Overweight gay guys might as well be dead

[undisclosed1234]

So climb down off the goddamn soapbox

Aren't we territorial today?

 

[Blatino]

Although i am REALLY tempted to call you an idiot now, i'll just suggest that you re-read my post and figure out, I NEVER CALLED YOU AN IDIOT THE FIRST PLACE.

You seem to have gotten something "twisted" - not me. So climb down off the goddamn soapbox and try again - i didn't once attack you.

hmmm...

...why do they give us a bad name?

I will never get the logic of a few idiots with no power at all seemingly speaking for everyone in a group.

Regardless of whether or not you mean't to call me an idot, you referred to me as one. Ignorance is no excuse.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Regardless of whether or not you mean't to call me an idot, you referred to me as one.

No, he referred to the two anti-fat guys in the OP as "a few idiots". THEY were the ones who you suggested were "speaking for everyone in a group", not you.

Lex

 

[Beachguyj]

Those guys are assholes. I glad you told them to get lost. They are very immature. One thing is not finding them attractive, but it's another thing to imply that they don't belong on the beach. I'm sure they don't like most black, older, or unattractive people on the beach either.

I grew up a fat kid. At around 18 I lost the weight and was slim or slimmer for about 15 years, eventually the fat came back. I'm like a husky bear, not morbidly obese. If you don't like my fat, mind your own business.

I would rather be friends with a nice fat person than a skinny guy with a rotten personality.

 

[boxerdudeuk]

I agree with your beach friends. Fat People absolutely disgust me! And I loathe Gay Fats even more! I don't know why I feel this way - I just do..

are you black? cause black guys absolutely disgust me! and i loathe gay black men even more! i don't know why i feel this way - i just do. GROSS!

 

[RationalLunacy]

Losing weight and getting a perfectly sculpted body isn't going to change the fact that I am homely and have a small dick, so why bother?

 

[Blatino]

>>>Regardless of whether or not you mean't to call me an idot, you referred to me as one.

No, he referred to the two anti-fat guys in the OP as "a few idiots". THEY were the ones who you suggested were "speaking for everyone in a group", not you.

Lex

Ok, Im not proud enough to admit I was wrong.

Thanks for pointing that out Lex and Matter of Splatter, I apologize.


It just sucks that there are guys like that who judge others so quickly......

 

[sabot3ur]

at least your self esteem isn't as fragile and connected to your physical appearance as them.

you should've told them a six pack won't matter when they have a mouthful of broken teeth.

 

[RationalLunacy]

you should've told them a six pack won't matter when they have a mouthful of broken teeth.

........

 

[Beachguyj]

I agree with your beach friends. Fat People absolutely disgust me! And I loathe Gay Fats even more! I don't know why I feel this way - I just do..

You need to keep certain thoughts in your head so that people don't realize that you are an asshole.

 

[gdude30]

Oh god.

When the hell does it end.

I can't believe they really said that to you. First of all there is nothing wrong with having a little belly or being a little overweight or even being fat. And with bears and chubs in the community it is obvious that people like bigger people. There are chasers that look for the bears, daddies or chubs. And than visa versa.

But still there are some people who go "Oh my god I hope I never get to be as big as that guy." And yes my dad did say that at a restaurant once. Just out of the blue. The guy wasn't even that big. Some people have a bigger body frame anyways. But that doesn't always make them fat.

And once when watching the travel channel special with the top water parks a friend of mine saw a big furry guy on tv shirtless and she went "Eww look at that big furry guy." I was thinking "Oh hell look at that sexy furry bear."

Just because you don't like big guys or hairy guys doesn't mean you need to say "Oh they are obviously gonna die." With the way some people live their lives they are going to die much sooner. And anyways. You can could get hit by a bus and than the fat guy would out live you. There is no telling when you are going to die anyways. No one knows that.

I actually tend to think that sometimes people who look a little different or who are outcasted by society in some way or social settings to be a little bit nicer. Someone who looks really good (or who looks good viewed by others) who has completely smooth skin, tan, flat chest, 6 pack abs, and so on might be a compelte jerk because sometimes people who have a great appearance get an ego and believe they are better than others and that they can look down on others and put others down. It doesn't happen all the time. But sometimes it happens.

But yeah anyways. I think big and furry guys are awesome. And they shouldn't be dead

 

[rogeruk]

omg look at this guy

fat gay man ewwwwwwwwwwww

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=12012308300#/group.php?gid=10566019772

 

[G-Lexington]

His problem isn't being fat. It's scrawling "THUG LIFE" across his belly with a Sharpie. Never knew thug life involved County Buffet.

Lex

 

[Beachguyj]

Fat guys are considered the n-words of the gay world. Fem guys are more valued.

 

[jim1959]

I agree with your beach friends. Fat People absolutely disgust me! And I loathe Gay Fats even more! I don't know why I feel this way - I just do..

It is better to apear stupid than to speak and remove all doubt.....

 

[AngelFromAbove]

...why do they give us a bad name?

I will never get the logic of a few idiots with no power at all seemingly speaking for everyone in a group.

Because people stereotype. Stereotypes are often developed from those few idiots to whom you refer. Those people are the most obvious ones of the group, which is why the group ends up being categorized in a particular manner.

 

[gdude30]

You just made my day!

too cute!

And of course a fat man would be driving the bus ;O

 

[alley]

Just got home from the (Gay) beach. I loved swimming in the ocean and sitting on the beach and enjoyed the sun on my skin.

A couple I used to know from the gym walked past a few times - until they came to me and say hi. "We were not sure it was you"? Are you not going to the gym any more (I do! .... but do not live there 20 hours every week - more like 6) and of course it shows! Are you eating enough protein one of them asked with this worried look? I looked at my flat stomach - my six pack showing, in spite the fact I had gotten a little softer (Bodyfat percentage 11). I asked why? They told me I looked different and had gained a little fat - thats all. The guy asked why I did not wax my chest to get rid of those few chest hair it looked unsightly in his opinion.
Well they had to go - one gave me a hug and said it was good to see that I was not totally dead like the fatties over there. I looked at the men they referred to rolling their eyes - average nice guys and men - some with a little potbelly, but nice and wellgroomed. "What do you mean"? I asked - and one of the guys said "You know Overweight gay guys might as well be dead" - I don´t know why they even bother coming here"!!! Annoyed I told him to get lost. When I walked to my bike I wondered when I would be considered a goner ... I better start running longer, before I read my own obituary in the eyes of some gay men.

So--you guys actually believe this story?

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>There is a natural aesthetic that most gay men ascribe to, and FAT is NOT it!

I'm totally aware of, and at peace with, the fact that gay guys prefer to ogle skinny guys more than gay guys. That doesn't mean that gay guys should stay at home and leave the beach to the beautiful people.

Lex

 

[alley]

Have you read all the responses?

If the posts of NeoSlacker are any indication, the OP's story is believable, indeed.

Nope--I read enough of his posts to know another troll when I see them.