Need you guys' opinion on something...

[Sigma-taylor-E]

....Yeah sure...

 

[derelictdarrel]

Scenario I, and if I find this stranger enamoring, I would probably try to get him to talk to me a little longer before I give any phone numbers.

For scenario II, and said stranger were attractive, I would laugh a little and bust his chops a little, then see where it goes.

For either scenarios and I find him to be a creep, I would likely just ignore him. Possibly shoot him a stink-eye glance.

 

[andyspete]

I am not a trusting person and would instantly deem anyone who approached me in such a manner - suspicious! In all 4 scenarios, I would think the guy had some other agenda and though I might flirt back a little to the guys I was attracted to, I would not give out my number. If he were really attractive, I would ask for his number rather than give mine out.

 

[kevbo]

For the first situation, if I found the guy attractive I would ask him if he was available at the moment to get like a coffee or something. If not, I'd get his phone number.

If he was unattractive, I'd lie about being taken.

For both questions in the second situation, I'd just laugh (maybe in a flirting way depending on how attractive) say thanks, and then lie about being taken.

 

[bankside]

I once knew a woman who had the balls to do that. It turned out not to be balls though, but a bad case of manic depression. She'd do anything when her mind was racing.

That would actually colour my reaction to someone approaching me that boldly.

Now, as things are:
Scenario 1a) Turn bright red and say thank you, I'm engaged. Without making eye contact...Rush into my car. Lock the doors. Drive off.
Scenario 1b) Turn bright red. Look him in the eye and say thank you, I'm engaged. Rush into my car, lock the doors and drive off.

In Single-Alternate-Universe-Land:
Scenario 1a) Turn bright red and say thank you, without making eye contact...Rush into my car. Lock the doors. Drive off. Come to a sudden stop. Roll down window. Apologise to hot guy on hood for hitting him with car... turning even more red, and then adding helpfully as he cradles his painful knee, "I think you're hot too." If he still has the presence of mind to say something encouraging back, we're dating.
Scenario 1b) Turn bright red. Look him in the eye and say thank you. Rush into my car, lock the doors and drive off.

Scenario 2a & 2b....probably just smile flirtatiously and carry on without comment. I never did wrap my head around the idea of hook-ups.

 

[Mike68]

In both cases; If attractive, Id go for it.
if unattractive, I'd reply sorry but no thanks.

 

[kevbo]

What about your steak that needs to be frozen or refrigerated and those eggs and milk? They're not going to last in your vehicle.

I doubt that's what I would have bought from the store.

 

[racer2438]

I would say thanks to all options, but I would add not interested so a thanks but no thanks would be my answer.

And I would not give # to any stranger..

 

[BlondeCanadian]

For the first situation, I would say thank you, and I would suggest getting coffee or lunch and ask for his phone number.....
Quick question... define unattractive? like so unapealing it is a deal breaker? or just not a guy you would typical go for but could make up for it with personality or a big dank?

for the second scenario, I would maybe joke a bit with him and see if he is going to continue being rude and see whats going on there.. then if in the following convo he seemed better I would do the same as sit one..
----> if he was unattractive and rude I would just thank him and walk away

 

[Ryuukie]

This is not the normal cruising technique. You usually make eye contact, smile, flirt and see if he flirts back. This straightforward talk creeps me out. I'd run away.

 

[genthree]

If he did not appeal I would politely decline, if he did I would say lets have a bit of a discussion about this and then perhaps he could give me HIS 'phone number.
I am not going to be on call for him, don't involve me in any infidelity.

 

[barnbuddy]

Both #1 and #2 - if that was the exact phrasing, I suspect he was a moonie or of religious type and I'd say thanks but I've got a jealous boyfriend.

Scenario #3 I'd laugh and probably chat a bit - and think about it.

Scenario #4 I'd laugh and tell he made my day.

 

[evanrick]

i would fuck him in the parking lot no matter the situation.

 

[alley]

Nothing like this has ever happened to me---but I would probably be suspicious of the guy's intentions no matter how attractive I thought he was.

In a bar or another gay venue--it would be ON...if I liked the guy.

 

[geloge]

Probably I would be freaked out and run away in the the two scenarios independently of the guy attractiveness

 

[7Anthony5]

Excuse me sir. I saw you in the store earlier, and I just wanted to tell you that I think you are really attractive. May I have your phone number so we can talk more?

If you find the guy attractive...what would your response be?

Why don't we meet at Starbucks for a coffee sometime so we can get to know each other a little?

If you find the guy unattractive....what would your response be?

Same response, it may lead to a friendship.

Excuse me, sir...

I just saw you in the store...and I just had to come out and tell you that I think you have a really nice ass. Is there any way we can talk more?

I would ask what he was looking for, intention wise.

and if you find the gentleman unattractive w/ this scenario?

Once again, find out what he's looking for.

I'm happily partnered now. No approaching strangers for me.

Well I guess I'll chnage my vacation plans then.

 

[geloge]

I would ask what he was looking for, intention wise.

Once again, find out what he's looking for.

I think that if a guy tell you about your really nice ass it's pretty obvius what he's looking for

 

[kevbo]

Well, it was only hypothetical. I don't know what you shop for but am assuming you'd be shopping for something perishable.

Yes, but nothing is quite as perishable as love, and I am always shopping for that.

 

[7Anthony5]

nevermind... wrong thread

 

[freefall]

For the first two: try to talk with him more. If I had plenty time, maybe ask him for a drink/lunch rightaway and see before I can trust him. For #1, if he can be trusted, maybe yes. For #2, maybe he can be a friend. Otherwise, bye.

For the last two: try to talk with him more in order to find out whether he's a sex pig then leave.

All of those begin with a frown since I'm not used to sudden compliments.