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DeafFoxDemon

DeafFoxDemon

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I am really an shy person. i have an hardtime to go out and meet new people. i want to go out to have fun but i keep change my mind every time. do anyone have same problem as me? also being deaf sometime doesnt help lot. i seem get nervous if i am talking to an hearing guy rather than deaf guy. i am current in my third year of college and i have never ever went to any kind of college parties!
 
Try going out with a friend. It doesn't even have to be anything labeled as "gay". Just enjoy hanging out and learning to socialize while you are with at least one person you know. After a while, you'll begin to feel you are ready to do it on your own.
 
True but i tried many times and i keep get nervous. I never been at a gay club but i do hang with my friends all times.
 
I know what it's like. It's an uphill battle which I'm still battling. :lol:

No advice to give, but you're definitely not alone. 8)
 
Would you be too shy to have someone come to get you to take you with them to parties, and the such. I like you have spent a long time with deafness, and shyness is not the plight of all of us. Can we escort you out of your system of staying close at hand. Are you agoraphobic?

You may PM me if you wish. I hear your concern, and I do understand, and I am clearly suggesting building a bridge out to the world you have not yet explored as gay culture and whatever you believe might be your particular interests.

Ask.
Shep+(!):kiss::wave:
 
Step 1. Come to Eau Claire, WI.

Step 2. Party with kevbo.
 
Shepherd 2 said:
Would you be too shy to have someone come to get you to take you with them to parties, and the such. I like you have spent a long time with deafness, and shyness is not the plight of all of us. Can we escort you out of your system of staying close at hand. Are you agoraphobic?

You may PM me if you wish. I hear your concern, and I do understand, and I am clearly suggesting building a bridge out to the world you have not yet explored as gay culture and whatever you believe might be your particular interests.

Ask.
Shep+(!):kiss::wave:
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if someone take me to a party, i will not be as shy but may be very nervous. what is agroraphbic?
 
I have no idea what it is like to be deaf but I do know that sometimes the hardest step is the first one. Once you take it they get easier and easier.

Just look within your life right now. Your a deaf person going to college to earn a degree! That in itself is an amazing accomplishment that a lot of people with challenges, hell even people with no disabilities don't do.

You have the courage to go out and meet people, you just haven't discovered it yet. Take a chance and push yourself to go out. Find a person or two in your life that you feel you can trust and ask them for encouragement. Have them go with you the first time and I bet you will get over the nervousness before you know it!

Good luck man! ..|
 
Unfortunately there's no simple fix for gaining confidence besides you grasping it yourself. Just focus on how much it can enrich your life, the benefits, the nerves to go out can only stem from you stressing over the negatives involved.

Take a leap and don't look back :)
 
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Unfortunately there's no simple fix for gaining confidence besides you grasping it yourself. Just focus on how much it can enrich your life, the benefits, the nerves to go out can only stem from you stressing over the negatives involved.

Take a leap and don't look back :)
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i know, but i am trying and is not giving up on meeting new people
 
natedogg323 said:
I have no idea what it is like to be deaf but I do know that sometimes the hardest step is the first one. Once you take it they get easier and easier.

Just look within your life right now. Your a deaf person going to college to earn a degree! That in itself is an amazing accomplishment that a lot of people with challenges, hell even people with no disabilities don't do.

You have the courage to go out and meet people, you just haven't discovered it yet. Take a chance and push yourself to go out. Find a person or two in your life that you feel you can trust and ask them for encouragement. Have them go with you the first time and I bet you will get over the nervousness before you know it!

Good luck man! ..|
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Thanks! most of my friends try to get me to go out and have fun but i am such an homebody
 
If you're a homebody, accept it. Don't try to be something you're not just because your friends are more outgoing than you. You don't have to go out to be social. :)
 
By go out, I mean bars and house parties.

Of course everyone should go out...
 
kevbo said:
If you're a homebody, accept it. Don't try to be something you're not just because your friends are more outgoing than you. You don't have to go out to be social. :)
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I am not trying to be like my friends. i like to meet new people and have fun. like go to movies or something. i am def. not a party person
 
I'll go to a movie with you! Or dance lessons or something. I need a better life than drinking ha...
 
One of my friends is deaf and he is easily one of the most adventurous guys I know! He is well read, very social and takes these massive driving trips every year. Much much more than I have ever done!

I do understand where you're coming from though. College can be daunting. It's a huge new world, very different from High School. My recommendaton is to join a club - whatever your interest is there is bound to be a group at university suitable for you. Meet some people on a more social, relaxed level and then, if a college party comes up, you can do together and you won't be so self-conscious.

A college party isn't the best place to interact, I'm afraid. Not a lot of light, and lots of loud music may make it difficult for you to communicate so having a few pals there will help.

All of this takes time. Don't give up and don't let it get you down. GOOD LUCK.
 
sounds like social anxiety to me. go see a doctor, it can be life changing.
 
i dont have that. it just if i go somewhere by myself then i would not even go until my friends go with me.
 
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