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^ So the notion of morally or legally inappropriate or conflicting associations doesn't come up in your scheme of things?
If consenting adults choose to associate, that is morally appropriate.
The conflicting associations question is interesting, though.
Would, for example, a father be permitted to register a union with his adult and consenting daughter?
If they wanted to put up with the public ridicule, derision, and abuse, why not? Their lives don't belong to us, or to the government, but to themselves.
Would you be able to register multiple unions at the same time? What happens, if the property rights in one union conflict with another or if different participants in the union, or unions, claim child custody? Simply awarding custody to the biological parents isn't always possible or appropriate.
Domestic unions, from captive husbands of Amazons to the companions of the Sacred Band of Thebes, have tended to be exclusive, at least to the point of barring 'membership' in more than one union. Since that whole collection of unions is what we're seeking to emulate, then exclusivity is a reasonable legal requirement.
There is an interesting 'marriage' form I read of once, though, that could permit it. Called "chain marriage", it doesn't follow the associative law as do other forms of group marriage. Consider a group marriage between A, B, C, and D; in one mode, any two members picked out would be married to each other; thus AmB, AmC, AmD, BmC, BmD, and CmD. In a chain marriage, however, only those specifically linked by marriage are married, so while AmB and BmC and CmD may be true, AmC and AmD may not be true (and so on). For that matter, person E can be involved, such that AmB and BmC, but also BmE....
I doubt that's ever been used, but it occurred to me as a way to be semi-exclusive. One would have to declare ahead of time his intent to engage in chain marriage, though.
I'm not terribly convinced it would work, either, unless you had a group of people who were really close, but only felt 'romantically' attracted to some members of the group but not all. It would certainly require the rule that makes any multiple marriage work, if all live in proximity: anyone already involved may veto the addition of new "links".
Lack of international recognition is hardly a step forward for freedom. More a recipe for uncertainty and large legal invoices.
It took a long time for freedom of speech and of the press to be recognized internationally, but it got there. If other nations aren't ready to move forward on freedom, that doesn't mean others should hold back.


















