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Oh No! It's Another Thread About Circumcision.

Age and foreskin status ...

  • Under 30 and cut

    Votes: 24 16.9%
  • Under 30 and uncut

    Votes: 21 14.8%
  • 30-50 and cut

    Votes: 36 25.4%
  • 30-50 and uncut

    Votes: 16 11.3%
  • Over 50 and cut

    Votes: 31 21.8%
  • Over 50 and uncut

    Votes: 14 9.9%
  • I can't tell whether I'm cut or uncut

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    142
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

:lol: Jesus Christ, it's a difference of SIX PERCENT. Don't get your knickers all in a twist, ffs. Plus, I included a margin of error, which could bring it down to close to what the WHO said it was.

Well, I was ripped a new one over a difference of 10%. I thought it was 80%; it was actually 70% via The WHO study, which I linked to and quoted.

Pro-Circ people don't need a reason to go apeshit over strawman arguments and distractions; anything to keep the focus off the medical evidence that contradicts their opinions.

Notice how the laundry list of medical facts about the foreskin was dismissed as "a bunch of Latin", while several posts were partly dedicated to an off-handed example about a car? And the examples of circumcision risks I listed -- complete with medical photos -- was washed over in favour of bitching about a mis-quoted %, that was off by 10.

So predictable.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Why not fixate on the point of my statement, and not the wording of a single example?

Hey, not my fault you screwed up your example... I'd advise more careful thinking-through next time you want to make a point.

I’ve detailed many ways in which an incomplete penis is at a significant disadvantage over one that remain intact.

Except that if the benefits were that significant, the practice would have died out years ago. And there would presumably be many more instances of circumcised guys reporting problems to their doctors, wouldn't there? Or they'd all just fall off.

But they haven't.

Unlikely. Virtually every male of virtually every species on the planet has a foreskin of some type.

Well, things change. 5 billion years ago everything on the planet was single celled.

Why do you limit it to death? There are infant boys castrated every year by botched circumcisions. Many men would consider that worse than death.

Agreed - that is unfortunate. But the proportion is small. There are more car accidents than plane accidents every year - should we get rid of cars? The question is whether the end justifies the means.

And that’s not even to mention the various deformities and disorders that can develop as a direct result of circumcision[/quote]

Again, the proprotions are fairly small. As I said, were they that prevalent the practice would have ceased generations ago.

No, you are the one who has repeatedly brought up this point. I made a passing reference to it once, and only once, in direct response to your assertion that female circumcision always means a complete loss of sexual sensation.

Maybe you are projecting?

Nope. It's the one which seems to come up most in discussion. You read any of these cut/uncut threads in here, you'll see. Try any of the anti-circumcision hysteria-laden internet sites as well if you're not sure.

My parents and I have had several frank discussions about my feelings. I understand that they were only trying to do what was best for me based on bad information, but I still resent their usurping of my basic human rights to govern my own body. I don’t think that will ever change, though my mother’s apology helped.

My honest opinion? Get over it. No, seriously.

Is your penis worthy of a "worst case scenario:" entry in a medical journal, or the freakshow section of a museum? Is there pain? Can you pee, get hard and enjoy sex to the point where you experience orgasm which you also enjoy?

Get over it, then. There are guys in here with real grounds for holding a grudge.

-d-
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Oh and by the way, pro-circ sites display over blown false facts about the foreskin...yes they do.

Anti-circ people "rightfully-so" advocate the [no need to circumcise baby boys]. Foreskin is NOT a defect. If mommy doesn't like the look of a natural body part, so she has her son circumcised...she's a dumb American.

NO babies have EVER died before or after leaving the hospital as a result of having an intact/uncircumcised penis.

Babies HAVE died before and/or after leaving the hospital due to complications of a circumcised penis. << very well could have been prevented.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

BearBoi, don't get your panties into a wad, honey.

Sorry, I’m just used to some people going on the offensive and being extremely insensitive, even callous.

Hey, not my fault you screwed up your example... I'd advise more careful thinking-through next time you want to make a point.

The example was subjective. I find it perfectly valid; you don’t. No need to get… snippy. ;)

Except that if the benefits were that significant, the practice would have died out years ago.

That would be assuming people had all the facts. They didn't. Many still don't.

Routine infant circumcision started in the Victorian era as a way to curb masturbation, which was believed to cause insanity. That’s what doctors told people. That is what they believed.

Now consider all the facts about the foreskin I shared with you. Most people don’t know any of that. To this day, most people blindly trust doctors, even though some still advise circumcision 'prevents penile cancer’ -- a lie long disavowed by the American Cancer Society, which has made multiple requests for them to stop.

However, as I mentioned earlier, infant male circumcision rates in North America have been steadily dropping since the 70s and that drop is picking up speed -- not slowing down. We’ve entered the information era in which people can be more informed than ever, and they are waking up to the facts.

So in a way, you are correct; as people learn the significant benefits, the practice of circumcising infants is slowly dying. The death of this practice in religious and ingrained social customs may take a little longer (as change often does in such settings), but I’m confident it, too, will eventually fade. Look at many of the Jewish anti-circumcision websites. I've even seen a few Muslim.

And there would presumably be many more instances of circumcised guys reporting problems to their doctors, wouldn't there? Or they'd all just fall off.
But they haven't.

I’d assume that is because they have no basis for comparison.

Agreed - that is unfortunate. But the proportion is small. There are more car accidents than plane accidents every year - should we get rid of cars? The question is whether the end justifies the means.

I don’t care if it is 1. The only person who should make the decision about whether or not to cut off their foreskin is the person who owns it.

Nope. It's the one which seems to come up most in discussion. You read any of these cut/uncut threads in here, you'll see. Try any of the anti-circumcision hysteria-laden internet sites as well if you're not sure.

I believed you accused me, personally, of being motivated by that particular obsession.

I just pointed out that I’m not.

Personally, I don’t comment on the ‘loss of feeling’ aspect because it is subjective. Also, I consider it moot. Whether or not it is true or false, it has nothing to do with my points about cosmetic infant circumcision being a violation of basic human rights.

My honest opinion? Get over it. No, seriously.

Is your penis worthy of a "worst case scenario:" entry in a medical journal, or the freakshow section of a museum? Is there pain? Can you pee, get hard and enjoy sex to the point where you experience orgasm which you also enjoy?

Get over it, then. There are guys in here with real grounds for holding a grudge.

Your standards of “sufficiently mutilated” are not what determines if a person’s opinions on this matter are valid.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

BearBoi: Insensitive? Callous? Us?

Who just called a third of the world "mutilated", despite the fact we asked you nicely to please not refer to us this way?

The pot's callin' the kettle black.

But for the record, when I discuss this topic I normally avoid using the word mutilate because I understand some guys who don't mind (even like) their circ-status find it offensive.

How many times have I used it? Three, four? Regardless, I’ve strived to keep it in context; either by describing my view of the act of infant circumcision (which is inherently done without consent), or my feelings about what was done to my own body.

If you think I'm here to lash out or piss people off, you are mistaken. Such objectives serve no point in civil debate. All they do it shut down communication, and then what's the point?
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

The example was subjective. I find it perfectly valid; you don’t. No need to get… snippy. ;)

Still wrong, though - a bad example. Just saying.

I’d assume that is because they have no basis for comparison.

I think I'll go for Occam's Razor and assume that is is more simple than that. There are no reports because nothing has gone wrong.

I don’t care if it is 1. The only person who should make the decision about whether or not to cut off their foreskin is the person who owns it.

So you'd not get your kids a haircut, you'd not choose a school for them, you'll let the child make all its own decisions because you, as a parent, can't possibly evaluate the data on your own or get a professional opinion on a matter and make a decision you believe is the correct one for your child?

Good luck with that.

I believed you accused me, personally, of being motivated by that particular obsession.

I just pointed out that I’m not.

I hear you, but I didn't. It was a general observation.

Your standards of “sufficiently mutilated” are not what determines if a person’s opinions on this matter are valid.

But yours are? Okay.



I've said all I can in here and offered all the opinions on the subject I have. Anything further will simply be unnecessary rehashing of everything.

-d-
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Um, hair grows back. Foreskin doesn't. Every child, girl or boy, goes to school, normally in the district he lives in. You cannot compare it with circumcision. Circumcision done for cosmetic reasons should be left up for the owner of the penis to decide.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Skipping over all the yapping...

I'm cut. I like it. I thank my parents for being cut. I wouldn't want to be uncut. I don't care if I was "mutilated" or "robbed of my human rights". I think cut looks better but I'll still date a guy who was uncut.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Um, hair grows back. Foreskin doesn't. Every child, girl or boy, goes to school, normally in the district he lives in. You cannot compare it with circumcision. Circumcision done for cosmetic reasons should be left up for the owner of the penis to decide.

Thank you.

+1
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Um, hair grows back. Foreskin doesn't. Every child, girl or boy, goes to school, normally in the district he lives in. You cannot compare it with circumcision. Circumcision done for cosmetic reasons should be left up for the owner of the penis to decide.

Thank you.

+1

Ah. Clearly I failed to make my point and nobody read between the lines and made the connection I anticipated they would.

No matter.

-d-
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

However, as I mentioned earlier, infant male circumcision rates in North America have been steadily dropping since the 70s and that drop is picking up speed -- not slowing down. We’ve entered the information era in which people can be more informed than ever, and they are waking up to the facts.


RIC in the Midwestern US has actually remained static from the statistics i've read. All the couples i've known who're having babies all had their sons circumcised. Not everyone reads medical procedure-related horror story websites on the internet. In real life, no one ever talks about penises that much, so thusly they hear no complaints and see nothing wrong with it.



I’d assume that is because they have no basis for comparison.


But the millions of men who were circumcised later in life do. Why doesn't anyone ever care to ask them? I've spoken to probably dozens of guys who were circumcised in their teens or adult years, and told me all the horror stories about stitches, night-time erections, not being able to fap or have sex for 4-6 weeks, etc. Some even had pictures to show of how bruised and swollen it is the week after surgery.

Still, none of the guys i've spoken to about it said "Since I was circumcised, I no longer feel pleasure or have a sex drive."; They either said that it made no real difference, or that it greatly improved things (if they had phimosis or something before). Also, this wasn't a cultural-bias thing; These guys were from all over the world, in Canada, the UK, Sweden, etc. . .where most men are intact, and being cut is odd and made fun of to an extent.


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Personally, I don’t comment on the ‘loss of feeling’ aspect because it is subjective. Also, I consider it moot. Whether or not it is true or false, it has nothing to do with my points about cosmetic infant circumcision being a violation of basic human rights.


And I agree; I don't think any enormously painful, non-lifesaving surgeries should be performed on a baby.
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

Ah. Clearly I failed to make my point and nobody read between the lines and made the connection I anticipated they would.
No matter.

I've said all I can in here and offered all the opinions on the subject I have. Anything further will simply be unnecessary rehashing of everything.

I don’t think it is practical to effectively remove yourself from the discussion and then expect people to continue debating your veiled points.

RIC in the Midwestern US has actually remained static from the statistics i've read.

Quite true. Even in areas where social views are changing more rapidly, pockets of religious or ethnic traditions remain. I was citing statistics from a more general view of the national averages.

All the couples I've known who're having babies all had their sons circumcised. Not everyone reads medical procedure-related horror story websites on the internet. In real life, no one ever talks about penises that much, so thusly they hear no complaints and see nothing wrong with it.

Personally, I’d be far happier if people would read impartial medical websites and learn what function the foreskin serves. In my experience, when the erroneous perception of it being a useless piece of skin is dispelled, people are less eager to remove it.

But the millions of men who were circumcised later in life do. Why doesn't anyone ever care to ask them?

The context of my statement was to refute the suggestion that men who were circumcised as infants don’t report issues attributed to being circumcised (presumably because no issues exist). I hypothesised that these men may suffer from issues contributed to circumcision, but they’d never know without a basis for comparison.

But your point is completely valid. Perhaps some men who were circumcised later in life are able to more accurately identify issues that they may later suffer from as a result.

However, as I cannot find any studies regarding this, I just assume not dwell on hypothesis.

Still, none of the guys i've spoken to about it said "Since I was circumcised, I no longer feel pleasure or have a sex drive."

I’ve heard men who made the decision to be circumcised report no noticeable difference; I’ve heard others compare it to running a finger along the palm of your hand (intact) and then running a finger along the top of your hand (circ’d).

Maybe it is just different to every person. Which, I’d think, would only bolster my point that the only person who should make the decision is the person who owns the penis.

Also, this wasn't a cultural-bias thing; These guys were from all over the world, in Canada, the UK, Sweden, etc. . .where most men are intact, and being cut is odd and made fun of to an extent.

So they were elective? I have no problem with body modification (which I consider elective/cosmetic circumcision of an adult to be). Tattoos, implants, branding, scarification, whatever rocks your socks. I’m sure many people in these sub-cultures would also affirm that their decisions made them feel happier with their body.

As long as it is their decision, I say ‘more power to ya!’

And I agree; I don't think any enormously painful, non-lifesaving surgeries should be performed on a baby.

And that eloquently stated sentence is really the beginning and end of my point. ;)
 
Re: South Africa and Circumcision

I don’t think it is practical to effectively remove yourself from the discussion and then expect people to continue debating your veiled points.

:confused:

You remain unconvinced - that's your prerogative; I don't begrudge you that at all - and in my 12 posts in here I've said everything I can say from what I know, through experience and what I've read, to my own opinions on the matter. What more do you want me to do, exactly?

I could repeat it all, again and again, but I'm sure we all have better things to do with our time and the next thread beckons.

-d-
 
End Routine Infant Circumcision

Is the United States ever going to culturally end the non-therapeutic act of circumcising infant males, since no medical organization in the world recommends infant circumcision?

If it can't be done on the cultural level, it needs to be done legislatively; meaning, boys should be protected from infant circumcision just as girls are protected.

Take a look at the freightening, but educational, video of an infant being circumcised at

http://www.4eric.org

If after watching the video, you still feel infant males should be circumcised, then you are simply sick.

If you feel that all males should be left intact, like nature intended, then help educate the public!! Say NO to routine infant male circumcision.
 
Re: End Routine Infant Circumcision

It protects against HIV and other diseases, and it looks and feels better. So what's the problem? Also, it's a religious preference in Judaism and Islam. It should be a choice without doubt.
 
Re: End Routine Infant Circumcision

It should be the person's own choice,without a doubt. Parents are not qualified to make the decision, period.
 
Re: End Routine Infant Circumcision

Exactly. Circumcision doesn't protect against HIV or other STD's. Condoms are 99.9% effective. Not whoring around, and just being in a monogous relationship where both partners are HIV neg & steering clear of needle sharing/drug use pretty much guarantees you an HIV free life. Babies aren't having sex, so strapping them down to a board and slicin off healthy tissue from the end of their penis, MAKES NO sense. No medical organization in the world recommends routine infant circumcision. The doctors in the USA aren't doing it for preventative health reasons. They are doing it for the $$$$. I worked in the adult entertainment industry for a while, behind the scenes. Do you know how many CUT performers we had to turn away from a shoot because they had warts, and other STD's on their CUT dicks.

www.4eric.org gives a better explanation on why America needs to get it's head out of it's ass and END this barbaric procedure.
 
Re: End Routine Infant Circumcision

It's cultural and probably based on post WWI faulty studies when comparing Jews to Gentiles in terms of STDs. Subsequent studies and improved daily hygiene has shown no difference. The most famous study was a comparison of Israelis and Indian Farcis, both known to have high hygiene standards.

My ex-wife and my sister were pregnant at the same time. We made a pact not to circumsize in case we had boys. We both had sons and neither is circumsized. The argument sometimes used in the US is that the boys will feel out of place in the lockerroom. Personally, I don't think we should torture baby boys. The docs say it is nothing. I won't watch the video, but I remember reading the description of how it is done and I couldn't consent to that being done.

And then some of these same boys grow up and decided for themselves to pierce, etc. Go figure.
 
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