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As the only boy in my group of siblings, me having kids is seen as almost an obligation, as I'm supposed to apparently, "carry the family name",
Nayow,
aside from me having absolutely no desire to be a parent or want chilgun, I just think gay couples, "starting families" is wrong and selfish, for the children,
I don't know what it is, it's unlikely but perhaps it may be, "social conditioning" ? idfk,
unyways, I just don't like it, I know it ain't isn't always possible for a child to have a mom and pops for whatever reason, but I jus think too often gheys/lesbicans need to put their want for chilgun in perspective and just not go there,
ya'll feel me ?
People don't raise children in isolation - unless they're those weird Quiverfull survivalists, and that's not relevant to the subject of LGBT parenting, I don't think. It's totally possible to have 'Uncles' and 'Aunts' and other family members to provide role models. And, the idea of having to have strictly gendered role models . . . I don't know, it strikes me as a way of passing down gendered indoctrination, and enforcing gender norms by holding up one standard of behavior and presentation depending on the sex of the child.
To the bottoms in this thread who attempted to make me sweat my edges and discombobulate my lace,
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keep trying though, lawd jebus above loves a tryer, yas ma'am he does, amen.

You are fooling no-one , one post English Grammar 98% , next post streetwise Black guy
with his jeans hanging halfway down your ass , hustling along , Schizo ,![]()
I don't really mind this shtick at the beginning but it is really pathetic now to see the sudden surge in loud black caricatures of a certain socio-economical background. .
That is what happens when you are not unique; you fall back on templates.
