Not attracted to femenine gays.

[rareboy]

Surely you've all figured out that the OP was just setting the cat amongst the pigeons to see what kind of bloodletting would ensue.

He hasn't even bothered to return to the thread and that should tell you something about his intentions.

I have to give it to him though, he was successful in getting people to post some of the stupidest fucking things I've read this year.

 

[thisisinteresting]

How is it inconsiderate? It's simply a preference. (Assuming "I don't like" is equal to "I'm not attracted to," not just dislike in general.)

 

[Lube]

It's funny 'cause a lot of guys who "don't like fem guys" can't hear their own vocal intonations, can't see their own quirks in the way they hold themselves.

They are the very fem guys they don't like. Sheesh.

 

[sb]

How is it inconsiderate? It's simply a preference. (Assuming "I don't like" is equal to "I'm not attracted to," not just dislike in general.)

constantly telling people you think they are unattractive is inconsiderate.... very few people who say they aren't attracted to feminine guys stop at that, they continue on with how horrible and disgusting they are and how they can't stand to be around them and how they are bring such shame to 'normal' gay guys.

 

[thisisinteresting]

constantly telling people you think they are unattractive

continue on with how horrible and disgusting they are and how they can't stand to be around them and how they are bring such shame to 'normal' gay guys.

I understand how these things are inconsiderate, but neither of which are simply stating "I don't like fem guys." Those are just discriminatory and/or insecure people.

 

[RationalLunacy]

How do you feel about old fem guys -- like Quentin Crisp?

 

[Lube]

How do you feel about old fem guys -- like Quentin Crisp?

Quentin! What a gem! There's a real gay hero for you.

May he rest in peace.

 

[thisisinteresting]

he looks like an old lady. that's pretty hot.

 

[Telstra]

I have no idea who Chris Crocker is.

I googled and have a look at the pic, he is femininely fambulous.

Leave Britney Alone video is funny. LOL

 

[USEDCAR]

you should start to be comfortable with yourself.

one day a close friend of mine saw a femenine gay walking in front of us ...My friend told me : i'm glad you are not like him. (i act like myself anyway i'm me)

i realised again that i was playing the perfect gay friend. i really got mad at his remark..and i told him what if. i didn't talk to him for 2 weeks.

be yourself fuck the rest.... and for those that don't like it stay away or change the channel..

I'm very comfortable with myself its just funny how everyone acts like its a crime to dislike femme guys



Oh ugh Chris Crocker someone needs to choke him to death with a fat cock

 

[Lube]

how i feel about this,.


Straight guys in bar..

So John you like Louise?...
(John): Na, i don't like dating blonde girl.

First guy: Bartender two more beer please.

End of discussion and life goes on

around here 3 threads 400 posts...

The difference being that blonde girls aren't teased and tortured by guys for being blonde.

 

[Dduder]

Most threads in this board degenerate into endless bitchiness and cattiness. It is quite sad, really. If you want to create a thread that will go on for several pages and result into endless fights among members, here are the themes you should base your thread upon:

- Feminine-acting gay men are less attractive than masculine-acting gay men.

- Straight men are more masculine than gay men.

- Old guys are not attractive.

- Guys without gym bodies and model faces are not attractive.

- Male bisexuals are not gays in the closet.

- Male bisexuals are gays in the closet.

- Christina Aguillera is better than Britney Spears.

- Britney Spears is better than Christina Aguillera

- Gay men are only interested in sex and not relationships.

- Etcetera...

 

[USEDCAR]

how i feel about this,.


Straight guys in bar..

So John you like Louise?...
(John): Na, i don't like dating blonde girl.

First guy: Bartender two more beer please.

End of discussion and life goes on

around here 3 threads 400 posts...

Good for you

 

[thisisinteresting]

I must've missed some posts or something. All the posts I saw were merely reflecting on someone's attraction preferences... then I ask how that's inconsiderate and everyone replies with things about saying it over and over, or straight up talking shit about someone's race? Maybe I should've read the whole topic but damnit I don't want to read five pages of people bickering. Nevermind, I'm just gonna exit the topic and not come back, I have to be missing something.

 

[youngnihilist]

am i the only solidly masculine guy who likes feminine gays... i think they're so cute and its a huge turnon when you can tell he's gay (voice, mannerisms, superficial interests)

fyi almost all gay guys are somewhat feminine, everyone claims to be "masculine" (having a six pack and big arms doesn't make you masculine) but not that many are

 

[tonyboy]

This is an interesting thread and has caused me to think about this subject a bit more than in the past (one of the nice things about jub, it let's us share opinions and maybe rethink our own).

Josher from post #35^ made a few points that I'd not thought of before.
I think it may be true that when we write about really fem guys that those that are that way take it as a dagger to them, not literraly of course, but sympolicaly.
I am certain that most people here (except on the CE&P forum) don't mean to bemean anyone, it sometimes seems that way though.

Yet I also understand a bit about F22 Raptor and the others comments about extremely fem guys. I guess I'd say that I've met a few fem guys that I've enjoyed company with.
But for those of us that are not 'out' yet being in that company could be an embarassement.
And I make a distinction between fem guys that just happen to act and have fem characteristics and those that flaunt them. Drag queens and guys that wear makeup, etc.
For the majority of gay guys I figure that is just something the they don't want to be part of. Sure it's ok at a party or club or something, but I doubt many of us want to go out to a regular sort of place.... I mean like on date to a movie, go camping, to dinner with someone that is like that.
I once went bowling with to guy that were obviously gay.... not flamboyant by any means but they were obvious.. But they were new friends and I liked them.
What I didn't like was that they'd come up to the scoring table and kiss me in public.
I mean it was sort of embarrasing. I saw everyone watch us.... and while we were a few lanes away from most people I could see them looking and talking.
I didn't like it.
Gay guys that are fem cannot help it. I know many accentuate it for effect. And they love clubs and stuff. I dont' care for that sort of behavior (just my opionon so please no hate messages).
It's tough enough to be gay as it is sometimes. Those that are obvious have many things against them growing up right from the start. I figure their only advantage is that guy know they are gay so they can meet other gay guys without going through all the shit that straight appearing gay guys have to through to meet someone.

anyway, won't ramble any longer.
Good thread though.

 

[-Lance-]

I love all the flavors of men.

haha

But I think in the long run, i will settle with a more masculine man, that at times will not be afraid to show off a little feminity now and then.

We all have or combinations of masc/fem.

My fem side comes out with my artistic creations and sometimes my music (techno/80's elctro pop/glam rock).

My masculine side comes out with conversations and how I act with others, especially men.

 

[-Lance-]

In my experience that usually means they're not packing much under the hood. although i'd LOVE to be proved wrong, nice big muscles, nice big cock...

Well there are a few reasons:

They could be taking steroids

You haven't met the right stud muffin



Personally, I've been with a few guys, and I've been the biggest out of all of them.

And I'm not BIG. On a good night I can be 7, but the fact is that most guys are small. And its sad because small is average. 5 in give or take is the average from what I've heard, and that doesnt cut it for me.

I need 6 in + in my life.

Also, I'm a little sad. I've had FEW opportunites to Please my men. They always please me becomes I'm more bigger, and I suppose I come off as more agressive.

I love controlling men, but hell, I like to be controlled too.....but don't tell anyone!

 

[dj415]

Seriously? We are on 6 pages of this drivel?

 

[operafan]

I think guys who speak so nastily about femme guys are part of the "blend into the crowd" type of guys. They are threatened by someone who, by their very presence will out them.

This whole discussion reminds me of a film that doesn't look like it is going to be released in the US, Breakfast with Scot with Tom Cavanaugh. Tom is an ex-hockey player who lives with his BF but is pretty unhinged when his very fem nephew (?) comes to live with him.