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Pictures in underwear drawer...

Don't feel bad you did what any horny guy would. If it was me though I would have went a step further and scanned the pics onto my computer and saved them in "special folder" lol.
 
you are invading his privacy and that is beneath your integrity levels...ok, it was a one time slip up, now regain your dignity. jmho


btw, hope you enjoyed your sabbatical. you were missed by a lot of us so

WELCOME HOME


michael
 
Given the same circumstances, would I do the same thing? Absolutely! *|*

Knowing where those pics are, would I do it again? Absolutely! (!)

Would I feel "dirty" about it? Absolutely! But, that's at least half the "Fun", isn't it? :badgrin:

Would I want to get caught? Absolutely Not! [-X

In short(s), Yes!, You are a Normal, Young, hormone-charged Guy! Very much the All American, red-blooded, Male! What puts You above the "norm" is your heart felt concern, and care, for your friends! From what I've gotten to know about You (before), Your Integrity, Honesty, and Compassion are without question! (group)

So ... You're having a little "naughty fun", and why shouldn't you? I know you're not about to mess up your friendship! ..|

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;-)

(Damn It! I Hate running out of Smilies! *tantrum*)
 
So how many days do you think you will you wait before you go back into his drawers and dig around in his stuff again?
 
a so disagree with kyanimal here. the fact that even my best friend would root around in my private stuff is cause for a serious re assessment of our relationship.

the underwear should have been placed on the bed or on TOP of the dresser. no excuse for opening drawers and prowling through same. that would affront my sense of privacy and security. obviously his roomie/friend felt those photos were personal or he would have put them out for display. rude, totally FUCKING rude.

yes? no? am i just a prude? "splain to me different and i'm kinda stupid so paint the picture clearly.:confused:
 
Oh ... here we go again ... #-o

1. Sb83 was not snooping around in his roomy's drawers. He was doing his friend a favor by putting away the undies that got mixed in with his. I wish some of the roomies that I've had would have been as considerate.

2. They've been good friends for so long that gettin' into each other's stuff, now and again, is no big deal, as was stated. Have you never had friends that were that comfortable with you, and you with them?

3. Sb83 had no idea the pictures were there, and was not looking for them. He innocently ran across them. He was not purposefully snooping.

4. If YOU accidently ran across something like that, would YOU not look, too? How could YOU possibly not??

5. Sb83 was very discreet after finding what he did. It's not like he stuck them on the fridge, or tossed them back into his friend's face, or scanned them and posted them here.

6. I still like you guys even when we disagree.

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Okay, here's a thought--now that everyone's weighed in, how about leaving this horse alive rather than beating it beyond its eventual death?
 
Killjoke said:
Okay, here's a thought--now that everyone's weighed in, how about leaving this horse alive rather than beating it beyond its eventual death?
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Point taken! ..|

I certainly do not want to see Sb83 scampering off again any time soon! Nor do I wish the passion, that he manages to engender in the rest of us, blowing out of proportion and creating another big "dust up" like before! [-X

However, I think it's pretty amazing that "We" can care so much about Him, and what he generously shares with "Us", that "We" are the ones creating all of the Drama in spite of him! I know that I would defend Him, though he's quite capable of doing that himself, even if he shot my dead grandma! (group)

Just_Believe18 said:
Exactly. He might take new pictures, after all.
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Ha! Nicely put! :-<

And, yeah!, I know what you're really saying. And, regarding my own devilish thoughts ... :slap:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
..alot of guys with..I guess :D..& since his ur friend & all..I guess there's naturally..that after phase of feeling guilty..it didn't effect anything in a bad way...I wudn't worry :)...
 
>>>Exactly. He might take new pictures, after all.

In short, do keep us updated.

Lex
 
Well, I was going to take the high road and not drag this thread out like I made the mistake of doing in the past, but obviously I suck at taking the high road. I do have to agree that I would feel violated if the tables were turned, as Lefty had stated, but in my defense, I'm only human. Is that a good defense? No? Okay, well, I got my punishment anyway. And it didn't take long at all. Apparently Evan (the roommate this is all revolving around) had been missing the pair of underwear for a while and noticed that they had somehow mysteriously reappeared, laundered and folded neatly in his dresser. He mentioned it to Brandon and myself this evening while we were sitting in the living room. I had to confess that I put them there, but didn't know how they got mixed in with mine. He had a really worried look on his face, I'm sure because he knew I must have seen the pictures, and asked me if I'd been sniffing his undies!!! I swore to him I didn't, but I don't know if he believed me. We've been best friends forever and, honestly, been through worse than this, so I'm not worried about our friendship, but it has been an awkward evening. He hasn't brought it up again, but I'd bet everything I own that the pictures are gone forever now, along with what was left of my dignity.
 
Just act as if he had accepted your explanation. Go on as if nothing happened. If you can act like nothing's changed, he hopefully will drop the paranoid act, at which point things can move forward.

Lex
 
Welcome back! I think you feel a bit guilty and that's OK. Just move forward and act as if it never happened. I'm sure everything will be fine.
 
thank you superboy for seeing my point of view...the reason i would have put them on the bed or top of the dresser is because i know i wouldn't have been able to resist looking at those pictures or any other odd item in the other persons private space...no problem, i'm still glad you're back and have a high personal regard for you...so we can still be friends and even let ky in the circle too lol
 
Did you not think that putting something in someone's drawer that was once missing would alert him to you going in his drawer? Especially since the pictures were right there?
 
^ Nope. Apparently not.

Just wait until the OP tells him that he jerked off to them.
 
Your roomie hopefully learned that personal pics, videos and other such things should be better hidden.

Everyone learned something. Move on now.
 
Couple of things:

1) Welcome back - love it that you returned - you have such interesting "things" happen in your life.

2) I totally would have done the same thing, but also as noted above, I would scan them for my own personal use later.

3) I would have sniffed his undies too!

So not sure how "normal" that is, but most of the guys on here would have pretty much done the same thing and to those who don't - no risk, no reward.

Follow Lex on this - just ignore it and move on.

P.S. Do check to see if they are gone tho....and let us know!
 
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