only go for biguys or closet guys

[Hemsworthy]

This is mostly how I feel, with the exception of only looking at women on the street. I, discreetly, check guys out when out-and-about. But sooner or later I don't think I'd want to hide my bisexuality hidden anyone. I've recently told my friend who I treat as a cousin and sister and she....oddly enough was okay... but she's practically hetero-flexible herself so yeah.

Anyways, I know what you mean and how you feel. I just never knew there was a way of expressing it in words like you did. =]

 

[genthree]

Well, I have tricked many married guys, I am gay but a lot of people initially don't believe me - I don't want to be instantly recognised as gay, but it would help at times - anyway I have found that I am "handy to have about" when these guys feel horny or have an hour to spare.
So, given that sex is never on my terms , I don't do it anymore.
The other point is that it is never going to go anywhere.
So, best of luck to you guys, but I am better off avoiding the frustration and guaranteed complications.

 

[BiMike]

For once a Bi Thread that has not been hi-jacked by truely gay guys ! I have always felt this way from my early teens but never see myself having a full relationship with a guy. However a hard cock has always turned me on ! Glad to hear that there are quite a few of us types around on this great site !

 

[Luv2Cuddle89]

I use to feel this way but I started to get depressed and couldn't keep it a secret anymore and came out. Im glad I came out tho because a huge boulder has been lifted from my shoulders and I can finally live my life the way I want to..

 

[dortyaprakliyonca]

i feel the same as well. frott. hard for me to meet anyone tho

 

[undieswearer]

A/S/L

lol

 

[alli-berri]

frottagelvr - I will go ahead and echo the bisexual consensus that you have a very relatable perspective. Love seeing all these responses.

I used to be a closet bi, until I moved. Figured what the hell? I'll try an "out" lifestyle with this new network people. Well, as it happens, the gay sex BEFORE my coming out was WAY HOTTER than the sex I have now as an out bisexual - hands down, no questions asked.

Many of the people I meet nowadays are pretty ignorant, and assume that I'm gay. Whatever - not an argument I care to get into. But knowing that I'm seen as a gay person has made the idea of secret straight sex VERY very hot to me, lol, in the same way that being perceived as "straight" makes gay sex attractive. I just always crave - as Krakenbwool mentioned - "the forbidden fruit".

 

[JustJuice]

Me too, I am attracted to women, want to date them and fall in love with them, but once in a while I need a cock in my mouth. Also, when you're in a relationship with a woman, blow jobs are the first to go, and it's hard to find one who likes deep throating.

 

[HunterM]

Also, when you're in a relationship with a woman, blow jobs are the first to go, and it's hard to find one who likes deep throating.

Ain't that the truth

 

[SuperNatural]

I 100% feel the same way when I'm at College I say i like pussy and some part of me do depening on the person but when I'm at home or in my comfort zone I think about penis and beging f***ked by one, but what makes it more weird is, I won't let guy do more until I feel like it..... Sometimes I wish I was like the other guys

 

[Interested101]

I am a total rookie at this site but the more I read the more I get turned on. I am married and have never been near a guy but I flat out want a cock in my mouth and I want to feel it explode down my throat.
I have to admit that I tried deep throating a 7 inch dildo once and to my absolute surprise could take it right down to its balls. My fantasy has been growing since then. I think I really would like to try that on a real one!

 

[tohelam23]

i think the fantasy part does it for me - i don't get much guy action - i love women but sometimes i just get the urge for a good guy blowjob or to jerk off another guy

 

[Interested101]

Yeah...the fantasy is a huge part of it. I have always thought about acting on it but seem to have ten thousand things pop into my head that could turn out wrong. But, I will admit that if I knew that nothing would come of it other than a flat out great time, I would have a cock in my mouth asap. When I am done...I would go back to my ladies.

 

[EJMichaels]

...The world needs more women like krakenbwool. That's hot that you think two guys boning is hot...

There are a lot of women who like this! Be sure to send us pictures.

Great thread.

And BTW, there's a recent thread posted by a woman whose fiance wants to have a man in bed with them. A lot of people are figuring out ways to be happily bi and still have a committed partnership.

 

[Interested101]

"I accept that and actually quite enjoy the cloak and dagger sexuality that my other sexual half requires."

Yes! I feel the same way...I don't have any agenda other than just having fun with other people, be it male or female. I don't want to fight for my right to act out on my desires...I just want to enjoy the company of another person whether is be a male or female.

I understand the gay lifestyle but that is not something I want. I want to be able to feel the soft touch of a woman but also experience a hard male cock. I get off pleasuring people and feeling a female orgasm around my cock is a great feeling and watching her shutter while she cums is outstanding.

However, I know that I want to see a man's reaction and the look in his eye as he cums in my mouth. Just thinking about all this and that both men and women are just enjoying reading this turns me on!

 

[Ninja108]

My finace/hubby is bisexual. He told me that this criteria was an physical and emotional attraction. If it was a girl he connected with,he would have been with here. If it was a guy, the same thing.
I'm lucky enough to be that guy for almost six years now.

 

[Rex]

To be honest, I don't go for openlys gay guys either. I know I'll get bashed for this but it seems like the majority of effemenite men are the ones who are openly gay. Maybe it's because they embrace their feminine side more when they're out. I don't know, but the majority of the ones who are out are the ones who are effeminite from what I've seen.

I usually hook up with guys who are bi and on the DL.

 

[alli-berri]

Hey I totally understand you and respect that conclusion...and you know you are correct..well certainly bi guys like me. Don't go for me...go for the openly gay guys who can give you what you want and openly so, to live your dream...buy a place, have careers, even children now...be openly gay in the gay world which is respected and acknowledged and generally accepted (yes I know there are acceptions). I don't want your open sexuality, I want the secret side to a guy who values his main life and respects genuinely his desires for a woman in all the ways that she can give, but also desires something he can only get in secret from a guy - and yes...it is physical. Do we feel guilt...sure..does the drive to meet someone we think we trust be curtailed sometimes by the overwhelming realisation of what we could lose....yes absolutely ...but when it works out, when crossing that line happens in total trust and mutual understanding, with both guys totally in tune with the situation then wow...the sex is amazing, a total physical release which satisfies the mind as well as the body in a way that is heightened BECAUSE or our situation. I'm telling you, gay guys used to go through this before homosexuality was legalised. You hid in dark corners....chased the shadows, seeking out someone who gave you the eye and then, believing the coast was clear took the risk and satified totally a need. Well there is a new group...guys like me who HAVE to keep it secret because thats the only way we can have what is inherent in our sexual makeup. And that is...to keep the world that means so much to us, absolutely, unequivocally, our nuclear family that we are proud of and want to sustain. And yet occasionally we want to experience a part of our sexuality that can only be realised and released with a like minded person in a similar situation. There is nothing wrong with that. Its a life choice, and something we have to live with in our secret erotic world. Societies have always dictated sexuality and what is acceptable, based on religion and social values. The latter have always been adapted in one way of another...but for me....there is nothing that can be made legal that allows me to live the sexual live I want to. But that is ok...I accept that and actually quite enjoy the cloak and dagger sexuality that my other sexual half requires.

Hey I'm glad I started this thread, because there is a huge group of people who feel the same way, and sure....just like the gays in decades before, we needed to be heard and needed to be understood, well...we do also.

Also...just to remind people...I started this in the bisexual/ straight thread....so its appropriate isn't it....?