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Sex on first date, Yay or Nay?

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So, is sex on the first date a good idea if you're looking for something more meaningful?
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yes, it is. unless you know and love the person enough to do such a thing and honestly know for a fact that that person feels the same way about you, don't even think about going there. i would question someone's motives if they were to toss some ass to me on the first date like you trust me like that enough to fuck you? i'm not in a rush to fuck anyway.
 
Depends on the maturity and/or the trustworthiness of the person.
 
Depends. With the guy I'm dating now. We did wait till the 3rd date. And it was worth it, lol.
 
I prefer sex before the first date. I find the first date is all that less-awkward after swapping fluids.
 
To me is the same as would you eat on your first date?. Depends if your're hungry. Maybe you both sit down to a meal, or one of you grabs a burger when you part at the end of the evening.
 
everybody handles it differently. i usually go all the way on the first date. sometimes i wait until the second date, if im getting a "no sex on the 1st date!"-vibe from him, because i dont want to be too strict about stuff. but hon, but if youre not putting out on the 2nd date, theres not gonna be 3rd one.

my reasoning is that, first of all, i dont equate sex with anything negative, like superficiality or shallowness. i see sex as something wonderful and fun, so i dont see why i shouldnt have sex with a guy on the 1st date.

secondly, its so hard to find somebody who is sexually compatible. im not even that freaky (i think), but just to find someone where the chemistry is right... its so hard. so id rather know from the start if we are even compatible, in the broadest terms. i dont want to spend time and energy on dates, and maybe even start falling for someone, and then find out that we simply dont click sexually. been there before, never going there again.
 
^ Yeah...I agree. Have sex on the first 10 minutes of your date in case he walks out of your date after 30 minutes.
 
It's a tough call. Personally, I wouldn't advise it if you truly hope for a meaningful relationship to blossom from it. At the end of the day though, it's all about chemistry & what feels right in the moment. It's a risky move, 'cos once the sex is out of the way he might have had his fix and want nothing more from you.
 
Sex on a first date is very risky, whether you are looking for something more meaningful or not.
 
Yay
Me and my boyfriend messed around for like 3 days straight when we barely started dating, and we're still together 3 years later , but all in all it depends
 
I would. Though, don't get me wrong, I'm not as slut. Have not had sex much, in two years, lol.. But, no sense in building a "relationship" with a guy, then finding out that, even though you like him a lot emotionally, that there is no chemistry sexually. He might be fun to hang around with, but lousy in bed....or he might think the same about you...;)
 
As one of the "elders" here, I say that it totally depends on the guy.

I've been in both situations.

Personally, I like to get to know a guy a little first before jamming my face on his genitals...:D
 
ronboy said:
Personally, I like to get to know a guy a little first before jamming my face on his genitals...:D
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I'm totally with you there. Couldn't have said it better. Make sure to talk for 15 minutes first...before stripping each other's clothes off :lol:
 
For me, no. I want serious relationships and someone who wants sex on the first date isn't intrested in one.
 
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