Non Experimenting Curious Straight Guys

[TJBill]

I am very curious about sex with a man. I love gay porn and have many fantasies about sucking a cock or having anal sex. I would love to try it if i ever get the opportunity. It would have to be safe and descrete

I'm with Fish.

My problem is that my gay friends are far from 'discreet' - my straight friends aren't discreet either, lol.

 

[stupidhead]

I like jacking off to guys pics and imagining things like showering with them or seeing their cocks...But i would never want to make out or suck or anything else with them. I guess just JO with them is as far as i would go (no contact or exchanging of fluids)
So what does that make me? Curious straight guy? Curious Bi?

 

[RRRalph]

I'm curious Bi. I can jerk off to 'straight' and 'gay' porn. Im still young. I like to point out that Im a virgin.

Thanx for sharing your story dude You are young and you like both girls and guys. Take your time to experiment, discover your sexual identity and make sure you are open for everything. I have made some threads about some things you've said. Have a look and give us your opinion.

I would prefer to have a relationship with a woman instead of a man, I dont quite know why.

Thread: Are You More Into Guys Or Girls?

I have a feeling that the only full-out gay guys I've met or experienced have been totaly girly and feminine.

Thread: Most Bisexuals Prefer Masculine Gays?

That and I would love to have a child one day of my own with someone who I love.

Thread: The Affects Of Wanting Kids In Choosing Man Or Woman.

 

[jonty71]

great thread, sums me up exactly, great to know there are others out there who feel the same way as I do. Thanks guys for great posts.

 

[Lube]

I enjoy gay porn, it gets me off. I think men can be attractive. I'm committed to my girlfriend, and I've never been with another man, nor do I plan to be. Call it whatever you want, but I define myself by my emotional attractions first and foremost.

I told myself the same thing for 25 years.

But no longer.

 

[TRUKR]

I'd deem myself GvBiMM if I had to code a personals ad - that'd mean Gay virgin, Bi-curious married Male. Wallowing around in some ill defined limbo that's not very comfortable. A twilight zone between bi and gay tending more toward gay all the time.

I ask myself - if the rapture occurred - and I was suddenly without partner - for sure I myself wouldn't be going anywhere and don't get hung up on the rapture talk - I'm also agnostic - but given all those ifs which section of the local alternative paper do I turn to first? Men Seeking Men or Men Seeking Women? Pretty sure it'd be Seeking Men but with some trepidation since it'd be brand new, virgin territory.

If my hard disk is any indication I tilt about 250 to 0 gay - zero naked chicks and 250 great lookin' naked guys. Love 'em too much and thank God for gay porn. Oh, sorry, I'm agnostic - thank JUB for gay porn.

GvBiMM

 

[radical matt]

Hm...well, I'm a total virgin myself to both sexes. There's this odd thing with me, I can jo to gay porn (though in an oddly moralistic sense, never have done it to straight or bi stuff...) and reading stories (though some straight stuff, it usually involves...well... -blush-)

Anyway, the thought of mutually jerking off or giving/getting a handjob seems like it might be cool, but I personally wouldn't really like giving blowjobs or getting fucked (yeah, not into the dick in arse thing AT ALL) or kissing a guy. I'm not sure that I can give you a reason why, it just doesn't seem like something I want to do at all. A few rare gay pics of guys kissing look hot to me, but by and large, what I like about it is the guys' bodies. It's ALMOST like with me, it's an artistic attraction. I mean, it's the curvature and tone and musculature (not size, tone and fitness) and stuff that I like seeing. When I was younger I just told myself it was because I wanted to be like that as I got older, but now I'm not so sure. I think it's partially an artistic thing and partly an admiration and partly that it would be cool to have someone to hold ya and stuff. And I say ALMOST because there is a certain "sturring" inside me when I see it (which is what leads to the jerking off, of course. )

...but on the other hand, I don't see myself ever having a partnership/relationship with a guy. I mean, it's like I think it'd be cool to have a good friend to jo with sometimes, do the hj thing with, but at the same time, be friends first and foremost, buds that hang out and watch movies and go to games and play games and work out; but not lovers.

On the other hand, I'm not nearly as attracted to girls sexually, but on a relationship level, could see myself with a girl (especially one that I know that I kinda have a crush on, but can't bring myself to say anything to her about it...), and that I'd like to have a family with because of things such as having kids and "bringing home to the parents" someday. I dunno, maybe it's because I feel that I could be a protector/provider to a girl but that if I was with a guy, it'd be the other way around. And I can be sexually attracted to girls, but most of the time it's more of a "wow, she's really cute! ^_^" reaction more than a "wow, she's really HOT" reaction, whereas I tend to think that guys can be cute and hot.


I dunno, it's really confusing, probably built on lots of stuff like what I've been taught waring with what I think myself and with how I tend to feel naturally. But then, I have absolutely NO desire of fucking on either end (but especially don't want to be fucked...maybe I just have an anal thing...), and I don't at all like the thought of kissing a guy or really of sucking one off...but I wouldn't mind doing light stuff with a buddy. But like I said, not as a one night thing devoid of any relation, but I wouldn't want it to be a relationSHIP more like a friendship...I dunno, I'm sure it's too confusing. ^_^ I don't know, maybe I want to experiment or maybe I'm just a horny young guy. -shrug-

Of course, I don't have any guy I know that I could experiment with anyway and never have. For that matter, same with girls. As much as people have sex, seems like it wouldn't be THAT hard. lol But then I am kinda clueless...


Eh, what's to say, I'm weird and overcomplicate things. ^_^ I'm sure I'll figure it out...eventually. Probably.

 

[radical matt]

True I guess...but the very idea seems...painful, if nothing else. Though that could just be my anatomy. But I have heard people say that some guys love it, some are neutral, and some hate it, and that to some guys it feels good, to some nothing, and to some feels painful. I'd probably be in the painful group, I think...

 

[TaigaStar]

Well, it hurts a little at first (from my experience with toys, anyway), but you just need to move slowly. It's kinda fun once you get used to something up there.

 

[radical matt]

Hm...well, at the risk of tmi, a finger hurts quite enough, thank you very much...besides just feling weird. ^_^; I don't think anything more/larger than that would be fun. Around the outside, okay, but inside...I just don't see it ever being enjoyable.

 

[chipity]

I am very curious about everything, giving and receiving oral and anal. But I don't know exactly where to look. I am the kind of guy who really doesn't hook up with people that I am not interested in, and I am totally not into a relationship with a guy, just sex, so I watch a lot of gay porn and jack off to it, and have thought a lot about just finding a guy to suck and fuck, but I am terrified of that PLUS I don't know where to look.

ditto. this situation sucks.

 

[mabby7]

I am very curious about everything, giving and receiving oral and anal. But I don't know exactly where to look. I am the kind of guy who really doesn't hook up with people that I am not interested in, and I am totally not into a relationship with a guy, just sex, so I watch a lot of gay porn and jack off to it, and have thought a lot about just finding a guy to suck and fuck, but I am terrified of that PLUS I don't know where to look.

I think lots of guys are in your situation. Any posters care to help?

 

[danny456]

I think lots of guys are in your situation. Any posters care to help?

An slightly expensive way to experiment but I went to an escort - found him on the net (fit with big cock & Australian), spoke to him on the phone first and then had the most scary, guilt-ridden but enjoyable night in my life. Opened my eyes, and no regrets so far

 

[RRRalph]

An slightly expensive way to experiment but I went to an escort - found him on the net (fit with big cock & Australian), spoke to him on the phone first and then had the most scary, guilt-ridden but enjoyable night in my life. Opened my eyes, and no regrets so far

Opened your eyes to what? In figuring out that you are not just curious, but bisexual?

 

[danny456]

Opened your eyes to what? In figuring out that you are not just curious, but bisexual?

opened my eyes that playing with boys is as much fun as playing with girls, and nothing to be ashamed of (despite what many of my peers would have me believe).
Also, getting intimate with a guy for the first time is a significant milestone and having someone else who let me take it at my pace was much appreciated.

 

[Southern Boy]

I don't really ever read the posts on here, just look at the porn. I think about guys a lot and would really like to hook up with one but i'm way too scared to do anything because I think it would ruin my reputation.. and i'm extremely picky and don't find guys other than "straight" ones or guys that act completely straight but might be gay attractive. I don't have a girlfriend, and I have sex with girls several times in a given week (i'm a student in college, girls are slutty and easy) but I jerk off to this website more. I also plan to marry a girl later on, but right now i'm enjoying doing whatever I want.
Just thought i'd share my story, but I probably won't see any responses to this because like I said, I usually don't post or read anything.

 

[mabby7]

What's the thing you are curious about then?

I think it was the taboo allure– maybe similar to drinking which lost some of its appeal when I turned 21. I also seem to have a quirky streak – I read some cuckold stories I did find it exiting that some guys like to be belittled, humiliated, and cuckolded. While I tend to be passive, I do not like being belittled and know I would be long gone before it went anywhere near what these stories describe.
Another question is what would have happened if I had the internet in my 20’s, of course the sticks and rocks were ok in the warm cave hummmm DAMN GEIKO. If there had been more support and information Like JUB provides maybe I would not have felt so isolated.

That's the way I felt about homosexuality. I was lured into the taboo of it.

 

[The Homosepian]

I do jerk off occassionally to gay pics and vids. In theory, I like the idea of having a cock up my arse. I think it's hot but not sure I'd ever go through with it. What am I curious about? Nothing, I guess. There's just a side of me that likes to mess around with other guys, no strings attached.

i co-sign this.......


idk, i jerk to gay porn, but don't think i'd actually go through with getting a cock in my ass i ain't gonna front i get off to it though. i guess it's something like a forbidden fruit type concept or somethin

 

[jyrdgs]

I don't see why if you're bisexual (or "straight" and in denial) and attracted to men sexually why you wouldn't have sex once with a man? You're denying a whole factor of yourself based on fear, societal conditioning, and why go through life with one hand tied behind your back?

I know TONS of married bi guys who wish they'd tried sex with a guy just once, but now they're married, don't want to cheat/fuck up their marriage, and they're totally satisfied with the women in their lives but wish that they'd had sex/relationships with men.

Also, what's up with all the biphobia? Not ALL bisexual men who get into relationships with gay men cheat on them with women or immediatley dump the gay guy for a woman. Gay men cheat on each other all the time, and heterosexual people cheat on each other too. Orientation has nothing to do with fidelity factors.

I'm bisexual and I personally don't like one night stands/tricks or quick meaningless empty impersonal sex with people who I don't know. Yes, I do prefer relationships with men.

What ever someone's reason is for NOT experimenting it is THEIR OWN decision. I could live the lie and get married and no one would know the difference? Why? Because I love kids and could love a wife and be happy, well, partially happy. I would never be sexually fulfilled. As for the emotional connection, I could do that with a guy or girl, happiness is never guaranteed on either side of the fence. I've just learned to not judge someone's sexual decisions. Gay people are more judgemental than any group I have even seen.

 

[bluealternative]

I really hate labels because of the need to pre-judge people, but like previously said, all people are all different in character. I consider myself bi-curious. I'm divorced, love gay porn, still into women but never did it with a guy. I probably would get into something softcore like a sensual massage, erotic wrestling, mutual BJ or oral but that's it... for now at least.

If I get a partner, he'll know right off the bat that it's a friendship not a quick fix, I keep my porn stash for that. I believe there is more to a person than just getting ya rocks off. As far as a relationship goes, I'll let my partner know from the begining my intentions, that way it's not mis-construed down the road. Some call being bi "confusion and choatic", I call it "the best of both worlds", if you are confident with yourself about it. I think that matters most.