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Public Gayness Experiences

Well, I was only calm because everything transpired in a positive manner. Had the waiter come over and asked us to leave, or move to a private booth, or anything... I would have hollered and ranted, and raved. Of course in doing that I would like like the crazy person scaring the poor children. So I am very glad things turned out well.
 
I'm probably gonna get a lot of flack for this, but I don't really want to see anyone doing any form of affection in public. I dont want to see str8s or gay guys kissing or holding hands, with arms around one another, nothing. There is a time and place for everything, in public is not the place.
 
i guess i came to that after seeing all the str8s walking hand in hand, arm in arm, smooching all over the place and realizing that I would be harassed for the doing the same. My partner and I do very discreet things in public when we want to be affectionate. We touch in ways that are discreet, we would not sit in a restaurant holding hands, or sit next to one another. I just don't think it's necessary.
 
I have received verbal abuse in public, only minor though, not really sure ow they new I was gay TBH, I have however been ran over deliberately for being gay, makes me sick to think that someone wanted to kill me on the basis of the way I was born, society is so dumb.
 
^Agreed. If you have someone, you should be proud. You should never have to hide. You should not have to be discreet. Be happy and celebrate yourself baby!
 
I met a friend at a restaurant (he's more or less straight), and when I got there, we hugged and kissed, and nobody said a thing.

I don't care for excessive PDAs, but as long as you're not groping each other or playing tonsil hockey, a small tender gesture can be kind of sweet.

I've never been harassed for holding hands with a guy in public, but I tend to be cautious in unfamiliar areas.

Wow, that was a disjointed post.
 
tombastep said:
I would consider this being in the closet.
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Oh please, I'm in the closet because I don't find it necessary to hold hand with my partner in a restaurant? I don't appreciate seeing any form of public affection, I don't want to have people going to a restaurant manager because they are uncomfortable with my behavior. If that makes me a c closet case, I guess I am.....
 
^ If straights can do tit-grabbing and under skirt vayjay fingering in public, I can't see why we can't be sexual in public.
 
^ I don't see much of that round here either. Maybe Amsterdam really is different... ;)
 
I've kissed, I've hold hands and I've huged another guy here in Granada, not really a big city, and I've never had a problem.
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
^ If straights can do tit-grabbing and under skirt vayjay fingering in public, I can't see why we can't be sexual in public.
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i guess then I should do it, I mean if everyone is doing it, I should too. What will I do when everyone jumps off a bridge?
 
FPNY said:
Oh please, I'm in the closet because I don't find it necessary to hold hand with my partner in a restaurant? I don't appreciate seeing any form of public affection, I don't want to have people going to a restaurant manager because they are uncomfortable with my behavior. If that makes me a c closet case, I guess I am.....
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It must be a cold sterile world you live in... Or is the 50's?


I am no fan of seeing people dry hump in public, but there is nothing obscene about holding another persons hand, regardless of whether it's in a park, restaurant, or your living room.
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
^ If straights can do tit-grabbing and under skirt vayjay fingering in public, I can't see why we can't be sexual in public.
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That type of stuff is a bit much from anyone. It has nothing to do with gay or straight. But there is nothing wrong with two guys kissing or holding hands in public. As long as you aren't up on the table banging him, I don't see why it should make anyone else uncomfortable. And if it does..... that sucks for them
 
^ Your country has the same population as mine, but spread over an entire continent instead of a just tiny country.

healingduck said:
That type of stuff is a bit much from anyone. It has nothing to do with gay or straight. But there is nothing wrong with two guys kissing or holding hands in public. As long as you aren't up on the table banging him, I don't see why it should make anyone else uncomfortable. And if it does..... that sucks for them
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Grease, which celebrates teenage underage sexuality, was a bit rich for me too.



Why should only hets be allowed to be sluts in public?
 
FPNY - you're not alone. I don't think I'm as extreme as you but I find a lot of straight PDA offensive and what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
 
I've never liked PDAs. Not from gay couples, straight couples, anything. Maybe that makes me a prude or something, but that's just the way I am. My partner is the same way, so luckily, we don't have any friction in that regard.

But nobody's ever given me grief about being gay. Some guy called me a "faggot" once at a gas station in the middle of nowhere, but that's about it. Just last week, I went to this large event full of pro athletes - Nuggets (basketball), Avalanche (hockey), Rapids (soccer), and Mammoth (lacrosse). And I chatted with some of them, and even when I made some comment that made it clear I was gay, I never got any grief about it. No, I didn't say "I'd love to ogle you guys in the locker room" or anything - just standard stuff about my partner or whatnot. One guy seemed to be a bit uncomfortable with it, but I just sort of talked to everybody else. Until he saw nobody else had any trouble talking to Lex, so why couldn't he? He was laughing along with the rest of them by the end of the night.

Lex
 
Hand holding, fine. A quick peck as a greeting or to say goodbye, that's alright too. Anything more than that is unnecessary, and it would make me a little uncomfortable to see ANYONE making out 5 feet away from me. I mean I probably wouldn't report them or anything, but it would bother me a little bit. I guess I'm just not big on PDA.

Of course, what makes me personally uncomfortable and what I think should be allowed are completely different things. Feel free to make out wherever you damn well please; I may think it's gross, but I'll definitely defend your right to do it.

I've never really had an opportunity to express affection in public. I've only really dated one guy (in any serious way) and that only lasted about a month and a bit, and neither of is were into PDA... and I'm not obviously gay, so I've never experienced anything in the way of negative remarks about my sexuality, ever.
 
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