NO BLACKS,NO ASIANS,NO INDIANS??? Grindr is the enemy of ethnic men?

[Level27]

I guess I came off snippy and catty. I guess I was just moody and in a bad mood. Sorry about that. The Happy Birthday thing was an accident, I accidentally pressed a button.
I'm just saying I just don't see a problem with someone not thinking someone, or something, is attractive.
There are Asian people who don't find white men attractive. Honestly, I think everyone's a bit prejudiced, whether they admit it to themselves, or not. But yeah, I have found some black men attractive. Like Tyson Beckford, or T.I.

I think it's okay if someone doesn't find Asians attractive. I'm Asian myself. I just do believe sometimes we read into things more than they are, that's all. Sometimes something isn't just someone's taste. I really am sorry for coming off so defensive and a jerk, though.

Whether or not something is a "problem", we should still try to understand why somethings are the way they are. If you hold the attitude that this is "reading too much into things" than what they really are, humans cannot advance as a species; not socially nor biologically.

If you discover the reason as to why you don't like a certain race, you will realize that it's not a mere taste, and it's not something to treate with a dismissive shrug of the shoulder. Now, what you choose to do with that is totally up to you. I'm just saying. I'm not "defensive". I'm simply bringing awareness.

 

[Scealle]

The odd thing is I seem to do better actually going out

Right? I have never used online dating services. I had no idea they are that bad these days. I don't know to be honest I feel like online dating is only made FOR white guys. Since a lot of those who work in IT are white and you have the occasional mix of asian/indians. Although interestingly enough Grindr is recently bought by China LOL! But I feel like Canadians are much more asian friendly right? Seems like a lot of white-asian gay couples live in Canada.

Now this is educational post.
More please

There are quite a lot of instances if you do some search for it online you can start by reading about the history of Mongolia/ Genghis Khan and his influence in Europe. It's quite interesting Or even better just visit Central European countries/ Central asia! A lot of these countries are very mixed because of their regions are very close to asia therefore they have a strong asian guys/girls presence.

Plus western influence was never really present in them because they have always been tightly under the control of Russia - Which is still very anti-Western/USA/demorcracy. The USSR has only collapsed very recently - in 1991. I have quite a few friends and even family members who are from these regions and they looked very very mixed - sometimes they can even pass for "white". Perhaps not a tall blonde Swede, but they look like a cross between Spanish or Italian with a bit of asians. Most of the time they look like a very short but handsome white guy LOL!

Since the communism/USSR made everyone very very poor. The economy of these countries almost never recovered. Communist Berlin for example, only reunited with Western Germany in 1997. Berlin though is still some of the most beautifully affordable yet Internationally influential cities in the world. The thing is though, when you are very poor, so poor that you might not even be able to afford the next meal or clothe yourself for the harsh winter, penis size of how "asian" your partner is would really be the last thing on your mind since you survival instinct would probably just tell you to go for guys that treat you nicely or loves you just for who you are. Though this probably just means they are gold diggers lol!

Therefore white guys/white gay guys who are from/grew up in these poorer regions do not care as much as looks or penis sizes, or how white or un-white you are when it comes to dating. However this is from an asian perspective only so I don't know how it is like for black guys or how they treat black guys in those regions though. But with the recent refugee/ muslim crisis thing I would say that all immigration are looked down upon these days even if they are legal.

Also I suspect if these white guys move to USA they will probably behave differently.

I'm Asian, and I don't find 80% of black men attractive. It's not because of their skin color, because I love really dark Indian men, and Mexicans.

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I feel bad for you that you find an entire continent of people unattractive.
Luckily some of us didn't feel this way since you know black mixed Japanese - Ariana Miyamoto represented Japan in 2015!
And you better get used to it because more and more black guys/girls are dating asian guys/girls Mixed people are the future!

 

[refujiunderground]

^ Rude? Me? You're mistaken.

I didn't want to add that but you guys are too ignorant.

"Why do black and asian guys lust over white guys"

Because white men are the most openly gay guys. Majority of black guys are closeted and aren't available, majority of asian guys are closeted and aren't available.

The prime race you see on these sites are white, so mathematically, as a gay person of color, you are more than likely going to attempt to venture with a partner that is white.

But how can you when they don't date any race but white?

Real talk. That is the biggest bullshit I've seen in here.

To me, it sounds like you want to exclusively date white men and you are making up pathetic justifications to cover the insecurities you have with yourself as a black male and other black men. You live in Los Angeles talking about there's no openly gay black men to date.


And honestly, I'm not buying the whole excuse that openly gay men make in terms of using someone's out status or how out someone is to why they can't date them. Trying to claim someone's cowardice gives them the right to be a coward or not do their thing. Folks like that don't get taken seriously. They shoot themselves in the foot.

All I hear is excuses, excuses, excuses using other people for your own and other bullshitters bs. You my homie but that's nonsense

 

[MorrisseyX]

Real talk. That is the biggest bullshit I've seen in here.

To me, it sounds like you want to exclusively date white men and you are making up pathetic justifications to cover the insecurities you have with yourself as a black male and other black men. You live in Los Angeles talking about there's no openly gay black men to date.


And honestly, I'm not buying the whole excuse that openly gay men make in terms of using someone's out status or how out someone is to why they can't date them. Trying to claim someone's cowardice gives them the right to be a coward or not do their thing. Folks like that don't get taken seriously. They shoot themselves in the foot.

All I hear is excuses, excuses, excuses using other people for your own and other bullshitters bs. You my homie but that's nonsense

I think it is unfair you are just dismissing another person opinion. But I think you IGNORE the other poster argument about demographics. The truth is there are LESS black gay men out than white gay men. Now I don't live in Los Angeles so maybe an American from the LA gay scene can discuss it? I am guessing in LA there are probably a lot of Latino gays and Asian gays who are out? Also, there is another issue nobody is discussing is the internal politics gay black men have with EACH OTHER. Maybe the other poster does not want to deal with down low black men or closeted black men? It does seem to me harder to meet another gay black man who is 100% gay out and proud. Where are these black gay men? In Toronto, most of the gay blacks here are of African and Caribbean heritage. Toronto might seem like a big city but the gay scene is small. Gay black men here many are closeted they will show up for Blockorama the final day of gay pride weekend in Toronto BUT you rarely see them the rest of the year. Demographics are a huge part of the story. In Toronto there are MORE a LOT MORE Asian gays who are definitely out of the closet than black gays. So what choice does a gay black guy got? One question is this discussion about dating or just hooking up?

 

[refujiunderground]

I think it is unfair you are just dismissing another person opinion. But I think you IGNORE the other poster argument about demographics. The truth is there are LESS black gay men out than white gay men. Now I don't live in Los Angeles so maybe an American from the LA gay scene can discuss it? I am guessing in LA there are probably a lot of Latino gays and Asian gays who are out? Also, there is another issue nobody is discussing is the internal politics gay black men have with EACH OTHER. Maybe the other poster does not want to deal with down low black men or closeted black men? It does seem to me harder to meet another gay black man who is 100% gay out and proud. Where are these black gay men? In Toronto, most of the gay blacks here are of African and Caribbean heritage. Toronto might seem like a big city but the gay scene is small. Gay black men here many are closeted they will show up for Blockorama the final day of gay pride weekend in Toronto BUT you rarely see them the rest of the year. Demographics are a huge part of the story. In Toronto there are MORE a LOT MORE Asian gays who are definitely out of the closet than black gays. So what choice does a gay black guy got? One question is this discussion about dating or just hooking up?

You say an opinion of what you think as if it's a fact.

Where are you getting your facts from? Grindr? Your friends who probably don't know any better and sticking with the same homogenous thinking circles? The Web?

What you're saying to be honest is a prime example of another hundredth reason of gay men creating unnecessary problems for themselves.

If you really like someone and someone really likes you then any obsticle, a situation like a guy being in the closet and even that it depends on how out he is and to who exactly such as family and friends, that wouldn't fucking matter. IT'S REALLY AN EXCUSE TO CHASE A FUCKING UNICORN or shut a guy down without even giving him a chance to make a tough situation as our dating pool is already small worse. If it ain't closet status then it'll be some other excuse to bullshit around and reject a guy you might be able to have a decent relationship with.

The reason why I say this is simple because I see overly picky guys that are not realistic at all. They think that being perfect or being the type of guy that they are shooting for ia going to make their unicorn come to them. If they find their unicorn, it doesn't guarantee or mean shit will work out. It depends on how much you and the other person you are dealing with are willing to make it work.

And even worse, you got these guys extra fucking lazy using sites like grindr and scruff expecting "the one" to fall into their lap or whatever.

To be honest, this is why I simply stopped bothering dating because too many idiots bullshitting around. I really do not have the time and the patience to basically put in time and energy towards somebody who is dumb enough to chase a fucking unicorn and make excuses acting like they are special when they aren't doing well in life. I'm sick and tired of all these guys who are daydreaming or too delusional to basically are confused and shouldnt even be dating anybody until they get their minds right.

That's my issue. I pretty much am not even bothering doing shit because I'm tired of dealing with bullshit. I need some real shit in my life with logic. I'm sick and tired of these fake ass clowns trying to claim that they are real when they are fake as fuck and you can see how fake they are with how they carry themselves, how they think and how they approach dating and relationships. They don't fucking know what love is and they looking for it.

I would rather go out with a closet case that keeps it real with himself than an out guy who lies to himself, doesn't know what the fuck they want and is busy bullshitting where even his relationships are a joke because he's fucking and sucking every dick that turns them on.

And what gets me is those lost out people want to be leaders, misdirecting, poisoning and getting these guys who have their heads on straight or thinking with a clear mind to be just as fucked up as they are with the preferences, living on grindr, Facebook, the Internet and this dumb shit. That's my rant for the day.

 

[refujiunderground]

Grindr to me is a reflection of how socially fucked up we are ass a gay male community. That's why I refuse to even waste my time with that shit. If enough people were fed up, then there would be people pushing for a positive change. Dropping their apps and pushing for social interactions or a more better way of doing things but you know, folks are lazy.

Instead of self improving and figuring out on how to be a part of the solution, they would rather be aligned with the problem.

Instead of being willing to help guys who they say are closet cases and show support, they shit on them. What's the surprise though because they shit on openly gay guys in their community or make shit into a popularity contest where you have to kiss ass in order to fit in.

All that stress and etc is not even worth dealing with. The best advice that I can say is for a gay guy to basically go out into the world and live. Deal with people that have sense or are grounded. Don't live life searching for love and acceptance from other people who can't even do that for themselves. Too many gay guys are like that.

That's why you have these guys ready to make themselves seem desirable with a preference chart, knowing that they themselves are hoping someone gives them the time of day because they too are being judged by other guys with preference charts. Searching for guys that don't want them because they feel they aren't shit or worthy of love.

I refuse to drag myself down with the folks going nowhere or down and out.

 

[luckynumbah7]

....why is chasing a unicorn being described as opposite of reality (dating someone in the closet, wherever in that closet he happens to be)? If that isn't the intended statement, and then message, you might want to look it over and see if you can get it any clearer.

It's just, that's not the definition of unicorn I'm familiar with when it's used in a relationship context, as you're trying to use it here.

There's also that some people will and won't connect to each other and how 'out' you consider yourself to be does influence that. Claiming someone is chasing unicorns because one person doesn't mesh well with another on how open or out they are is pissing into the wind.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Unicorn

There's what a unicorn is, and describes said chasing. While there's unicorns for other subsets it usually involves things like navigating being fetishized or people taking advantage of intrinsic qualities in situational contexts - not how out you are.

 

[MorrisseyX]

You say an opinion of what you think as if it's a fact.

Where are you getting your facts from? Grindr? Your friends who probably don't know any better and sticking with the same homogenous thinking circles? The Web?

What you're saying to be honest is a prime example of another hundredth reason of gay men creating unnecessary problems for themselves.

If you really like someone and someone really likes you then any obsticle, a situation like a guy being in the closet and even that it depends on how out he is and to who exactly such as family and friends, that wouldn't fucking matter. IT'S REALLY AN EXCUSE TO CHASE A FUCKING UNICORN or shut a guy down without even giving him a chance to make a tough situation as our dating pool is already small worse. If it ain't closet status then it'll be some other excuse to bullshit around and reject a guy you might be able to have a decent relationship with.

The reason why I say this is simple because I see overly picky guys that are not realistic at all. They think that being perfect or being the type of guy that they are shooting for ia going to make their unicorn come to them. If they find their unicorn, it doesn't guarantee or mean shit will work out. It depends on how much you and the other person you are dealing with are willing to make it work.

And even worse, you got these guys extra fucking lazy using sites like grindr and scruff expecting "the one" to fall into their lap or whatever.

To be honest, this is why I simply stopped bothering dating because too many idiots bullshitting around. I really do not have the time and the patience to basically put in time and energy towards somebody who is dumb enough to chase a fucking unicorn and make excuses acting like they are special when they aren't doing well in life. I'm sick and tired of all these guys who are daydreaming or too delusional to basically are confused and shouldnt even be dating anybody until they get their minds right.

That's my issue. I pretty much am not even bothering doing shit because I'm tired of dealing with bullshit. I need some real shit in my life with logic. I'm sick and tired of these fake ass clowns trying to claim that they are real when they are fake as fuck and you can see how fake they are with how they carry themselves, how they think and how they approach dating and relationships. They don't fucking know what love is and they looking for it.

I would rather go out with a closet case that keeps it real with himself than an out guy who lies to himself, doesn't know what the fuck they want and is busy bullshitting where even his relationships are a joke because he's fucking and sucking every dick that turns them on.

And what gets me is those lost out people want to be leaders, misdirecting, poisoning and getting these guys who have their heads on straight or thinking with a clear mind to be just as fucked up as they are with the preferences, living on grindr, Facebook, the Internet and this dumb shit. That's my rant for the day.

I thought this thread is about demographics and the dating pool. Seriously, I got a question for the Americans, which cities in the USA has a high number of out gay black men? I am curious and would like to know. I think the other poster point was to be gay and black is not easy and to meet another gay black man who you CLICK WITH and are in SYNC with is also not easy. Everyone has preferences and just because someone is black and gay and out doesn't mean he is automatically into other black men. And where does one find this out black gay men? I would LOVE to know. In Toronto, it is not as easy as you may think. Many black men here as I said are of African and Caribbean heritage and they are not out. I also disagree about dating a closeted person. I will NEVER allow myself to get too close or fall for a man who is CLOSETED AGAIN! NEVER EVER! I learned my lesson dealing with a closeted man it is not worth it! Closeted men have their own problems, baggage and drama I just am too old to deal with.

 

[NotHardUp1]

I have no idea what you think this has to do with anything. You might as well mention that in Southern India a heavy build is the beauty standard as a "disproof" that there is any harmful relationship of weight and beauty in western societies.

It is directly related to a prior post in the thread about Asians. When not qualified as a racial distinction or a cultural one, "Asian" is quite meaningless in racial discussions due to the fact that Asia encompasses India, China, Mongolia, Thailand, and so on.

It is a glaring example of how race avoidance in language has caused truly meaningless language to evolve, similar to using "they" to refer to singular reference to avoid saying "he or she." One loses the actual meaning altogether.

The farce is that when most Americans say "Asian," they mean Oriental or Chinese-related, formerly "Mongolian" in race. And when Europeans say it, they normally mean Indians.

It's just vapid. And that's highly relevant when discussing the annoyances, intended slights, preferences, or anything else surrounding the offensive postings on the whoring sites.

 

[xbuzzerx]

It is directly related to a prior post in the thread about Asians. When not qualified as a racial distinction or a cultural one, "Asian" is quite meaningless in racial discussions due to the fact that Asia encompasses India, China, Mongolia, Thailand, and so on.

Well I'm glad we got that cleared up for you.

Good luck meeting any different response when you point out that someone is Korean, not "Asian."

 

[refujiunderground]

....why is chasing a unicorn being described as opposite of reality (dating someone in the closet, wherever in that closet he happens to be)? If that isn't the intended statement, and then message, you might want to look it over and see if you can get it any clearer.

It's just, that's not the definition of unicorn I'm familiar with when it's used in a relationship context, as you're trying to use it here.

There's also that some people will and won't connect to each other and how 'out' you consider yourself to be does influence that. Claiming someone is chasing unicorns because one person doesn't mesh well with another on how open or out they are is pissing into the wind.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Unicorn

There's what a unicorn is, and describes said chasing. While there's unicorns for other subsets it usually involves things like navigating being fetishized or people taking advantage of intrinsic qualities in situational contexts - not how out you are.

My point flew over your head. Chasing a unicorn has more to deal with someone being so out of touch with reality that they are looking for someone who doesn't exist. They are ready to shoot any guy down that doesn't match to their standards that even they can't reach.

In other words, if you have flaws, you cant tell someone that they have to flawless in order to get with you. You get my point. There's a difference between someone not mixing together and someone being overly picky on some bullshit.

 

[refujiunderground]

I thought this thread is about demographics and the dating pool. Seriously, I got a question for the Americans, which cities in the USA has a high number of out gay black men? I am curious and would like to know. I think the other poster point was to be gay and black is not easy and to meet another gay black man who you CLICK WITH and are in SYNC with is also not easy. Everyone has preferences and just because someone is black and gay and out doesn't mean he is automatically into other black men. And where does one find this out black gay men? I would LOVE to know. In Toronto, it is not as easy as you may think. Many black men here as I said are of African and Caribbean heritage and they are not out. I also disagree about dating a closeted person. I will NEVER allow myself to get too close or fall for a man who is CLOSETED AGAIN! NEVER EVER! I learned my lesson dealing with a closeted man it is not worth it! Closeted men have their own problems, baggage and drama I just am too old to deal with.

More excuses. THAT APPLIES WITH EVERYBODY. any excuse to not date someone as black as yourself.

My thing is this. Don't blame somebody for what you can't do or your problem. I notice this shit among gay men where they blame other gay men for whatever insecurities or shit that they got going on with them where they REFUSE to own up to that shit. It's annoying.

Worst off, they try to make the person that they are scapegoating to be horrible, demonizing them when it's really them projecting.

It's not other black men problems for why you feel insecure as a black man.

And sorry, you're generalizing. I really don't think someone's out status has to do with how they are in a relationship. It has to do with the person.

Personally, as I said, you got too many gay guys that are bullshitters. Closeted and out. I respect a guy who can own up to their shit, their issues and etc and work on them. Too many guys action lIke their shit don't stink and they are looking for other people to tell them that they are good.

You know something is wrong when we are basically relying on a damn smartphone app that is geared towards sex to talk about LGBT community relations. We are so disconnected from each other that nobody even tries to just be friends anymore or just socialize without expecting anything.

When we talk about discrimination, we usually refer to it as being denied housing, a job, something that reflects a necessity or something you need to live or benefit your livelihood. Being denied sex from someone for whatever reason including your skin color is not the same level as being discriminated from a job for being gay. You are not going to die if one guy says no.

 

[Taralen]

Real talk. That is the biggest bullshit I've seen in here.

To me, it sounds like you want to exclusively date white men and you are making up pathetic justifications to cover the insecurities you have with yourself as a black male and other black men. You live in Los Angeles talking about there's no openly gay black men to date.


And honestly, I'm not buying the whole excuse that openly gay men make in terms of using someone's out status or how out someone is to why they can't date them. Trying to claim someone's cowardice gives them the right to be a coward or not do their thing. Folks like that don't get taken seriously. They shoot themselves in the foot.

All I hear is excuses, excuses, excuses using other people for your own and other bullshitters bs. You my homie but that's nonsense

I'm glad Morissey agrees with me. Even though you disagree with me, you are allowed to, and it's fine. However,

What do you mean exclusively date white guys?

Not only is it rare to see many openly gay black guys here in LA. The ones I do deal with don't date other black guys. The ones that do, aren't here in LA. They are in Atlanta or DC or Chicago. Also another issue.

Most of the guys that deal with me whether they are white, black, yellow or chartreuse, gay or straight always say "you fem acting faggot" something along those lines, and think of me as a clown or as if I'm a contestant for amateur hour and I'm disposable.

The guys that I've noticed that don't seem to have an issue with me, are older white guys, preferably guys that are overweight or goofy or nerdy looking. These type of guys still reject me, but they at least smile back at me and will go out for a drink or let me get high or drunk with them once in a while.

Most of the homophobia and being called faggot, is by other black men, gay or straight. White guys are still homophobic to me. However most won't call me faggot to my face, usually they will use this thread as an example, like "Grindr", or just not give me eye contact.

Sorry, the Idris Elba type black guys even though I find them attractive, don't like me back.

The three gay asians that I have personally known in real life, are all in long term relationships with white or non asian men.

Also I think you mean as closeted guys as masculine guys. Open guys as feminine or submissive guys.

Feminine guys like myself cannot be closeted at all. Consciously or subconsciously. But masculine guys are just naturally closeted. So I think that's where the issue and argument is.

My problem with masculine closeted guys is that many are married men and many just want to use you as a sex pillow.

 

[luckynumbah7]

And sorry, you're generalizing. I really don't think someone's out status has to do with how they are in a relationship. It has to do with the person.

You can think whatever you like, but someone's 'out status' informs and affects how others, like friends and family, view a relationship - or if they even know it exists. Most people do not enjoy pretending their relationships do not exist, or lieing about it or 'casually omit everything in all circumstances'. And after you're free of that you generally chafe at the bit on the idea of going back. I also think there's a difference between being closeted and just not volunteering information but answering truthfully if asked. The closet always seems to involve lieing, though.

So if you have 2 people with different views on how out they're comfortable being, that's not something you can handwave away and pretend it's all an issue of 'gay men not giving people in the closet a chance.' Because what you're really asking is "Please accept behavior that has a high chance of fucking with one's mental health."

 

[Level27]

When we talk about discrimination, we usually refer to it as being denied housing, a job, something that reflects a necessity or something you need to live or benefit your livelihood. Being denied sex from someone for whatever reason including your skin color is not the same level as being discriminated from a job for being gay. You are not going to die if one guy says no.

Regardless of the different levels of discrimination, the point of fact is that it's still discrimination. Just because something is more horrible doesn't make the less-horrid counterpart any less substantial to address. (While you brash-rant so much on housing discrimination, we have poverty-born people dying because they never in their lives had access to housing and proper food at all. Quite your child's play foolish mentality and let's focus on what really matters... See?)

While I don't invalidate the rest of your point (which I didn't quote here) on owning up to faults, we ethnic gay guys have the right to be irritated by the fact that our skin plays a part in sexual disfavor; since such a sexual-social issue exists outside of what you refer to as a petty "smart phone app".

And, since it's not just "one guy". It's not.

 

[MakeDigitalLove]

You can think whatever you like, but someone's 'out status' informs and affects how others, like friends and family, view a relationship - or if they even know it exists. Most people do not enjoy pretending their relationships do not exist, or lieing about it or 'casually omit everything in all circumstances'. And after you're free of that you generally chafe at the bit on the idea of going back. I also think there's a difference between being closeted and just not volunteering information but answering truthfully if asked. The closet always seems to involve lieing, though.

So if you have 2 people with different views on how out they're comfortable being, that's not something you can handwave away and pretend it's all an issue of 'gay men not giving people in the closet a chance.' Because what you're really asking is "Please accept behavior that has a high chance of fucking with one's mental health."

Agreed.

One does not understand relationships or has been in one if they think the out status doesn't matter.

Being in the closet is not something I will judge over, but still being in the closet means one is not ready to be in a relationship. That person still has their issues to deal with, which is fine but not fair to anyone else that would be in said relationship. All the closeted person would be doing is dragging the other person back in.

 

[eastofeden]

There is something that I never hear anyone bring up...and it used to bug the fuck out of me. I brought it up all the time when it happened.....

I have always known exactly what I like...and it isn't about race. It is about the guy's vibe...attitude.....personality...sexual chemistry....appearance matters a bit but it is a distant #5....

So here is the thing. You are out with a Black Man....or a Latin....or Asian....or Polynesian...or Middle Eastern Man...an you get this question:

I didn't know you liked _________________________ men.......

??????????

Uh...like they aren't all INDIVIDUALS........WTF???????

I like INDIVIDUALS who I have chemistry with in any race....

I [STRIKE]think[/STRIKE] KNOW I have it right....and people who assume other things can bite me....

I think it is rude and racist to sum up anyone according to their race.....without ever looking at each person as the individual that they are.

 

[refujiunderground]

Regardless of the different levels of discrimination, the point of fact is that it's still discrimination. Just because something is more horrible doesn't make the less-horrid counterpart any less substantial to address. (While you brash-rant so much on housing discrimination, we have poverty-born people dying because they never in their lives had access to housing and proper food at all. Quite your child's play foolish mentality and let's focus on what really matters... See?)

While I don't invalidate the rest of your point (which I didn't quote here) on owning up to faults, we ethnic gay guys have the right to be irritated by the fact that our skin plays a part in sexual disfavor; since such a sexual-social issue exists outside of what you refer to as a petty "smart phone app".

And, since it's not just "one guy". It's not.

How is it discrimination though? If someone doesn't want to have sex with you for whatever reason, they have the right. Just like you have the right to reject someone else.

Why would you want to have sex with someone that doesn't like you anyway? Wtf is that? Have some self respect. And just because someone has sex with you doesn't mean anything in terms of being less of a racist. There's guys who fetishize dudes based on their skin color and ethnicity.


Some of you non-white guys are so pathetic that you will do anything to get accepted by white people to the point where you're willing to shit on yourselves.

I'm not a sex object. I demand respect. If you don't want to sleep with me or deal with me, that is fine but you better respect me. If you do disrespect me, I have my options on how to deal with that. I might let it slide or I might beat you up depending on the situation and the person. Some gay guys think this shit is a game until they run across the wrong person and have to wake up.

For real, I think this whole sexual discrimination bullshit is just manipulating somebody to fuck them. If someone is racist, let them be. That makes it easier for you because you get to disassociate yourself with them.