. i told my friends i just didnt feel good. my parents get angry at me when im with him but im only happy when im with him. im sorry but i feel like absolute shit right now and im crying while im typing this
 
I'm sorry that things didn't go well for you. I know how hard it can be when you get your expectations up high, then things don't pan out. I certainly don't think all hope is lost. After all, it's not like he turned down your advances or anything like that. Keep in mind that the prom was a very public event where everyone is being watched for who they are with. Given that, it's not surprising that he would keep his distance. He wouldn't want somebody to figure out his secret (assuming he has a secret). He may also be keeping his distance as he didn't want to get his hopes up that something would happen. After all, he has been making moves and you haven't been responding. I'm sure everything will be back to normal tomorrow.
 
right after prom he asked me to go to his car so we could talk on what we were going to last night after prom. obcourse our other friends just had to follow us to his car ugh. i seriously hate this right now. for the way he was so hyper too i was confident we would do something... ugh hopefully we will soon though
 
Tonight we are probably going to the movies!!!! Him and I and other people. We were going to return our tuxes together today and he suggested we went together. However, I had to go by myself and he got upset we didn't go together. He gets upset we don't get to do somethings together. Today me, him and a friend were cleaning our cars and we took off his shirt. I was cleaning the inside of my car and he comes in the car too. He was doing some pranks and I said to him, if you don't stop, I'll shove this hose up your ass. He turned around and told me to do so. As I was leaving my friends driveway, he went up to my car and started dancing like humping my car as I was reversing. We went our for coffee and started punching me in the balls as he always does and said earlier out loud that his nipples were hard. He had the hose in his hand and he started getting me wet with it and said I like being wet. Do anyone of you feel like we are already going out?
 
I almost forgot, today him and I spoke on the phone and as we were going to say bye, he says I love you and I just replied bye because I was with other people and he says I love you again.
 
Sorry for the third post, but I don't know how to edit posts, but at the coffee shop, he says to me, you deserve a hug and he gave me a big hug in front of our friends. This wasn't just a regular guy friend hug, it was a real hug.
 
Heydude009 said:
...Do anyone of you feel like we are already going out?
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No you're not already going out.

If this guy is that interested, and that persistent, and all you do to encourage him is dither while you cry at home, frankly you're never going to have him, and that will be entirely your own fault.
 
Today at the movies, I will try my best to push all of this forward. Do you guy still feel that he likes me. Sorry if I'm being annoying, but I just want to make sure he does.
 
We have no idea if he likes you, all we know is what you tell us. If you're reading the situation correctly, you know the answer, if you're wrong, how on earth are we going to know that?

You get no where by playing things safe, eventually, to get what you want you'll have to gamble.

So the real question is, do you want him enough to risk being shot down. If the answer to that is no, by all means do nothing. In that case you didn't really want him anyway, and were just toying with the idea of him.
 
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