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Pictures in underwear drawer...

Well, everything is fine as far as he and I stand. We went to Henry Hudsons (a bar/pool hall) last night and had a blast without any mention of the issue. Like I said, we've been best friends for most of our lives and been through worse, so I wasn't too worried. I've seen him when he's really freaked out or pissed and he wasn't either one of those. I have yet to look to see if the pictures are gone and I'm not sure that I want to. I disrespected his privacy once and I don't know that would want to push it any further. I would probably completely lose his trust, then.
 
Good choice, Sb83! It's been established that his drawers, the pull-out kind, are now "off limits". Who would've thought he'd notice those missing undies, anyway? Apparently "Kharma" does exist. It's those little unexpected things that can get us into "trouble", after all! #-o

"Knowing" YOU, I'm sure the subject of those pics shall never be brought up. And, whether, or not, they are now "gone", or if there might be "more", is now a mute point. I know that YOU will not be seeking the answers to those possibilities, and that says Volumes for YOU!! ..|

Seems this "episode" is over, and done. And, THAT is a "Good Thing"!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
Remote Control said:
Hold On Stop. There is something wrong with this story. How did you end up with his underwear
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Uh ... they got mixed up in the laundry. Sb83 found them mixed in with his. All he tried to do was put them back in his roomy's drawer, where they belonged, like any Considerate roomy might do, and then all of "this" happened! :eek: #-o :slap:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Did anyone think that he might have PUT THEM in your underwear drawer so you'd go back and find the pictures? That was the first thing I thought of, even if you say he isn't gay/bisexual.

I've only skimmed the posts above, but does he know you're bi? Even if he doesn't, it would turn me on to think that someone else may find my naked pictures, provided I have a good body and my girlfriend is good looking. Am I the only one who finds it a turn on?

DP.
 
Like any good straight friend who still has a slightly homophobic reaction when his buddy's gayness might get too close, I love that he didn't ask if you saw pictures of him screwing his girl.

No, he was worried that you were sniffing his underwear.


:rotflmao:
 
I honestly, seriously, don't know how they got mixed in with mine. It could have been in the bathroom or the laundry room or anything. But I can tell he believes me. He's a very straight-forward kind of guy and if an issue is up in the air, he wants it resolved and doesn't drag things out or hold grudges. That's a big reason why we've always gotten along.

And, yes, he does know that I'm gay and he's very supportive, more supportive than most of my other friends. He's tried to set me up on dates before and even gave me tips on how to try to get laid on the first date.

And just out of curiosity, I HAD to go look and see if the pictures were still there. I couldn't help it. And they still are. I doubt it has any underlying meaning. He's cool, but he's extremely comfortable in his sexuality and KNOWS he's straight. And before anyone says it, I know I went back on my morals. I'm horrible and I'm immoral and going to hell and I violated the trust of my best friend AGAIN. I know. But all I did was peek inside to see if they were there. I didn't move anything, take anything, or touch anything. And I never will again. So there. Done.
 
What's this "going back on your morals" B.S.? So ... your Human Curiosity got the better of you, and you checked to see if the pics were still there. If anything, from my (some will undoubtedly say "warped") point of view, you were simply checking to see if Evan might have been feeling "uncomfortable", even though he didn't say anything, about you're "maybe" having seen them. I would call that Considerate motivation. Lookin' out for your bud! (At least you didn't take them out, again, and ... well ... you know!) And, since they are still there, he's confident that the two of you don't have a "deeper" problem. That's "kewl"!! ..|

Now you know to leave it all alone! And, THAT is a "Good Thing"!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
He knows you've been in his underwear drawer and he knows the pictures were there and he still hasn't move the pictures. He doesn't care in the least that they're there for anyone to happen upon (or at least for you). If he did, he would put them in a safer place.

You should joke around him and be like, so how many pictures of girls you slept with do you have? And then further the questions with, what about video?
 
Some of us are just waiting for the next chapter in the tale where the OP will 'discover' more pics of his roomie in the drawer, only this time they will have a homoerotic aspect to them.
 
how about you scan them and share em here lol just kidding ,would it be nice ..lol
 
Kyanimal said:
What's this "going back on your morals" B.S.? So ... your Human Curiosity got the better of you, and you checked to see if the pics were still there. If anything, from my (some will undoubtedly say "warped") point of view, you were simply checking to see if Evan might have been feeling "uncomfortable", even though he didn't say anything, about you're "maybe" having seen them. I would call that Considerate motivation. Lookin' out for your bud! (At least you didn't take them out, again, and ... well ... you know!) And, since they are still there, he's confident that the two of you don't have a "deeper" problem. That's "kewl"!! ..|

Now you know to leave it all alone! And, THAT is a "Good Thing"!! (group)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
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Respectfully, Chaz, I don't think it's a good idea to enable someone and excuse his behaviors when he feels he's done something wrong, especially when he has. SB knows he shouldn't be going in there any more, and he is now suffering a guilty conscience. That's a GOOD thing--perhaps it will help him stay stronger next time.

Beautiful, sweet people don't stay that way if they get a pass from the people around them when they behave badly. You just keep on feeling bad, SB, if that's what you need to not do it again.
 
It doesn't seem like this needs any further discussion...

You and your friend seem to have a healthy friendship and since you said he's straightforward but hasn't mentioned it, it's time to put the issue to rest.

Whether or not you violated any trust is debatable, but you found the pics accidentally with no other intent but to return his boxers. So you found sexy pictures of someone you find attractive and beat off to them, big fuckin deal I think that'd be a tough temptation for anyone to resist. I have no doubt you won't do it again so case closed?
 
If this is the worst thing you do in life, then consider yourself lucky. So many more "temptations" with be forthcoming!
 
Killjoke said:
Respectfully, Chaz, I don't think it's a good idea to enable someone and excuse his behaviors when he feels he's done something wrong, especially when he has. SB knows he shouldn't be going in there any more, and he is now suffering a guilty conscience. That's a GOOD thing--perhaps it will help him stay stronger next time.

Beautiful, sweet people don't stay that way if they get a pass from the people around them when they behave badly. You just keep on feeling bad, SB, if that's what you need to not do it again.
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Enabling? Excusing? :confused:

Kyanimal said:
Now you know to leave it all alone! And, THAT is a "Good Thing"!! (group)
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Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Not creepy. I think you're normal. Just my opinion. It was a harmless act guys!
 
Caaake said:
Not creepy. I think you're normal. Just my opinion. It was a harmless act guys!
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Are you sure you would feel that way if you found out someone was in your underwear drawer when you weren't home... looking at your intimate pictures?
 
well I would say it's all accident. Neither of them intend to do it from the beginning
 
Accidentally stumbling upon them is one thing... Masturbating to them is another. Not awful but nonetheless a true invasion of privacy. If it stops there, then alright, it's not too bad. If you keep doing it, that's just plain fucked up. I would feel violated as hell.
 
This whole thing is so not a big deal. I'm sorry SB that you feel guilty but you need to just move on at this point, like others have said. You seem to have a great relationship with your straight friend that you just happen to be attracted to. You stumble upon these photos and bang, jacking material. How could you not? No one was hurt, he doesn't even know so let it go. DON'T GO BACK TO THE DRAWER!
 
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