Question for Bottoms

[PipRosi]

I met a potential guy - friend, but he said he wanted to fuck and I said I am not doing that so he has moved on as a result

That's so crazy. Well, I don't even like casual sex kind of people.

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Ohhhhhh the plot thickens

 

[m1thousand]

Pretty much this.

Me? Its been so long, I dont remember. For me , it is that - this is getting graphic - I have this initial barrier to get through. It hurts until I get my self adjusted and then I'm o.k. but I don't really enjoy it like I see other guys do. I go to chaturbate.com where guys are having real sex on cam and I can see that this is real time and they are fine with it. In it goes. No big deal (but there are some that it is a challenge) and the top pounds away on the bottom and I think Im just not into that. Im a freak, I know

 

[PipRosi]

Check this out, yo:

"The study says that the vast majority of [gay and bi] guys (around 70–75%) preferred kissing, oral sex and mutual masturbation."

Source: https://hornet.com/stories/gay-anal-sex/

So, like, put that in your pipes and smoke it.

 

[m1thousand]

Check this out, yo:

"The study says that the vast majority of [gay and bi] guys (around 70–75%) preferred kissing, oral sex and mutual masturbation."

Source: https://hornet.com/stories/gay-anal-sex/

So, like, put that in your pipes and smoke it.

I would agree with the link. That has been my experience and something I have noticed . . . guys will say they are into kissing, hugging, etc

 

[Peloso]

I started getting bad hemorrhoids about 20 years ago and that ended my anal sex life. They're all gone now but I still don't do it. It's too messy and I've lost touch with all my FWB's.

I find giving head to be more intimate than getting fucked, anyway.

 

[biguy732]

After having my ass eaten out and played with during blow jobs, I started playing with a small vibrator, and now I will sometimes bottom. But I like smaller penises to fuck me - I cannot take a huge cock - hurts too much.

 

[m1thousand]

I BOTTOMED YESTERDAY!!!!

I met a guy and we went to his place. He knew how I felt about bottoming. He fucked me and it felt fine. I think that is because I have used my dildo and I was 'ready' for the feeling. It was fine. It didnt hurt. Yeah, me ;-)

 

[PipRosi]

Oh wow. Practice paid off

My other issue would be wariness of enema type things. Not sure I should mess with my inner processes.

(normally when I say inner processes I mean like depth psychology stuff, tee hee)

 

[m1thousand]

Ive heard that enemas are o.k and enemas are not ok.

I used a barbeque sauce bottle because I dont know where my douching bulb went

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

The person who could answer this best was just banned. *pours out a lil liquor for Belly*

 

[m1thousand]

I bottomed again and it didnt go well. I blame him ;-)

 

[Peloso]

I bottomed again and it didnt go well. I blame him ;-)

It's better to get accustomed to bottoming with the same partner. Different guys have different styles and expectations so there's bound to be some ups and downs (pun intended).

Also, I will be declining invitations to your next barbeque.

 

[m1thousand]

It's better to get accustomed to bottoming with the same partner. Different guys have different styles and expectations so there's bound to be some ups and downs (pun intended).

Also, I will be declining invitations to your next barbeque.

LOL

Im just not into it. I changed my mind. I dont want to get 'effed'

I did go to the gay bathouse last week and there was a guy there. I saw him get fucked by 5 different guys (in the hallway). He got fucked and he would turn around 180 degrees and another guy would fuck him. When he was done, this guy turned around again and another guy fucked him. A large crowd of guys (in the hallway) watched.

Later, it happened again. He got fucked by a guy. He turned around and another guy fucked him.

I saw him in the whirlpool and I told him that was the most amazing thing I have seen at a bathhouse.

I may not be crazy about getting 'effed' but it was hot to see this guy get 'effed' ;-)

 

[olmikee60]

just use lube and relax, lay on a pillow with a clean towel, and enjoy the ride. if you dont want him to cum in you just let him know ahead. have fun.

 

[PipRosi]

The person who could answer this best was just banned. *pours out a lil liquor for Belly*

Ah man, missed the ass sensei. Oh well. Foreplay's better anyway.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Ah man, missed the ass sensei. Oh well. Foreplay's better anyway.

I'm the kween of the forums but Belly is the mistress of anal play. She can take a dick while doing a handstand, or hanging from the ceiling fan. When she returns I'll direct your inquiry to her.

 

[cityboy-stl]

I tried to like anal in the 70s because I thought it is what gay guys were supposed to do.
I never could get used to it. After a year or two, I quit because I decided I just don't like this, and it is not for me.
If I have to pick one, I'd be top, I've got the dick for it. But I'm not a big fan of that either. And I'm too old now anyway, so it doesn't matter.

I am certain I would be dead now if I'd liked it.

 

[PipRosi]

It's amazing how much is based on peer pressure. I guess that's the folly of human culture.

Well weirdly, the first time I tried it worked out pretty well, so I think I imagined it could work out so seamlessly and spontaneously every time. Not the case. And I'm afraid I may be too damn lazy to pull out all the stops. Uh, so to speak.

 

[Nude_Dude]

"Im a lousy bottom". I'm 57 years old and I still can't bottom.

From the moment I realised I was gay - I realised I was put on this earth, to bottom
MANY rears before I was so much as kissed by a man
This "bottom calling" is more an emotional response than anything physical
I wanted to be held by a man, be taken by a man, be penetrated by a man
- and do all I could to please a man

If you've not felt this, I'd say you're not wired for bottoming, naturally

It was these wants and needs that overpowered any type of "pain" I might have felt, from day one
I was 17, when I first gave "my all"

I've gone through a few 'top stages' along my path
But now I'm a 100% total bottom to my man
Totally OUT
It's not quite a case of "bottom pride"
Though I AM "proud" being known as the bottom half in our LTR
I can proudly declare this to anyone who hints at the question
... or to anyone I think would be the better for knowing

And to let "the kids" out there know - there is no "shame" in it

 

[bedbugy]

how does a botton know if the guy has a condom on
ie does the bottom feel it or which is better for the bottom with or without