Not attracted to femenine gays.

[jhnphilipps]

Where are you getting your statistics from?

The Out Of Your Ass Almanac???

hahahahha!!!

 

[jhnphilipps]

Maybe you can try looking for men in places other than hook-up places and sites?

That's where you meet the sad, desperate types...

All the men I hang with I've met through my motorcycle riding. Can you "tell" if they're gay? Meh.. some of them yes.. some of them no..

Things I've always found about the guys who hammer on and on about how "The majority of gay men are feminine and I only like masculine guys...."


1) They're seldom that manly themselves... they're usually looking for something that's lacking in themselves.

2) They're projecting.. even the best guys.. the ones they could really click with.. they're "faggots" right off the bat.. not a single gay man can meet his standards. As soon as he's a known homosexual.. that's enough to be a turn off.

3) They have major self-hating issues. They're always harping on about how "straight acting" they are or how nobody can tell they're gay and what a man they are... very boring if the most fascinating thing about you is something I can't "tell."

4) They get all freaky about appearing to be doing something gay in public. This can be as simple as not wanting to hug you when they see you or freaking out if you say something while sitting in a restaurant that could identify you as gay. It can also be as silly as them talking loudly about girls or not wanting to be seen by total strangers doing things like shopping or waiting in line at a gay club.

5) they're really bad in bed. Their issues follow them into the sheets. They're afraid to enjoy man-to-man sex... they don't kiss, they give timid, tooth-ridden blow jobs and get all uptight about fucking. They don't enjoy themselves because they're so damn worried about coming off as "straight-acting" even while having gay sex.

When a guy like that comes along... run... he's not worth your precious time.

But if you're looking for a better place to meet men... try doing something that you like doing.. try joining a gay baseball league or bowling league or take gay line dancing classes. At least you'll meet men who share some interests past sucking dick and you'll meet a lot more guys who you're going to like. You'll also meet men who aren't all uptight about being gay... those guys are so boring.

well said Soil!

 

[Soilwork]

meh... I think it's really unfair to call any gay guy who doesn't come across as gay a closet case... most of my friends are 100% out and still don't come across as gay at all... some do.. who cares?

 

[josher]

Soilwork said just about everything that I feel when I read these kind of femme-bashing threads.

I'm neither macho nor flamboyant. Neither are most of my gay friends, but I've had many more flamboyant friends than self-styled "straight acting" ones, for the reasons Soil mentions, and I've treasured their friendship.

Finally JUBers, when you're tempted to start threads or make posts putting down flamboyant gay guys, remember that there are fellow JUBers, who are flamboyant, sitting at their computers reading your threads and posts.

You are insulting real people in our JUB community. You are hurting their feelings. You are attacking their self-esteem.

They may be anonymous to you. They may never directly complain. But they are being abused by these kinds of posts, just as surely as if some gay basher walked up to them and called them names.

 

[Memosexual87]

about the real gay community? lol

yea like how to shave ur chest legs n pubes the right way

what colour [STRIKE]lip stick[/STRIKE] chap stick to use for ur skin colour

how to pluck n arch ur eyebrows

how to bite the inside of ur cheeks n pucker ur lips so u dont look so fookin FAT in top alngled pix (dat's teh best angle)

 

[USEDCAR]

I'm not really a fan of femme guys they are annoying. Especially Ross the Intern on Jay Leno hearing him is like hearing a nails on a chalkboard

I used to work a with a lot of femme gay guys and they are so hard to get along with they are rude and have bad attitudes. They are also a huge turn off I don't want to be around a guy thats going to advertise I'm gay in front of the whole world

 

[Telstra]

this thread is interesting.

 

[Soilwork]

I used to work a with a lot of femme gay guys and they are so hard to get along with they are rude and have bad attitudes. They are also a huge turn off I don't want to be around a guy thats going to advertise I'm gay in front of the whole world

I used to work a with a lot of [STRIKE]femme gay guys[/STRIKE] gay guys who go on and on about being "straight acting" and they are so hard to get along with they are rude and have bad attitudes. They are also a huge turn off I don't want to be around a guy thats going to [STRIKE]advertise I'm gay[/STRIKE] be such a coward they can't come out in front of the whole world.

 

[USEDCAR]

And that's exactly why hardcore str8-actors turn me off. They are the kind of guy who'll refuse to kiss me or hold my hand if anyone's around, for fear of being identified as queer. Fuck that shit, I refuse to live in the 50's.

I dont mind kissing/hugging a guy in public and hold his hands and all that lovely stuff but i just don't a man thats going to act like a female

 

[Cubanboi]

...There are gay guys that are just that; regular-acting guys (not overly macho porn stereotypes or Chris Crockers) who happen to be gay. Those are the ones I can see myself being with.
... I don't hate them, or flee them, I have friends that are.....they'll just never be the type I'm attracted to. Ever.

I just want a masculine guy.
Not extremely macho-not feminine.
A male who is masculine.

 

[woaini]

Let's wish all straight guys like men!

 

[Telstra]

I dont mind kissing/hugging a guy in public and hold his hands and all that lovely stuff but i just don't a man thats going to act like a female

men act like females because they were born that way. everyone is different.
let them be.

 

[josher]

I'm not really a fan of femme guys they are annoying. Especially Ross the Intern on Jay Leno hearing him is like hearing a nails on a chalkboard

I used to work a with a lot of femme gay guys and they are so hard to get along with they are rude and have bad attitudes. They are also a huge turn off I don't want to be around a guy thats going to advertise I'm gay in front of the whole world

Try changing the word "femme" to black, Jewish or Irish. Would you have dared posted that?

 

[Dduder]

I recommend just spiking a straight guys drink and have your way with them....

Advocating rape. How lovely!

Gentlemen, if you want to know why some straight men are homophobic, you got your answer right there.

 

[Dduder]

I gotta admit that all of the gay guys I know are kinda feminine. I'm not saying that all gay guys are flamming queens, but I've never met a gay guy who is completely devoid of feminine mannerisms. That is ok with me. It is gay men who have a problem with it, apparently.

 

[josher]

^^Yes, sb was clearly just being sarcastic.

 

[Croynan]

deleted/eM.

 

[thisisinteresting]

Okay. I'm also not attracted to feminine guys whatsoever. I'm not 'limiting' myself, it's simply what I'm [not] attracted to. I would more quickly get a boner with a female than with a skinny, effeminate guy. That's just how I am. So, I stick to those kinds of guys and I don't talk about it because it's just personal taste.

Hell, my only friend that is effeminate (girls included, my female friends are tomboys ) is my friend who has a crush on me but doesn't know he's gay. Hahah. That's always amusing.

In short, it's totally fine to have preference. Hell, there's people who won't date outside their race. That's fine and dandy, but nobody really cares to hear about it, y'know?

EDIT: Just because you're not attracted to effeminate guys doesn't mean you have something against them. Give the kid some slack - when I was first coming to terms with homosexuality, I found myself having to adjust to the concept of really effeminate flambuoyant gay guys.

 

[sabot3ur]

"straight acting manly man" homo complains about fairy queers...

some jubbers agree, want to seem as "normal" as possible whilst retaining gay status, think that any femme guys will further perpetuate whatever stereotype the precious straight men have of us...

some jubbers disagree, maintain the fact that we're all different and none of this shit matters...

Dduder sucks dick, and continues to post idiotic drivel that only serves as entertainment to the rest of us...

lather rinse repeat?

 

[Sunshine]

*farts*

Oooh girl! I's so manly.

*snaps*