NO BLACKS,NO ASIANS,NO INDIANS??? Grindr is the enemy of ethnic men?

[NotHardUp1]

^Thanks for the clarification. I was astounded by some of the wording they used. Fucking twats!

It's Grindr after all. Their stated purpose is "Twats Fucking Twats."

The fact that they are explicitly rude is only slightly different in that they choose to be rude about race.

The vast majority of the world has a sexual preference involving race, but it's not spoken. Most people choose not to be rude about it. Most people don't even discuss what attracts them sexually. They are straight. They find it socially, marry it, and fuck it, although not always in that order.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

This one is also good.

^ He's probably got a tiny todger.

He wants to bottom, more like.

 

[rareboy]

Are all these stolen pictures?

Are they out of date?

Have all these men had sufficient publicity?

Leave it to Grimshaw to stick up for the real victims in all of this.

 

[pat grimshaw]

http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/2012/06/closet-cunt-douche/

I have just this site for the first time. These sanctimonious self-appointed Social Justice Warriors on this site have been carrying on their vigilante tittle-tattle for FIVE years now and admit they are Tumblr censors. Do they have a life?

Their mission statement includes the motto All your douchebag needs from the profiles of Grindr. Don't needy people have other avenues in which to satisfy their neediness?

 

[rareboy]

I don't know.

Don't you have other avenues in which to satisfy your neediness to defend Douchebags?

Tell us Grimshaw.

 

[Level27]

I'm confused. So, if someone isn't attracted to black people, it's racism, but if they are attracted, it's fetishism? So basically, you just can't do anything right no matter what you do?

Your attempt to put these two things as polar opposites as to demonstrate some form of alleged hypocrisy is quite telling that you don't actually have a grasp on the issue; or that you are simply trying to elude it. (Perhaps because you yourself are guilty? And, this topic struck a nerve?)

These things are not hypocritical of each other: they support the same negative side of prejudice. Current general trends of preference ("fetishism") or non-preference ("racism") are all rooted in the irregular/lack of normal integration of these races into the dailiy lives of those many people who "prefer" or "don't prefer" Asians/Blacks. The point of fact is that both of these things are an issue because of the reason they came to be.

You can do something about it. It starts with including the beautiful genetic characteristics that are more unique to Black people and Asians into the media. It starts with seeing more Black and Asian people on a regular basis. No one said it would be easy (I couldn't be wrong, but I think it maybe too late for some of the older folks), but it can be done; it's already in progress, and we're making good of it right now (I believe).
I hope that, after my saying this, you don't have any more of an excuse to be "confused"; or an an excuse to think you "can't do anything about it", since I think that was the bottom recourse to defend your prejudice(?).

 

[xbuzzerx]

There are no discussions on race, only accusations, pronouncements, and condemnations.

Translation: my input on this topic isn't held to being equal to someone who actually experiences it, so it's a false discussion.

It's Grindr after all. Their stated purpose is "Twats Fucking Twats."

The fact that they are explicitly rude is only slightly different in that they choose to be rude about race.

The vast majority of the world has a sexual preference involving race, but it's not spoken.

You got the key part.

It's not just about grindr. It's a widespread exclusion.

The issue is not "rudeness" but the tacitly accepted "common wisdom" that these are only "individual preferences", guilty of nothing, influenced by nothing negative or prejudiced. And as "individual preferences", no one can question them or account for them or call them out. That's basically the status quo of both the mainstream and the gay community on the topic of why people are "utterly unattracted" to certain races. Despite the fact that it's pretty much only targetted at the same 2, sometimes 3 races.

Both the slant creating these preferences and the fact that a huge majority of people hold them in their own romantic and personal perceptions of beauty or attractiveness still exist even if people are not "rude" or explicit about it. I suppose if people are being neither rude nor explicit about it, the issue "goes away", for all of the people who do not run into it. I suppose that's why there's such a desperation to tie this as ONLY being related to Grindr or ONLY related to people being needlessly honest about it. But the issue doesn't go away for the groups it targets just because people are being more discreet about it. It only goes away for the casual unaffected observer.

 

[Taralen]

http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/2012/06/closet-cunt-douche/

I have just this site for the first time. These sanctimonious self-appointed Social Justice Warriors on this site have been carrying on their vigilante tittle-tattle for FIVE years now and admit they are Tumblr censors. Do they have a life?

Their mission statement includes the motto All your douchebag needs from the profiles of Grindr. Don't needy people have other avenues in which to satisfy their neediness?

It's their blog and they can post what they want.

 

[IceColdLover]

The problem is people have an issue with not being honest when it comes to conversation/confrontation. Like me for example, even though I have a preference for Caucasian men, I am not entirely closed off to trying other flavors, but I am not going to list or air my non-preferences in my Grindr bio like a complete racist jackass who is afraid of new things, because that's how a lot of people seem to come across as. If someone of a different color or ethnicity (or even another white male) confronted me about sex, and if I happened to not be interested, I'd politely say so, or sometimes even ignore them, although I hate that because it's rude, but it's better than looking like a stuck-up fag.

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

all those guys Marco Polo posted are limp dick specials anyway. Thats what my ad would say No limp dicks.

 

[Benvolio]

No one is equally attracted to all types, races, ages, builds, hair colors, etc. Everone has preferences. In choosing sex partners, there is no reason to go beyond your preferences. You are not doing anyone a favor by having luke warm (or Less) sex out of some misguided sense of obligation.

 

[xbuzzerx]

No one is equally attracted to all types, races, ages, builds, hair colors, etc. Everone has preferences. In choosing sex partners, there is no reason to go beyond your preferences. You are not doing anyone a favor by having luke warm (or Less) sex out of some misguided sense of obligation.

I like how everyone who "doesn't like this topic being discussed" says basically, this exact same thing.

No one told anyone "go sleep with people you aren't attracted to." The fact that people feel the need to straw man the topic by responding to that speaks volumes.

If you express exactly the same "individual, test tube, unique snowflake preference" as the great majority of people, don't insult everyone's intelligence by claiming it has no relationship at all with cultural biases or beauty standards in our societies, and is purely individual preference. It clearly isn't.

 

[Taralen]

I like how everyone who "doesn't like this topic being discussed" says basically, this exact same thing.

No one told anyone "go sleep with people you aren't attracted to." The fact that people feel the need to straw man the topic by responding to that speaks volumes.

If you express exactly the same "individual, test tube, unique snowflake preference" as the great majority of people, don't insult everyone's intelligence by claiming it has no relationship at all with cultural biases or beauty standards in our societies, and is purely individual preference. It clearly isn't.

Yes. It goes way deeper than that.

 

[nyctopgam]

Don't take it too hard. It's a white dominated country and while there are ahead some who like partners different from themselves, most people like their own kind. Most Asians in Asian countries like their own kind in my experience and are also often accused of racism by visiting whites.

 

[Taralen]

Don't take it too hard. It's a white dominated country and while there are ahead some who like partners different from themselves, most people like their own kind. Most Asians in Asian countries like their own kind in my experience and are also often accused of racism by visiting whites.

But I don't see it like that. I get what you mean, though. United States for example, is not a homogeneous country or place. It's a melting pot. Yet people still use that term and have those kind of vices here in the United States. "Stick with your own tribe. Don't date interracial. etc.

They message white guys the most not necessarily as they are the most attractive, but as like you said, they are most populated type of gay man. Doesn't mean you don't like gay black, asian or any other type of gay guys less, they are just less common.

So you can't use that argument.

"You're black and complain of white guys guys being racist, yet why don't you date other black guys."

First of all I do, next, again white guys are usually the majority race you see in dating sites, gay clubs, gay groups, and white guys seem to be the most attracted to me as black guys usually want a more masculine heavier set, thug, gangsta, type of guy. Is that my fault? No.

Sadly yes people turn to their own kind and don't date interracial both heterosexually and homosexually, but it seems straights like every fucking thing else, have it easier when it comes to interracial dating and feeding of racism in their relationships.

 

[xbuzzerx]

True. We aren't an all white society. We're a racially mixed society with TV and movie casts and underwear models that are a lineup of white people with 1 black guy at the end of the lineup.

And some Asian women.

 

[pat grimshaw]

Is that site still updating?

 

[SaskGuy]

"It's only racist when white people do it!!!!"

 

[refujiunderground]

When you look at many of the issues within the gay male community such as this and other things, you can weed out the people who are immature and ignorant.


Grindr is first world problems. There's actual serious issues to worry about. Minor annoyances don't count.

Look at the bright side, if you are real and aren't a bullshitter, these guys at least will tell you. Too many bullshitters. I'm beginning more and more to realize that a lot of these guys seem bent on being miserable,unhappy and stressed out living off of dumb shit. You don't need grindr. Folks always looking for validation. On top of that, they shallow as hell or basically want to be embraced or embracing others off of dumb shit. You can't build anything real around those folks. They are stuck thinking like kids.

 

[pat grimshaw]

.... immature.... Minor ...

I agree with you completely.

Why doesn't someone set up a website on a more crucial issue such as 'Douchebags of the Minneapolis Police Force"?

Or "Douchebags of the Islamist Fanatic Killers"?

Or "Douchebags of the Neo-Liberal Capitalism"?


This 'Douchebags of Grindr" website is like that uncool kid in the school playground shouting out—

Why don't you Like Me?

Please Like Me!

I'm going to tell the teacher on to you for not liking me!

And of course all that crying made the kid even more unlikeable.

I bet Deng Xiaoping wouldn't approve of all this rather pathetic name-calling.