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Relationships without Anal Sex???

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I dont enjoy taking it in the butt. Simple and true. Its probably been three years since I last took it, and I dont like to go up the butt either. Its not a top/bottom thing, as I am neither top nor bottom, I just dont enjoy it.

Any members here in a relationship or been in a relationship where you dont have anal sex? I would like a proper committed relationship but I cant help but think he will expect anal sex and not understand.;)
 
I am open to some anal play but not full on penetration, anyone feel the same, similarly?
 
I like to watch it on video but I dont get that turned on doing it. When I was younger I would let my buddy rub it in my ass crack but never wanted full penetration, and he always wanted me to fuck him but I never wanted to. Like you, I would be happy with just oral sex in a relationship.
 
jft245 said:
I like to watch it on video but I dont get that turned on doing it. When I was younger I would let my buddy rub it in my ass crack but never wanted full penetration, and he always wanted me to fuck him but I never wanted to. Like you, I would be happy with just oral sex in a relationship.
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Ha ha, that's like such a tease. And I can't imagine being in a relationship without buttsex.

I love it too much.
 
jft245 said:
I like to watch it on video but I dont get that turned on doing it. When I was younger I would let my buddy rub it in my ass crack but never wanted full penetration, and he always wanted me to fuck him but I never wanted to. Like you, I would be happy with just oral sex in a relationship.
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ooh what a relief to hear you agree

Im from New Zealand and there isnt quite so much diversity here so I dont meet that many guys who seem like me. Yeah Im just not very turned on by it, I like the look of butts and how they feel somewhat, but I dont really want to go inside so much(*8*)

I do rimming! thats good enough isnt it?????:kiss:
 
and maybe I would do it occaisonally, but I would prefer not to have to just for the other person, I just dont think it will ever interest me much
 
Good thing I still have this card in my deck.

...just shy of half of all gay couples "rarely" or "never" engage in anal sex. Oral is the most common form of sexual interplay between gay couples. So yeah, you're not alone. Yes, you're going to run into a couple guys for whom no anal is a dealbreaker. But those guys probably aren't worth the effort.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
Yes, you're going to run into a couple guys for whom no anal is a dealbreaker. But those guys probably aren't worth the effort.

Lex
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It's a deal breaker to many. Just as no oral is a deal breaker to others. Everyone is different. You must be compatible both sexually and emotionally. Just because you match up with one, doesn't mean it will be "enough". You like what you like. Complaining that someone else who feels differently "aren't worth the effort", is ridiculous.
 
I think you misunderstood. I didn't mean someone for whom anal is a dealbreaker are worthless. I meant they're not worth the effort of attempting to work out a compromise with. It's not worth trying to convince him to give up anal, and it's not worth feeling you have to do anal in order to have a relationship. Not whene there's plenty of people out there for whom it ISN'T a dealbreaker.

Lex
 
willycocks said:
I dont enjoy taking it in the butt. Simple and true. Its probably been three years since I last took it, and I dont like to go up the butt either. Its not a top/bottom thing, as I am neither top nor bottom, I just dont enjoy it.

Any members here in a relationship or been in a relationship where you dont have anal sex? I would like a proper committed relationship but I cant help but think he will expect anal sex and not understand.;)
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I'm not into it! It just doesn't do anything for me... I thought it did at one point... but I realized that I never really 'enjoyed' it, more or less I was just getting it done.
 
Not into anal myself either. Oral is great for me. Course I don't have the time to worry about the anal thing yet. First I have to find a gay guy that likes me in the same way! Then I'll worry about the anal thing! :D LOL
 
G-Lexington said:
I think you misunderstood. I didn't mean someone for whom anal is a dealbreaker are worthless. I meant they're not worth the effort of attempting to work out a compromise with. It's not worth trying to convince him to give up anal, and it's not worth feeling you have to do anal in order to have a relationship. Not whene there's plenty of people out there for whom it ISN'T a dealbreaker.

Lex
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My bad sorry.

It's all about compatibility. Whether top/bottom, oral/anal, furry, leather, or whatever turns your crank. :)
 
^^ Yes sir. It's the right person, the right time, and so many other things. Penetration might not be for everyone, but it shouldn't be rejected.
 
Neji said:
The idea of anal sounds painful and scary to me.
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What's so scary about it? Someone's just putting their cock in your ass, no biggie, I remember my first time. It didn't even hurt.
 
Okay. Everybody likes different things in the world. Really anal sex is something that you talk about with your partner. It's just like how people spell the word Ketchup....or is it Catsup? :D
 
screwnutty said:
Okay. Everybody likes different things in the world. Really anal sex is something that you talk about with your partner. It's just like how people spell the word Ketchup....or is it Catsup? :D
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True true. And I don't know anybody who spells ketchup "catsup"
 
Wow. Funny that I saw this thread because I was just thinking about it the other day. I like the feeling of anal sex (I would be a top if anything), but at the same time, I kind of hate it. I hate feces... and I kind of freak out inside if it's on my dick when I pull out. That smell just permeates my nostrils, and it just lingers there even if you wash it off. But god I love the warmth, tightness, and sensation that comes along with it. Bah. So yeah, I think I'm just stuck in the middle on the topic, and go with what some others have said... I would dabble a little bit in it, but would never make that the basis of intimacy.
 
Giovanni said:
True true. And I don't know anybody who spells ketchup "catsup"
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