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Okay, guys and girls. I need some advice.

unloadonme said:
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Take the plunge dear boy.

You'll probably find a freight company which will deliver your belongings to Vancouver for a reasonable price.
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My thoughts exactly. I say do it now before you pick your brain apart and change your mind. You know deep down, this is what you want. Quit wasting time and DO IT! :D
 
All the best.

You can make this work out well.

We're all rooting for you.
 
hey. i have been in a similar situation as you. i lived with my parents in a small shit town where my dad used to be the local police officer, so you can imagine the shit i got for that. i was just recovering from meningitis and decide to leave my job as a butcher. i searched for jobs high and low away from the hell hole i was in. i applied for a sale job and didnt get to start with.
i then received a phone call one sunday night asking me if i wanted that job-problem was i needed to start the next day. i walked down stairs, told my parents i was leaving and starting work the next day. i moved into my grandma's old house and started work. i have been living here for 5 years and still in the same job, loving every minute of it.
YES, IT IS DIFFICULT TO DO AND GET STARTED BUT I SAY DO IT.

YOU ONLY HAVE ONE SHOT IN THIS LIFE, SO GRAB THE CHANCE NOW AND ENJOY LIFE.
GOOD LUCK MATE.
 
Do you really think you should be making such rash decisions when you have a disability?
 
Well it seems that everything is sorted out, plans made and expectations high.

Just remember that though changing your environment is a huge factor in changing your way of life it also requires that you make the effort to change your attitudes and approaches.

As simple as your decision to move may seem it does actually require a great deal of courage to put it into practice. I think I have always said don't expect things to change if you don't make the effort. It certainly seems you are doing that.

I can only wish you all the best in this new endeavour. Take the bad times along with the good and accept them for what they are, the experience of living and hopefully now is the time for a whole lot of good ones.

You should be really proud of yourself.
 
Since you receive disability, do you qualify for public housing or any other sort of subsidized housing? It might help you get off your feet while working and saving enough cash to rent an apt. Deposits can be pretty costly.

I'm surprised that so many JUBBERS are all in. I'm a bit more skeptical. I personally would never quit a job before I had another one waiting for me. BUT, I'm not a big risk taker when it comes to money. Different strokes, eh.

It sounds like you've got everything settled. Good luck! Hopefully it'll be more peaceful.
 
Life can be a struggle in Revelstoke I imagine - living on your own in one of the most beautiful towns on the planet, but still not the most open place, and a small town doesn't guarantee being a happy place to life

So maybe life will be a struggle in Vancouver too. Well, I'm sure it will be! So if you can handle struggling in Revelstoke, it is worth it to struggle in Vancouver instead if that is where you want to be.
 
ravenstar said:
Sometimes Alpha, you just need to jump and trust. That's why we're all so supportive of Sparkles in this. He knowns there will be hard times in the move but he's not letting his fear dictate remaining in the current location. 99% of me wishes I'd had the balls to do it when I was his age.
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You need to jump and thrust? No. You need hit the drugstore to get condoms and lube, loosen the guy up that you're going to fuck, put on a condom, THEN thrust. See, that's where I differ. I set a goal, then plan and prepare BEFORE thrusting. I'd have an apt. to move into, have a way to move my stuff or sell it, have a job lined up, and have enough money to pay for the electrical and water deposits all before I moved. Not b/c I'd be too afraid to move on (I moved out at 17), I just prefer to have everything in place when I have that option. That's just me.

I do love spontaneous people though. They're great fun to be around and since they're willing to take gambles, they often reap larger rewards. They're also better at rolling w/ the punches and adapting to change.

Sparkles has been wanting to move for a while now and it looks like he's all ready to go. I have to admit that moving in w/ The_Pianist is a huge bonus as well. I want to hear him play something and meet the Narny.
 
ravenstar said:
you do realise I said jump and trust don't you. Not thrust. Although I did enjoy your metaphor :badgrin:
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Uh, no I didn't. Let's blame the conversion of "trust" to "thrust" on the dyslexia that I don't have. !oops!

That's good to know though, b/c I was puzzled by "jump and thrust." I guessed it was the Aussie equivalent of carpe diem
 
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