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Outed by a classmate

Perhaps it occurred to him belatedly that by admitting to having seen you at the party you could draw the obvious conclusion about him.

By picking a fight with you, he may be hoping to discredit anything you could say about him because the others in your class would think you're just saying it to get back at him.

Whatever, his reaction is very immature; I hope you can just laugh him off.

So do you really think it is possible? Because it would be a very good explanation and i would "make sense" (as long as it can really make sense to behave as he did...).
 
Maybe he doesn't want to be treated differently by the people.

Exactly. I hear homophobic comments in the class. Xenophobic comments. You all know it is not pleasurable to hearing that. And I don't wanna be "the gay one". It is also true that there are people in the class who are mature enough to not care or treat me differently. I am just who I am and that's all. But the bad thing is having to spend the atelier time with such kids. Hopefully in 2 weeks' time school will be off for exams and then summertime and something will be different in September.
 
Not wanting to be treated differently is not a valid excuse. That's cowardice. Do you think any of us want to be treated differently? That didn't stop us. And no, you're not just "who you are and that's all" because you're forfeiting a part of yourself, sacrificing it. Man up.
 
Sorry if I tried to avoid such problems as i have lots of other problems with family friends (see the other post) and so on. Sorry if I tought life could be easier not telling everyone everything of me. SOrry if an homophobic asshole comes to a gay party and then shows hate for gay people and I happen to be the one in the centre of attention. And sorry if I have ignorant, homophobic and xenophobic classmates who thinks mispelling the name of god is cool (I am agnostic but it bothers me anyway: no respect!)
 
Okay, so you're not only a closet case, but you also apparently have something against people who don't "respect" 'god', despite your own agnosticism?

Very weird.
 
Okay, so you're not only a closet case, but you also apparently have something against people who don't "respect" 'god', despite your own agnosticism?

Very weird.

Maybe you should read behind the lines. Or I was not being clear.
I didn't mean that I am against people who do not respect god. I don't mind aboud god. The problem is that mispellins god' name you have no respect of the ones who believe in him. Got it?

You shouldn't do so just because some people may be offended by it... and trying to behave respectfully is a sign of maturty.
 
PS: today i crossed "mr. Spotter" and it was weird because he had gave me a big big smile... WEIRD! so i asked "are you still upset with me or what?" but he didn't answer.... uhm...
 
I'm having a hard time figuring out what his agenda is. Did he ever admit to being at the party?
 
Maybe you should read behind the lines. Or I was not being clear.
I didn't mean that I am against people who do not respect god. I don't mind aboud god. The problem is that mispellins god' name you have no respect of the ones who believe in him. Got it?

You shouldn't do so just because some people may be offended by it... and trying to behave respectfully is a sign of maturty.

I think it's disrespectful of you to expect people who don't believe in the same religion/spirituality as you to have to follow some stupid rule so that you feel okay about your own beliefs. What are you even talking about? Spelling 'god's name wrong? What god? J-sus? Did that offend you? ](*,)
 
Okay, so you're not only a closet case, but you also apparently have something against people who don't "respect" 'god', despite your own agnosticism?

Very weird.

A person being agnostic doesn't mean that he would have to approve the disrespecful acts of others towards god. Not to mention that mispelling the name of god for "fun", can be very offensive to the believers. Being in the closet has nothing to do with this what so ever.
 
I think it's disrespectful of you to expect people who don't believe in the same religion/spirituality as you to have to follow some stupid rule so that you feel okay about your own beliefs. What are you even talking about? Spelling 'god's name wrong? What god? J-sus? Did that offend you? ](*,)

Saymyname, I think you've misunderstood what shystud was saying. No one is expecting you to follow the rules of the religion whom you do not belief in. However, the act of mocking others religion in any way shows that you are disrespectful and immature, regardless of what religion it is. That's the same as discrimating against other races, gender, age and sexuality.
 
Saymyname, I think you've misunderstood what shystud was saying. No one is expecting you to follow the rules of the religion whom you do not belief in. However, the act of mocking others religion in any way shows that you are disrespectful and immature, regardless of what religion it is. That's the same as discrimating against other races, gender, age and sexuality.

If a religious person expects me to "respect" their insane beliefs, and they get offended if I don't spell the name of their 'god' correctly (as he has done a good job of not explaining what he means by that), I think they're pushing their religion on me.
 
Oh for heaven's sakes.

All of you.

Get over the spelling thing.

It has nothing to do with this thread except to illustrate the state of mind of the OP. For some reason, even he decided to hi-jack his own thread.

so i asked "are you still upset with me or what?" but he didn't answer.... uhm...

It is like a scab you just keep picking away at. Just leave it alone and chill out.
 
PS: today i crossed "mr. Spotter" and it was weird because he had gave me a big big smile... WEIRD! so i asked "are you still upset with me or what?" but he didn't answer.... uhm...

He just wanted to see your reaction perhaps. Don't think its anything serious at all.
 
Saymyname, I think you've misunderstood what shystud was saying. No one is expecting you to follow the rules of the religion whom you do not belief in. However, the act of mocking others religion in any way shows that you are disrespectful and immature, regardless of what religion it is. That's the same as discrimating against other races, gender, age and sexuality.

This is exaclty what I wanted to say. And by "mispelling" I didn't mean "say the wrong name" but "mocking" as 1088 has just said ;)
 
This is exaclty what I wanted to say. And by "mispelling" I didn't mean "say the wrong name" but "mocking" as 1088 has just said

Jesus wept. Can you just let it go? It has nothing at all to do with the original thread topic.
 
PS: today i crossed "mr. Spotter" and it was weird because he had gave me a big big smile... WEIRD! so i asked "are you still upset with me or what?" but he didn't answer.... uhm...
You could have also just smiled back and said hi...
 
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