only go for biguys or closet guys

[chace1617]

i totally understand you dude, thank god there is someone who feels exactly the same i feel...

 

[anchihiro]

Hmm well I understand the feeling I was like that for a few years. Eventually though it hurt too much and I had to come out, and I feel much better. I think it depends on what makes each individual happy.

 

[freeguy1]

I feel the same as well. frott. hard for me to meet anyone tho.

 

[CGHJ]

Never heard it put so well before, that's me exactly..well not exactly cuz on the street I look at dudes too, but they why, you hit the nail right on the head

 

[Louis1992]

im a closet bi........ in my darkest fantasies i want a cock, i want to be fucked hardly by a big / bear / muscle guy , always watched gay porn when i was a kid hehehe or straight porn with big dudes.

right now i have a girlfriend ,,i really love her.. and the sex is amazing...

im virgin with guys, had the chance to get fucked by others guys.. i dont know why i always end up scared or afraid and let pass the opportunity
:S

 

[Krakenbwool]

I'm a chick, but yeah, I think this kind of scenario is weirdly hot in a "forbidden fantasy" kind of way.

 

[Louis1992]

I'm a chick, but yeah, I think this kind of scenario is weirdly hot in a "forbidden fantasy" kind of way.

how so?

 

[Krakenbwool]

how so?

I'll be honest--it's hot because it "goes against nature" a bit. Not that I don't think openly gay/bi men are great, but the idea of otherwise "straight" guys having the mindset to purposefully defy their biological expectations and want to explore themselves sexually is exciting. In the same way that straight men fantasize about cheerleaders experimenting in the locker room, I like the thought of the football players doing the same.

It's pretty objectifying I know, but I can't really help how I think. *shrugs*

 

[PrettyWings]

Wow. Totally Brokeback Mountain-ish [Jack & Ennis]. I completely understand how you feel though.

 

[HunterM]

My fuck buddy is in an open relationship with his girlfriend. She knows about us. When we get to play, the sex seems hotter with him (in my mind anyway). I can relate to the pent up passion that gets released. It's very satisfying.

 

[bangthisbi]

Giving the other side up is exactly right. I was married for many years and wouldn't have cheated on my wife with a man or woman. I had to tuck my feelings for men away in a safe place for possible future use. I'm divorced now and the feelings have been taken out of storage and are up and running again. A few people know how I feel so I'm not totally closeted. I do want to be very discreet with what I do because of my kids.
It's too bad that society looks down on people that aren't "normal". It would be nice to tell people that I want to have sex with dudes and not have to worry about anything. Until that day, I'll my lust for men on the down low.

The world needs more women like krakenbwool. That's hot that you think two guys boning is hot. I would have played football if the cheerleaders and players all did each other in the locker room. HOT!!!

 

[Rocky2500]

Thats me too, no harm in it really. As long as their clean you can do whatever secretly. I just say I'm working longer sometimes lol and sneak off to see a guy.

 

[Louis1992]

I'll be honest--it's hot because it "goes against nature" a bit. Not that I don't think openly gay/bi men are great, but the idea of otherwise "straight" guys having the mindset to purposefully defy their biological expectations and want to explore themselves sexually is exciting. In the same way that straight men fantasize about cheerleaders experimenting in the locker room, I like the thought of the football players doing the same.

It's pretty objectifying I know, but I can't really help how I think. *shrugs*

oh....
i dont really care about openly gays.. in fact its the love who matters, but i dont like when mens become so girly ... and they look like hoes :S

 

[freeguy1]

wow what a great thread. been checking this place out for a awhile now. good to know i'm not alone in my thoughts. we should start a revolution.

 

[SeanAustin]

This is how I felt most of my life.

 

[BradBret]

Guys, this thread is fantastic. I thought I was the only guy on earth married (and happy to be) who craved COCK on a daily basis.

 

[Bi Married Male]

Wow!....Frottagelvr...Just wow!...You hit the nail right on the head for me too.
I have been living that exact same way for easily 20 years...

I am very in love with my wife, my lifestyle, my straight world...but then once in a while I have to secretly do the same thing...ashamed and guilty for a little while afterwards, but then back to the safety of my straight life. I wouldn't give it up for anything and I also feel that if I would loose everything in my straight world then I would give up the other side in a minute. I also seek out only guys who are married or very 90% straight...and like you said he is experiencing the same feelings...we shouldn't be doing this, but fuck it feels great...so naughty and yet very satisfying somehow, but then back to our safe and secure straight world. You really said it well when you said it is a way of life...Thanks for posting this important thread.

I use this board to be another person who secretly lives inside me..And secretly will stay there too...sad as that might seem to other people. It is
right for me.

 

[sirdre]

It makes sense, but why not just be in a
DL relationship with a guy and feel that pleasure for a while

 

[biguy732]

many of us are in the same boat - sometimes you just have the urge to be with another guy for a short time and then back to your "regular" life.

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

agreed...nothing like a hot night with a closeted, experimenting guy...

glad my wife understands and accepts my bi urges....it makes for a fantastic relationship and marriage....