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I do not honestly understand all or part of a youth's realization that killing is okay because it solves their immediate problems and it seems those students who do go over the edge also commit suicide. If anyone can figure out how to prevent suicidal behavior you need to share with all of us. I've had too many (one is too many) friends kill thenmselves as a way out.
1. Teach society to stop stigmatizing the mentally ill. The late 70s thing of hearing a friend was going to a therapist and saying, "How wonderful!" may be a bit far, but it would be better than treating people like they're old-style lepers (the 'evangelicals' have a lot to answer for here).
2. Take ten billion a year from the Pentagon and use it to fund a comprehensive mental health system focused on those ages 13-23. In that age range, the brain itself is literally unstable as it is undergoing rewiring, and if the brain is unstable the mind is at risk.
3. Authorize, even require, all public institutions which come to the realization that in terms of mental health someone is a danger to self and/or others to report this to their local mental health people, who would then put a "hold" on any purchase of a firearm or ammunition. This would not be a "no sale" in the NICS, but would trigger a requirement for examination to demonstrate stability. Take some more bucks from the Pentagon to pay for this.
4. Develop some sort of peer support network for youth. I was doing some research on large and extended families recently, and there seems to be reason to believe that in times when there were lots of people in or near the home to turn to, youth suicides were fewer. We've atomized society to the point that kids especially feel that there's no one to call on who will really help. Everyone should feel free to do what I did once in college: went to a friend's place and told him I was on the verge of ending it all and I wasn't leaving till I felt safe again. That should never, ever result in rejection, and in fact kids especially should be praised for having the strength to demand help that way.
5. Get through people's heads that platitudes do more harm than good. If someone says they feel like killing themselves, the proper response is to listen, and not leave that person until he/she feels safe. We called this "ministry of presence" in one place I helped out, but that's just an overly-fancy way of saying that not being alone is healing and strengthening!



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