So... I need help as I am not very expert in this kind of situations!
Some time ago a guy (Let call him "Bob") wrote to me saying he was gonna come living near me. We chatted, got to know, exchanged numbers. He seemed really affectionate, I was more hesitant as on the web yaou cannot like really someone.
We agreed to meet last night, so I went to pick him up by bus (he is not espert of public transportation). We got out, had dinner, chilled out and then met a gay guy he already knew from here and came to my school. He convinced us to go to the local gay bar to which i went twice and never got back again as i didn't like it.
There the two guys let me alone to go upstairs and (as i found out later) make out. SO i stand there alone and exchange sights with a guy (let call him Mark). He then sends a friend, i go to him, we chat a bit and we go in another little room to stay alone... there we start to make out. After some time I realizes it's time to go because Bob had to take the train and I was supposed to show him the way, plus my mother came to pick me up. I call him he does not answer. After some time he sends a text saying "we got down for 25 minutes you were nowhere, we are upstairs". So i go up, greet him, say goodbye to Mark (with whom I exchanged numbers) and go home.
The next day i go to Mark's and we play, not complete sex but we have our fun.
Now, 2 problems.
1. Bob does not answer to my texts anymore. Before he was like "oh i like you, "ti voglio bene" bla bla" now nothing. Ok i left him alone... but he went home with his father, and anyway when I left he was still upstairs kissing his boy so it was not the fact he dat to take the train the deal. He could have called me and he didn't. Plus, he was the firts one to let me alone even if WE went out together.
2. I fear Mark is falling in love, or expects something to happen. He is cute, seems a cool guy but i don't feel anything for him, i wanna get to know him better without any prejudice or something he can expect from me. I must admit he is not my ideal type of guy so maybe this is stopping me... I don't have big experience, usually it is clear before that it is just sex or we meet to get to know. And when I fell in love it was usually very fast, i could not stop thinking to the guy... now it is not happening.
Maybe i should just wait and see? The fact is i need a relationship but don't feel he is the right guy and also i wanna experiemnt some more fun before committing in a relationship. If not, I fear i may be divided into myself from love and willing to do new experiences.
I am crazy?
Please give you opinion. Thanks
Some time ago a guy (Let call him "Bob") wrote to me saying he was gonna come living near me. We chatted, got to know, exchanged numbers. He seemed really affectionate, I was more hesitant as on the web yaou cannot like really someone.
We agreed to meet last night, so I went to pick him up by bus (he is not espert of public transportation). We got out, had dinner, chilled out and then met a gay guy he already knew from here and came to my school. He convinced us to go to the local gay bar to which i went twice and never got back again as i didn't like it.
There the two guys let me alone to go upstairs and (as i found out later) make out. SO i stand there alone and exchange sights with a guy (let call him Mark). He then sends a friend, i go to him, we chat a bit and we go in another little room to stay alone... there we start to make out. After some time I realizes it's time to go because Bob had to take the train and I was supposed to show him the way, plus my mother came to pick me up. I call him he does not answer. After some time he sends a text saying "we got down for 25 minutes you were nowhere, we are upstairs". So i go up, greet him, say goodbye to Mark (with whom I exchanged numbers) and go home.
The next day i go to Mark's and we play, not complete sex but we have our fun.
Now, 2 problems.
1. Bob does not answer to my texts anymore. Before he was like "oh i like you, "ti voglio bene" bla bla" now nothing. Ok i left him alone... but he went home with his father, and anyway when I left he was still upstairs kissing his boy so it was not the fact he dat to take the train the deal. He could have called me and he didn't. Plus, he was the firts one to let me alone even if WE went out together.
2. I fear Mark is falling in love, or expects something to happen. He is cute, seems a cool guy but i don't feel anything for him, i wanna get to know him better without any prejudice or something he can expect from me. I must admit he is not my ideal type of guy so maybe this is stopping me... I don't have big experience, usually it is clear before that it is just sex or we meet to get to know. And when I fell in love it was usually very fast, i could not stop thinking to the guy... now it is not happening.
Maybe i should just wait and see? The fact is i need a relationship but don't feel he is the right guy and also i wanna experiemnt some more fun before committing in a relationship. If not, I fear i may be divided into myself from love and willing to do new experiences.
I am crazy?
Please give you opinion. Thanks
