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Need help before I explode!!

Well at least I know that the girl and my crush didn't talk like he was telling me. The thing is, he said he made out with her, always texting eachother and what not, but the girl still has away messages saying, I screwed up and I'm not good enough. I'm thinking to myself, if you made out with the guy, why would you say your not good enough? She still seems like he doesn't like her back. She didn't go to his game tonight and my crush was upset that I didn't go. He ditches her to be with me. I think hes confused and hes sort of forcing himself to like a girl because he doesn't want to admit hes bi or gay. In the 6 years I've known him, he only went out with 1 girl and that didn't last long. His relationships don't last long according to him.
 
I have never been this confused and stressed out in a while. I just don't know what to think anymore. I am his closest friend and hes my closest friend. He said to me he wants to even paint his car red from blue so our cars could be the same color. He let me drive his car and I'm like your car is so different than mine, (we both have stick shifts), I feel weird driving it. He responded by saying, "Oh it won't feel weird in a bit because I want you to drive my car more often. We were supposed to do an assigment yesterday in class and I was like, "why don't you work on it now so we won't have homework?" He responded. "because then I'll have an excuse to go over your house." He said he liked this girl, yet he just wants to be with me rather than with her. I am beyond confused right now. Everytime he sees me in the hall, he smiles and yells out my name and when he sees the girl, he just hugs her sometimes and just says hey what's up. When we were at my car in the movies parking lot, he had to pee and I was sitting in my car. I noticed when he was zippering up his pants, he was facing me instead of facing away. He got upset I had to go home after the movie. When he told me he had to give the girl and her friend a ride home, he says, "and I still have to bring those bitches home." Wouldn't he say I have to bring (girls name) and her friend home," if he really like her? At the movie, he had his legs up and had his elbows touching me for most of the movie and was even kind of facing me. Could he like us both?
 
I'm getting sick of this. Dude, slap yourself! Get a grip! The next time you are alone with him say "Kiss me". Do it already!!!!!!!!!!!
 
YOU are the only one that is confused. You need to ask the guy if he's ever kissed a guy or wanted to. You need to have him spend the night or something. He's practically throwing himself at you. Just put yourself out there. This is your issue now, not his.
 
I want to. I just can't have him spend the night because I am not out to anyone and my parents would never allow. They wouldn't even allow me sleep over someone elses house. Yesterday at the movies, I tried getting close to him when we were seated like with my leg and we were whispering to each other and getting our faces really close. After he was texting this girl, but the girl has an away message today saying shes pissed and someone lied to her... Idk if my crush was lying to her. I think we are hanging out with eachother to do homework, so let's see what's going to happen.
 
Dude, dude, dude. Just kiss him. Just do something. If everything you're saying is absolutely true, then there's no doubt that he wants you.

BUT... there's only one way to find that out for sure.
 
Even the soap opera 'The Guiding Light' has finally been cancellled.
I'm sorry the gargoyle is so dense, but it's finally clear to me that that's what's going on here. This isn't a "what should I do?" thread. This is a "OMG, guess what he did today!" thread.
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do you think he is using the girl to make me jealous? he purposely brings up the girl sometimes and mentions her name alot. he still continues to touch me alot and even followed me to the bathroom and took a pic of my dick when i was in the stall. he tried getting in the stall when i was there and pretended to unbutton his pants. when he started peeing he peed on the floor trying to get feet. i just thought that was weird lol
 
Heydude009 said:
do you think he is using the girl to make me jealous? he purposely brings up the girl sometimes and mentions her name alot. he still continues to touch me alot and even followed me to the bathroom and took a pic of my dick when i was in the stall. he tried getting in the stall when i was there and pretended to unbutton his pants. when he started peeing he peed on the floor trying to get feet. i just thought that was weird lol
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Right. So, watersports and exhibitionism are a little advanced for you are they. What’s he gonna do next? Crisco and slings?

You do realize that you come across as a flighty, spinsterish, damsel fleeing the advances of your prince Charming to protect your unstained virtue, well, with the piss thing maybe not so Prince Charming. All the while whining about how much love you're in.

...I love him so much I must run from him, far and fast lest he piss on my shoes...

Is this really how you want people to see you?

Irrespective of whether this is fantasy or not, your descriptions of your own actions are pretty puerile.

I’m gonna have to call bullshit here, I mean think about this last scenario, this guy is snapping pics of your cock, apparently without permission, I suppose through the cracks in the stall, and he was so hot to pursue you that he pissed all over the place while attempting to break in. Or did he do that on purpose?

If this actually happened, well - Psycho.

But really, the latest installment.

Come on.
 
So, what you're saying is, he wanted to take a picture of your penis AND he's been making what are generally seen as romantic advances on you? Put two and two together, sir. We expect results! *claps hands*
 
Irrespective of whether this is fantasy or not, your descriptions of your own actions are pretty puerile.

I’m gonna have to call bullshit here, I mean think about this last scenario, this guy is snapping pics of your cock, apparently without permission, I suppose through the cracks in the stall, and he was so hot to pursue you that he pissed all over the place while attempting to break in. Or did he do that on purpose?

If this actually happened, well - Psycho.

But really, the latest installment.

Come on.
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Fantasy threads diminish the value of this board.
 
No, this wasn't fantasy. This really happened. I was in the stall and he put his phone over the stall's walls and yelled out smile. However, he talks about the girl sometimes and I saw his texts today and he had a lot sent to the girl. However, one of our friends today got pissed at us and he told me, "Who cares if she's pissed at us. You got me and I got you. We've got each other." Someone asked to sit near them in class today and he got pissed (or jealous?) that I sat near them for like 10 minutes. When I went to sit near him again, he seemed pissed at me, but later pretended like nothing had happened. I am beyond confused about this girl though!!!! I noticed that today, he wasn't waiting for her, didn't say anything to her when he saw her and basically pretended like she didn't exist.
 
He already said he wants to go out to eat with me tomorrow and said he wants to go to the mall with me again =)
 
Um... you know that by doing nothing you're only making yourself more liable to whatever "pain" or confusion you believe you're in?At this point, the confusion you still have is only your fault. But then again, I don't believe anyone is that patient when the only thing left is for the guy to get naked and basically hump your leg in hopes of getting you to ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING! Get off your ass and say it... the way I see it, he's causing you more headaches than good anyway. If you guys end up not being friends afterwards I don't think you're going to miss him that much...

I went through something similar myself. It turns out I never really knew if he had any real feelings for me. Not because I didn't make an effort to show interest on my part after he paraded me with signs (although I did want to keep him as a friend and made it clear from the beginning) but because he was just as inept as yourself at being honest about what it is was going through his head. To this day we haven't had one conversation in which he's been completely clear about anything or everything's usually littered with silence. And you know what? Dumb people who can't even express what they think or feel properly is something we could all do without! ](*,)


PS. Sorry if I was a little harsh, but just put yourself in his position (if he's actually interested in you). Think about how much GRIEF you're putting HIM through... rarely anyone does -_- Or better yet! Think about how much BS you're putting yourself through by not being forward about any of this. :grrr:
 
As you are walking around the mall - ask him "can I ask you something?" then ask him "would you ever kiss a dude or jackoff another dude?". If he asks why you want to know, just tell him you just wonder. Then if you want to step out a little, tell him you would be up for trying with him. See what he does.
 
I am, at this point, trying to figure out whether this board allows people under 18 years old to become members. I didn't think so, but there's no way this guy is in high school. If you are, sorry, but it's just the way this looks.
 
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