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No tea no shade ya'll, but, I think being gay and choosing to start a family, is wrong and selfish.

Bry Bry said:
The only reason someone would suggest gay people couldn't be parents was if someone had problems with gay people. This stems from that dated 1950's and prior stereotype that gays are pedophiles. It's just simply untrue. In fact there are more straight pedophiles than there are ones that define their sexuality as gay. But then there are far more gay men and women worthy of raising children than there are people like you, who rant on about how wrong and immoral it is.

Morality isn't confined to a book written thousands of years ago either, but at least they got one thing right in the bible: Their spelling.

Unlike some people. If you want to be taken seriously you should probably learn to speak like a human being first and not a walking stereotype.
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Why in the lawd jebus's name is you talkin bout peado's and the bible ?

my belief, stems from MY BELIEF, that a child, SHOULD HAVE, a MUDDER and a FAYDER, tyvm, putting words in my mouth.

my cousin is lesbican, if she decided to settle down and have a faymily with her gf, best believe i'd give her my two cents on what I think, but,

it's still ha life aYnd she can do as she damn pleases.

I guess it's easier for me to say because the desire to have children has just never been there, for me, maybe ?

hew knows,

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I think it's important for children to have male and female role models who show them love and respect and teach them to show the same to others. This is still possible with gay parents.
 
Well the answer is simple really. Believe what you like, but don't enforce your belief on others. Have a nice day.
 
What did this bitch just say? I got lost in the grammar issues of every word, I could not even focus on what he was saying.
 
The OP is living proof that even straight parents can get it wrong.
 
streetblackcock99 said:
Of course parenting skills ain't isn't defined by sexchtuality, but taking it all back to the grass roots of things, I believe a child needs to have a moms and a pops,

not two moms

and not two pops,

especially with the surrogates getting involved nowadays, so now kids have two dads and a mom they see every few years ? lawd, it's such a mess.
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OK it's POSSIBLE that there's a "preference" for mixed-gendered parents, but the difference between that and same-sex parents is within the margin of statistical error, and it's very nearly as likely, I think, that two guys or two women can effectively and successfully raise children.

There is NO question that the set of same-gendered parents will almost certainly be a much better choice than shuttling and moving the child(ren) from foster home to foster home, and giving them no stability at all in how they're raised.

There are exceptions to every rule (and even more exceptions when it comes to raising children!!), but I really don't think there's a big hill of difference betweeen the same or mixed gender parental arrangements.

By the way, I can easily guess what "no tea, no shade" means - but until you used the term (in another thread where I did disagree with your view, but I don't think I posted, but it doesn't matter), I had *never* seen nor heard it before??
 
gaystorm said:
What did this bitch just say? I got lost in the grammar issues of every word, I could not even focus on what he was saying.
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The Bitch just said that gay and lesbians do not desrve to have children
This from a guy who is happy to kneel in pools of stale urine and suck
cock all day , on that subject how is your health doing ?
 
you serious?

so are you saying that straight people are the only ones that have a right to have a family? why are you here in the first place?

i don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with whether you're qualified to be a parent or not. i feel that i have as much of a right to have a son or a daughter as much as my brother and my friends being that they're straight and i'm gay. i just will have to go about it a different way, that's all which is cool with me. that whole knock some woman i don't feel too hot about, having to front like i love her where i'm touching her stomach talking about "that's me right there", and that whole bullshit isn't me. i feel that my son and my daughter will come out fine with two dads. we may not be motherly but there's plenty of kids that only had a daddy and came out to be perfectly fine.
 
sinfulsimon said:
I think it's important for children to have male and female role models who show them love and respect and teach them to show the same to others. This is still possible with gay parents.
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People don't raise children in isolation - unless they're those weird Quiverfull survivalists, and that's not relevant to the subject of LGBT parenting, I don't think. It's totally possible to have 'Uncles' and 'Aunts' and other family members to provide role models. And, the idea of having to have strictly gendered role models . . . I don't know, it strikes me as a way of passing down gendered indoctrination, and enforcing gender norms by holding up one standard of behavior and presentation depending on the sex of the child.

Surround your little family with loving, supportive people. The kids will do fine.

(Having said this, I have no intention of ever bringing children into this world. I don't have the proper nurturing instincts and skills. I am a great aunt, though. Go in, destabilize the situation with fingerpaints & noisy toys, get the hell out.)
 
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