It makes sense. But in that case I guess both guys have to consider bad sex as a deal-breaker. And doesn't the sex get better after the guys get to know each other and find out about their likes and dislikes?
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Sex on first date, Yay or Nay?
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It makes sense. But in that case I guess both guys have to consider bad sex as a deal-breaker. And doesn't the sex get better after the guys get to know each other and find out about their likes and dislikes?
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Honestly whats funny....with me sex on a first date means I am not interested in a relationship at all so don't care much about the consequences.
Me turning down sex on the first date (or not instigating) means I am either not into him at all or, inversely, very very into him.
Me turning down sex on the first date (or not instigating) means I am either not into him at all or, inversely, very very into him.
My husband and I actually met at a local club after I had broken up with a douchebag that stole my credit cards and bank info. Luckily I found out after he had only paid his phone bill and I reversed it off, threw him out, and made a police complaint. (I think he is still AWOL from the military because he thinks there are multiple warrants out for him).
Anyway, I had gone to Cobalt for "Retro Tuesday" with my friend Allen. Allen used to be a nude dancer at Wet when it was located in Southeast DC prior to the stadium construction. He and I frequently went out on Tuesdays as friends, fuck buddies, whatever; this week was as friends. We saw Barry and Allen and I both were attracted. Meanwhile, a young attorney had begun making passes at Barry. We were all going to go to breakfast and then home to my house and the hot tub.
At breakfast, Allen was continually texting. Barry hates people who do that at the table and finally called him out: "Are you setting up some ass run or making a drug deal?" he said to Allen who immediately got mad and wanted to leave. So, Barry and the attorney came home to my house. At the hot tub we all were talking and rubbing prior to adjourning to the bedroom.
The young attorney (he was 27) looked at the clock and panicked. "Is it 4 a.m. already?!?!?" he said. When we informed him it was that late, he began whining how his parents didn't know he was gay, he was in the closet, and he worked for the same firm as they. He said he had to be home before they got up. WTF?
So it was then Barry and I in bed and we did what anyone would do -- we had great sex. We began meeting weekly, then twice a week. We went on dates and other events and soon moved to exclusive and then monogamous. Three years later we were married (last March 18) and will soon celebrate our 1st anniversary.
So, while I have and have not shagged on the first date; this one worked out very well!
Anyway, I had gone to Cobalt for "Retro Tuesday" with my friend Allen. Allen used to be a nude dancer at Wet when it was located in Southeast DC prior to the stadium construction. He and I frequently went out on Tuesdays as friends, fuck buddies, whatever; this week was as friends. We saw Barry and Allen and I both were attracted. Meanwhile, a young attorney had begun making passes at Barry. We were all going to go to breakfast and then home to my house and the hot tub.
At breakfast, Allen was continually texting. Barry hates people who do that at the table and finally called him out: "Are you setting up some ass run or making a drug deal?" he said to Allen who immediately got mad and wanted to leave. So, Barry and the attorney came home to my house. At the hot tub we all were talking and rubbing prior to adjourning to the bedroom.
The young attorney (he was 27) looked at the clock and panicked. "Is it 4 a.m. already?!?!?" he said. When we informed him it was that late, he began whining how his parents didn't know he was gay, he was in the closet, and he worked for the same firm as they. He said he had to be home before they got up. WTF?
So it was then Barry and I in bed and we did what anyone would do -- we had great sex. We began meeting weekly, then twice a week. We went on dates and other events and soon moved to exclusive and then monogamous. Three years later we were married (last March 18) and will soon celebrate our 1st anniversary.
So, while I have and have not shagged on the first date; this one worked out very well!
