I would think not. After all, gays are expected to be Democrats, so naturally you're taken for granted by your party. As proof, all you have to do is look at your Presidential candidates and which ones support gay marriage. Corrsect me if I'm wrong, but isn't Kucinich the only one? The great gay savior, Hillary, certainly doesn't.
The flip side to that is, being Gay and Republican is like being an African-American a member of the Ku Klux Klan to many. From what I've seen of the Republican Party, if you're Gay they just want you to stfu and vote like them. Period.
Within the Democratic Party we have a voice, and recogized as a caucus within the National Democratic Party.
Do we get everything that we want? Nope, and we've had to fight for everything that we have recieved. Which is why I say that I understand the frustration that many of my GLBT brothers and sisters within the Republican Party are going through.
However with the current GOP they're damned if they do and damned if they don't in terms of support. If they don't support the GOP they can't have a voice (which they don't appear to have anyway despite the LCR). If they support the GOP they effectively lose their voice within the GLBT Community.
Oooh, ooh! Sign me up for that!
I would think very few of us tow the Republican party line on homosexuality. And, most of the recent restrictions on gay rights have come from initiative petitions or proposed constitutional amendments that are voted on by the electorate.
Two points here.
On your first point I understand that many (well the non self loathing types anyway

), don't support the Republican Party's position on Gays, and that many aren't "single-issue" Republicans, with Gay Equality being a single issue. Personally, as a Gay Man, I don't see where that should always take a back seat, but that's just me.
On your second point, it has always been "religious rights groups/lobby" that have put forth those petitions, and in probably every case Republican dominated State Legislatures who've put forth the Constitutional Amendments.
Otherwise the electorate would, for the most part, be leaving us alone and the rest of our elected Representatives could focus on real legislation and real problems that matter. As opposed to making life difficult for the GLBT Community by constantly using us and our calls for equality a "wedge issue," or famlies as political footballs.
If your argument is that the Democratic Party is just as complicit when they support those types of measures put forth by the GOP then I agree with you.
However, legislating my life away as a Gay Man
is not part of the Democratic Party's agenda. Plain and simple. That can't be said about the current GOP.
If you want change within the Republican Party then change it! How can I help? Otherwise, to many here on this board, posters here appear to just be aiding, abetting, and enabling a party that has declared itself an enemy against us.
I'm not saying, I'm just saying.
